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Melinda, 52
United States, California, Napa

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 May 2025 21:51:17

About Me

I can milk a cow and raise chewing tobacco but I prefer not to. I was the second oldest of 6 children. My parents were both Irish although my mother's blood was tainted with a bit of czech and german. I can be a bit stubborn and I do hope to visit the motherland one day and kiss the Blarney Stone.I am blessed to be the mother of two wonderful (mostly grown) children who are away at college.; Hooch) and a karin terrier (Dog in Wizard of Oz).In my spare time I am expanding my horizons by spending time with a couple friends who are single. One is a bit of a Part-time Homemaker Goddess and has made it her mission to prove to me that cooking/baking is a viable option. My children actually now request certain food items which is new as they used to prefer take out. The other is a do it yourselfer in everything to do with your home. From her, I have learned to kill a scorpion single handedly (you cant suffocate them in a jar for anyone wondering about that), flush out the air conditioning pipe, and a few other handy tricks. It hasn't all gone well so I cannot be trusted with electrical tools at this point. So I feel like a renaissance woman in the making.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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