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Carmella, 32
United States, California, San Leandro

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I am trying this again...not sure what I am doing wrong but I haven't had much luck with this site! I am not picky, just know what I want and won't settle. When I say that I am not picky that means that I don't judge. I understand everyone has issues in their lives. However, it's who you areb now that I'm interested in,and what you have learned from your past. I have came a long way in my life over the last year, and I don't want any one to in my life who is going to bring me down from staying focused. That being said...If you don't have a job, car, place to live etc...don't even message me or say your interested! I have two children that I am responsible for, and I don't need a man that can't take care of himself or his family. I don't mean to come across ****y, I am just getting fed up with all the crap that men contact me with. I don't want a one night stand...and no I am not on here to have cyber sex or to talk about my sex life. I am also not on here to be *** want to meet for a date or you don't. So now that I have vented, lol, a little about me. I am a 32 yr old single mom of two boys, 10 and 3. They are a handful. I am a very down to earth woman. I have a very big heart and would still help out an enemy if they were stranded on the side of the road. I believe in forgiveness, not for the person who needs forgiven, but for myself to find peace from the situation. I am not afraid to be myself around anybody, if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best. I love being a smart ass at times, but am very serious when life calls for me to be. Eventually, I would like to meet the man that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. I am in no hurry, I am content being single, and don't "need" a man. I am very independent and don't have time jealousy. If your going to cheat, your going to do it no matter what! I am not going to lose any sleep over it, but you will not be a part of my life after that. My schedule is a little hectic as I have my kids and work over 50 hrs a week, but I am free every Tues night and every other weekend after work. Due to this, I enjoy texts throughout my day from "my guy" or just a call at the end of the night to talk about our day. I'm not into playing by these so called rules someone, somewhere stipulated when it comes to dating, if we click let's have fun and just go with it! Let's do this! Lol! An actual date would be nice!!! Not just talking via ***, or text!! Coffee, drinks, whatever!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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