SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Kimberley
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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I shut this down for a couple of months to get through the death of my Mom.Now about to give up again with ***"want to meet" & still waiting for one who can compose a compelling introduction or invitation. Seeking a true gentleman...who has evolved beyond ego, is settled & more spiritual, less selfish than human nature. At least lend me your riding lawn mower 'cause I can't get any help around here!I am a Woman...a Lady...a Mom...an Artist...sometimes a girl...nobody's baby. A man who can treat me like all of these deserves the best of me. The fella I'm seeking is articulate & naturally good natured, intelligent, cool headed & confident. Practice compassion, gratitude and generosity? Must love kids & dogs. Sorry cat wranglers...allergic. Genuinely happy and secure except for missing ONE special lady in your life?I'm an artist & love photography. Love to be by the water, enjoy in it's inspiration & energy. I love my job & have great kids, one is grown up already.I am a free spirit & crave time to myself but am often lonely. I wonder if there are any true gentlemen left out there who love to please the lady who pleases them. Enjoy almost all music, blues, jazz, new age, classic rock but cringe at country. 2 X College Graduate...not ..."some college"I'm optimistic. Observing possibilities.I'm not hung up on looks, but there has to be attraction, interested in advanced thinkers. (& someone not hiding behind sunglasses)I suppose a good relationship is what we really want, but friends must come first.I'm looking for someone who respects and allows freedom but can trust & be trusted in commitment. Not into sex outside of a commitment...means monogamy. Someone who won't sweat the small stuff...and encourages creativity. People tell me I don't look my age but I'm by no means a Barbie. I'm average, well actually quite soft & don't get a chance to exercise much, working & left raising a family on my own. North American average size is 14. I am ***. I am who I am & I do the best I can. Seriously into healthy eating as a lifestyle. Love cooking & concocting... Yes, I'm a good cook but looking for a man who doesn't mind doing the dishes or cooking too.Love knows no boundaries, so if you really want to find the ONE for you wouldn't you be willing to step out of your own home town? I wish everyone to find the perfect match so please do not take offence if I do not answer every message. I will respond if I feel a connection is possible. After all attraction is important. If you were interested in me because of my photo, it's only fair that you have a pic of yourself too.Sorry, I delete favourites, I refuse to be on anybody's back burner.P.S. Photos of a a motorcycle or hiding behind sunglasses...Not appealing. If distance is a deal breaker then please don't waste both of our time with initial contact. (Not into flirting just to pass the time.; 1.Thanks & Best Wishes! Discussing life & what you really desire & like to do. Open to suggestions.
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Sondra
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I think of myself as a very laid back easy going type of person. My son is moving out and heading to college next year so I guess it's time for me to look for something else to do with my free time. I love my job but there's more to life than just work. So outside of my job, I like hanging out with my campground friends. We get together all summer, camping, campfires, and just hanging out at the beach or pool. The winter months... well that's why I'm here. I would like to meet a guy that's easy going as well. Being alone all the time is lonely! I have great friends but it's always nice to have someone special to just be with once in a while. I love cuddling, I'm very passionate and caring. Anyway, stop and say hi. Would love to hear from you! How about getting together for a cup of coffee or drink....
