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Enid, 51
United States, California, Napa

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About Me

Does anyone know how to have fun anymore? Seriously, life is stressful enough, why let it continue into the weekend? I've climbed the corporate ladder. I'm done raising my children. Now, I'm ready to start checking off my bucket list. I am an independent person, but I'd rather share my life experiences.I have been single for a while, so I am very independent. I want someone who will embrace who I am and add to my life. Call me a hopeless romantic, but I do want the fairy tale. Who doesn't? I want a man who can make a decision, have an opinion and is not afraid to express himself physically and emotionally.I try to stay active. I love to play and to watch sports, some that challenge the body and all that challenge the mind. My favorite sport to play and to coach is volleyball. I haven't gone fishing in a few years, but would love to start again. There's nothing better than a good offshore fishing trip or a lazy day on the lake. My father was a great pool shot. I've been itching to find someone who also enjoys the game of pool.I know how to relax on my time off. I enjoy traveling both in and out of the United States. A hotter climate is always preferred, but sitting by a fireplace or relaxing in a hot tub on a cold winter's night are also nice. I'm not looking for my soulmate. I'm looking for my best friend, someone who loves to stay active and loves to laugh out loud. So, if you're not a player, can make a decision, and actually do what you say, please send me a message. I do want a relationship, but for now, I'd like to date without the pressure of finding the "one." I'm attracted to active, intelligent, athletic men. I exercise on a regular basis, I would want the same from you. If you play volleyball, that's a big plus!If you smoke, I'm not interested. If you are wearing a baseball cap in all of your pictures, I'm not interested. If you are shirtless and not at the beach, on a boat, or sitting poolside, I'm not interested. If you are in a bar or holding a beer in all of your pictures, I'm not interested. And what's up with men who do not post their profession? I'm sorry, but listing your Profession as "I work" or I have one" or "Profession" does not cut it. If you do not have a picture posted, I will not respond. If you only post one picture or if I can't see your eyes, I will not respond.

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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