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Chelsea, 49

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About Me

]b]NOTE: I prefer someone more on the fit or athletic side. It simply is a preference of mine. Thank you for understanding. I appreciate someone that wants to exercise at least a few times a week. It is great stress relief and our bodies are meant for motion! I think at this point for me it is going to be about fun and laughter. I want to take things a step at a time...easy going. If something unique and a monogonous relationship occurs, I won't be afraid....I want something organic... I am an adult and lived alot of life, though some may believe not as much as others. Each person's path is unique...I believe we know pretty quickly if we click....I believe in things happening naturally...we all know it is the physical that attracts us first..a smile, etc.Something unique that makes us notice someone. Chemistry is important and how we relate to each other. Call it a connection, clicking, etc......a relationship can develop if the chemistry and people are right for each other. I am honest about myself and expect the same in another. I can be a little shy or reserved until I feel comfortable around/with someone. I believe in mutual attraction .... physical, mental and chemistry/connection. In order to ever know if there is a good connection, you must meet someone face to face if each seem interested. ULTIMATELY, I would love to meet the man I cannot stop thinking about. Someone that laughter comes easy with and the one that brings a solid smile to my face. The one I cannot wait to put my arms around to hug and kiss. The one I don't want to stop holding his hand. :) Someone I can open up and tell my secrets to...share my passions with...and share my desires and ideas with...I am a romantic at heart and would love to meet someone that still believes in love and when it is right it will find us. That being said...I am in no hurry. I will take my time. Let the right man find me or me find him....one of us needs to find the other one that is for sure, lol! I have 4 small tattoos... one on each foot, one on each ankle. Some do not like tattoos period, regardless if in a non-conspicuous place. If you don't like a woman with tattoos, feel free to pass me by. I like those young at heart & comfortable with themselves. My ex was my junior, so I am not opposed to men younger than myself. That doesn't mean that I wouldn't be attracted to someone my own age or older either. I appreciate a man that is capable of having an opinion and speaking his mind. It means they say what they mean, and mean what they say. I do appreciate a man that has tact/class. I try to eat right and exercise. I do not have a perfect diet myself, but I do try and eat to be healthy. I seek someone that would prefer to be healthy as well.I seek someone with a great sense of humor. I can be silly at times, some sarcasm, noting times of comical timing of things...etc. I can laugh at myself and try not to take myself too seriously.I am also an adult. I am mature & stable. I do not do drugs. I don't smoke. This doesn't mean someone else can't smoke, but I do prefer someone more on the "healthy" side. Recreational drugs are just not an option to be with me, sorry. A drug or alcohol addiction is not something I will be able to deal with.Did I mention I prefer those that like to take care of themselves?I do drink alcohol on occasion and socially. Honestly, I can take or leave it. I don't "have" to drink period....green tea, coffee, water, herbal tea, black tea, juices, etc. are all still good choices to me.I enjoy getting out on the town as much as staying home. I enjoy listening to live music...love live plays and live comedy.I also enjoy stargazing, great conversation and a good movie.What a beautiful thought to be able to wake up to a person each and every day and they look at you thinking how lucky they are to have found you…and you think/feel the same about them. This is what I am looking for. To find a love that they can make you feel like you are amazing, and you the same to them. Make a heart burst with joy. I don’t think this is a dream…I desire to meet a special someone that I can share my dreams with, my deepest secrets with, my deepest desires, silliness, laughs, etc. Enjoy watching/noticing the smallest details about them, listen to their stories/ideas/dreams. I won't settle for less than exactly who is right for me......and frankly, no matter who you are, you shouldn't settle either. :)I am not on this site seeking a FWB, Hook up, etc. type of situation. I miss intimacy...the ability to have that close and personal relationship with another...trust, caring, tenderness, sharing, caressing, kissing...etc.. etc. etc. I want that too and know since I am tactile by nature, whomever I am in a relationship with will need to be a man that doesn't mind touch. I want to share dreams and desires with a special someone one day...I need a man that is capable of giving as well as receiving. I need a man that enjoys taking care of himself. I need a man that is open minded...this means different things to different people. There is so little we know about this world/universe we live in and that includes human beings. I love yoga. I love to feel every muscle in my body having been used when I am through with a class. This means each muscle becomes stronger and keeps my body strong. I seek moments that take my breath away…in nature, in human compassion, in the beauty of the human soul. Dawn, Dusk...beautiful sky…watching the fire dance in a fireplace, watching the snowflakes fall and try to catch them on my tongue. Those were just some examples of the smallest things that make a moment in time...stand still....I am a passionate person. Some are not comfortable with passionate people. Some believe just because someone raises their voice they are angry. This is not always the case...perhaps you raise your voice because you feel strongly about what you feel or think. Ever watch a football or hockey game in total silence? See what I mean? I am not a "religious" person...I am more spiritual if who I am must be described....I have a personal relationship with God/Source of All. Have you read the book by Dr...Proof of Heaven? This might be a great way to describe what I think about God/The Source of All.I am curious and enjoy learning about Quantum Physics, New Science and Biology. What will we have learned in another 20 years? What has been learned already that the average person is unaware of wit The point is to be able to meet someone, get to know them and see if there is interest for meeting again. Dating should be fun and not feel like a job....I believe the whole point is to be ourselves!If we are having to "sell" ourselves then we are not able to be ourselves. :/Thousands of tiny bits of information our brain takes in determines whether we think the person is compatible. This allows us to determine chemistry and/or connection. Enough like of the other person to meet again and get to know more about them, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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