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Milagros
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Can we talk? Seriously, I don't know why this is so difficult! I use to meet men at the deli, driving, baseball games etc. So have men changed? I do see men looking at me, but they seem "sheepish" about approaching...? Why is that? Except for recently, when this guy walked by me a few times, and then actually stopped and talked to me! Unfortunately, no attraction. But at least he "took a shot"! Love that! I am a happy person, and I do believe it shows. I have a very open honest personality, a positive attitude, and good sense of humor. I get along with basically everybody I meet. I have strong values, but not the kind of person which will force them on others. I believe in "live and let live". I am the kind of person who enjoys learning about other people's cultures, languages and faith. I believe that life is so much more than about yourself. If given the chance to chat with someone from another country, religion, or culture, do it. You will be amazed how much we are all actually alike. I hope to find someone who is just as adventurous and open minded.I am very loyal, loving and compassionate. I have learned through experience "nothing is forever"...good or bad. Time keeps moving forward regardless. If you can find someone to "stand still with" for a long period of time, it makes you feel as if you have been able to "stop time". It's a wonderful feeling!! You cannot "fake" chemistry. I am a bit of a "domestic goddess"...lol!! I cook, clean, wash and will massage the soreness out of you. I am very into "taking care of my sweetheart". If you are good to me, I am very good to you. All I require is a man who is respectful, hardworking, healthy, compassionate with a good temperament. I'm not looking for a health nut/gym rat. But if you are a man with weight issues (have a gut, etc), I probably am not the woman for you. Since my cooking will push you closer to being on the "Biggest Loser"...lol...sorry! I would prefer to have a man who is in shape, outgoing, funny, social, full of energy and generous emotionally more than anything else. I'm a bit "old school". By that I mean, I love a man who opens the door for me. Whether it's to a restaurant or car door. Because it's how they were raised, not because they are on "good behavior" for the evening and it's an "act". Trust me, I know the difference. Men who are authentically well mannered, kind, protective and affectionate is a turn-on. Turn-Offs-living with your parents (or not your own residence), not divorced/not single, pushy, demanding, overly aggressive, no personality!I also believe a man should pick-up the phone, and call a woman to go out on a date (women fall in love between their ears!! By hearing your voice!! Not reading your endless texts msgs, and being asked out in yet another text msg!) I know texting is convenient, but it should not be the vehicle for 95% of the communication. Take the initiative (show interest) to discuss the details of the date (where to go, what I like, time, day). If you are chewing food, watching T.V.(loudly), playing a musical ***, guitar etc.), while talking to me, this does not convey I have your undivided attention nor your interest in me is sincere. Either is scheduling/putting off our meeting around a sports event, or favorite T.V. show! If your work, family, kids & friends dominate your life, to the point where it seems like you do not have time for a relationship, then why are you on here? A sense of humor, personality, depth, kindness, and a heart of gold TRUMPS any degree, lack of social skills, shallow, cold, distant, self involved, any day of the week! Yes, a "blue collar" man often is more of a front runner in my book, in comparison to his "white collar" counterparts!! BTW - I have heard stories from some of you, about meeting women who are overweight and don't look anything like their picture. Which I feel is misleading and unfair. With that said, I am more than happy to state I am 5'5", slender, with dark green eyes, and if we meet...you will know it is me...LOL! I still have a Southern drawl...not as strong as it use to be, but it is still present. It's noticeable...LOL! I am very proud of my age, and believe that a mature woman with experience is very sexy! Although most people guess/think I am 10 yrs younger. Which makes me giggle... Whatever is comfortable for both of us. I do love a man "with a plan" though..LOL! If you have a fun and interesting personality (like myself), then we will have a good date no matter where we are!! Here is some other info if you got to this point...1. I don't live with my ex2. I have a car & it runs3. I do laundry4. I like to watch sports5. I own what I have6. I love animals - especially dogs!7. I love cars and engines8. I can stay up past 10pm9. I like discovering new places and people10. I make awesome beef stew!11. I like to take day trips12. I'm not on an anti-depressant13. I will not put you in jail!14. You don't have to block your number from my ex when you call15. I take very good care of my body and mind16. I'm extremely fun!17. I don't do drugs18. I only drink a cup of coffee in the morning19. I have a brain and soul20. I like boats, the ocean, and swimming21. I don't deal with BS (if you are still fighting with your ex, indecisiveness, lack of proper behavior)22. I am known to make people laugh and be thoroughly entertaining!23. Not into "HEAD BANGER" music, long hair, bikers, gang members, or former rock stars (or still trying!!)24. I don't have a crazy ex stalking me25. I like HGTV and the Food Network26. I play well with others27. I have nice everything!28. I like ";29. I don't bring my girlfriends on my date30. I have dimples...on my face not my backside!31. My parents don't live with me32.33. I have morals/values34. I have class and manners35. I have not dated every man in the Tri State!36. I like the Yankees37. I haven't spent time in a rehab38. I am loyal and truthful39. I forgive quickly40. I am very interesting and social