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Jillian, 51
United States, California, Napa

Offline, last seen Tue, 21 Oct 2025 18:01:32

About Me

I like reading,movies,football,dogs,swimming and I have a self deprecating sense of humor. Big fan of sarcasm,salsa and chips, snowstorms and Seinfeld (see what I did there? They all begin with the letter "S"...interesting? No? Ok,lol. My goal is to be with someone who "gets" me...other than that....my cooking stills are very,very sad....however I have excellent dish washing skills! I think it's important to be able to communicate....at this stage of my life I have no interest in head games. (From what I can tell, the previous sentence is mandatory in all profiles...but how funny would it be if someone actually wrote: game playing appreciated because i'm attracted to guys who are in the midst of a deep homosexual panic and need to over compensate.....lol).I'm 50 and I am a woman who is comfortable with who I am. I'm not a woman who will go out to dinner and order a salad and water,lol. I'm not so much into going to a bar....but if I do go...I like an "old joint"....I was married for 10 years then divorced...then had an 18 year relationship that I should have left much earlier...my son is grown...I feel like this is my time.....oh....one more little teeny,tiny thing: I sometimes have this tendency to go off topic during discussions....for example, we might be having a perfectly lovely conversation about quantum physics or Einsteins Theory of Relativity and I suddenly ask if you've ever seen an Amish person with a wooden leg.....because I haven't. Seriously.....think about it...(sigh....)these are the things that keep me up at night. ;). UPDATE: I apparently need to clarify something....when I said I prefer "an old joint" I meant an old Bar or club. VS a new loud, noisy club.....an. old joint. With a jukebox and a mahogany.bar....lol....not an old joint as in smoking.....lol! ***. Does anyone on this site DATE? I get lots of messages but when I suggest setting up a date, dead silence. Seriously....this isn't rocket science. Get out from behind your computer and lets go on a date! A couple drinks....some laughs....geez.....if its not a "love connection", so what? Big deal! A few hours of laughing will be fun!!!!!! ***.... Not interested in a texting relationship!!!! Coffee or drinks....some flirting....laughing and a really great kiss...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Canadian Caribbean Indonesian Action Mystery Romance
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  • Jannie from Napa | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
    Jannie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love to garden. I have a 5 month old puppy. I am creative (scrapbooking, photos, decorating, re-purposing). I love animals, but I don't "obsess". They are a part of my life, but I don'I't center my life around them. I love nature: water, sunsets, beaches, parks, etc. I am a bit of a handy woman and would love to learn more. I'm not materialistic, but, yes, I want and need things. I hate shopping. Not fond of cooking. Love an intelligent conversation. Can do without sport talk and sport t.v. I love exploring new music I(not hip-hop/rap or country). I love to help others in need - be it the poor, the sick, animals, etc. I don't go looking for it, but if I see it I absolutely offer my help and follow through.I am a very "social" person and strike up a conversation very easily with people, but I would rather stick to a small circle of friends in the long run. My goals? I just want to adjust to life without my son (college) and start a new social life (after 17 years)! I don't want to go out every night to accomplish this. I want to wake up in the morning knowing there is someone in the same town looking forward to a hug, a laugh, and a great kiss!Upsdate: after just a few days on this website I have learned more of what i don't want: if you feel the need to post a picture of yourself w/o a shirt on - I don' need you, if you need to post pictures of your hot tub, your swimming pool and your entire house - don't need you, if you tuck your tee shirt in your pants - don't need you, if your heavy - don't need you, if you are into watching SPORTS - do not need you, if you message every single girl - don't need you, if you can't bother to "chat", "IM", etc., for awhile to get to know each other before going out on that "first date" - certainly don't need you - that's YOUR DESPERATION, not mine., if you claim you don't have a computer - that is completely suspicious to me and other women that you are hiding your search for woman from someone else, most everyone owns a computer. Hard to believe all these men on meetville don't have a computer!!! Don't lie about you having kids. We are not going to be put off. We'll be more put off when we find out LATER! If you want a one night stand: get a whore, go to a bar, or get an escort service. Some of us are serious! IF YOU DON'T HAVE PICTURES (and that is plural) Don't bother! Ha! Been a while! I would really like to have some sort of a picnic/sunset scenario. I have NEVER had that. Always wanted that. It just occurred to me. That's "IT".

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  • Alissa from Napa | Woman | 51 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have a wonderful family and a great group of friends that I love spending time with. I am just missing that special someone. I have three children, two of whom are away at college. I'm a self sufficient, independent woman who is financially stable. I work as a labor & delivery nurse and feel very fortunate to be part of the process in bringing new life into this crazy world. I thoroughly enjoy cooking and entertaining. I love to travel, even if it is just for a short weekend away. I love being outdoors, camping, canoeing, and sitting by a fire. I am looking for someone with a good sense of humor. He is honest, kind, and trustworthy. He is at the point where he knows what he wants in life.

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  • Kerri from Napa | Woman | 52 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    i am very hard working and about to finish my colledge. im pretty laid back and fun to be around . i love to go out a times but quiet and home is good. im very independent but do like someone to treat me right and accept me for me. ive been told im to free spirited but i dont think so. my family is very important to me as i have strong values there. ive been on this site before, dated one man and boy that was a disaster so i will as usual be pretty picky. i have alot in life going for me and say " i can do bad on my own" eventhough i do very well. i have nice apt car and just want someone who i click with but will be my friend also ..being friends as long as lovers is a must... oh one last thing, gota have that coffee everyday...ill be by myself before i get with an idiot so dont *** your not of good character, your wasting both of our times.. meet in a mutual place for a drink or coffee n see wat up with it...

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