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Benita, 31
United States, California, San Leandro

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About Me

I love to laugh and I am constantly making jokes. I know how to be serious (when I need to be) but would rather enjoy life as much as I can. I own my own business and work out of my home so meeting someone is a little hard for me. I'm not big into the bar scene anymore...been there, got old {the bar scene...not me lol} although I don't mind going once in a while to grab a drink and unwind. Personally I am more of a have a bbq with a bunch of friends. I just started to work out again, working out twice a day. I'm dead by the end of the day...but it's what you gotta do to get back to healthy right? lolAs for what I'm looking for..Haven't really decided quite yet. Not looking to jump into anything serious...NOT looking for a booty call, hookup or FWB. I've been single for a while now. Went on a few casual dates, but nothing serious. So what's my type? Don't know if I could explain a "type" obviously my type hasn't panned out for me thus far or I wouldn't be single right? So how about some general basics...MUST be ok with kids. I have kids so if you can't handle that like an adult...ciao. MUST take care of yourself. Sorry, I'm just not into overweight guys. I love metal and rock music. Will catch myself listening to country once in a great while, some times hip-hop or something with a good beat while working out. I love tattoos. I have 2 dogs. And yes I am a real person not a computer or creepy man who lives in his moms basement. {I've met a few of those!} So there is just something to get you started...If you like what you see and want to know more feel free to *** I don't respond back..please don't take offense. You're just not my type and I'd rather not respond then sound like a total "B" by *** saying "no thanks" . LET'S GO SKYDIVING!!!! No? Really? :/ Always wanted to try it. Ok...surprise me! =)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Art Activities Chinese Indonesian Mexican South American Comedy Sci-Fi Thriller
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