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Kimberley, 47

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I shut this down for a couple of months to get through the death of my Mom.Now about to give up again with ***"want to meet" & still waiting for one who can compose a compelling introduction or invitation. Seeking a true gentleman...who has evolved beyond ego, is settled & more spiritual, less selfish than human nature. At least lend me your riding lawn mower 'cause I can't get any help around here!I am a Woman...a Lady...a Mom...an Artist...sometimes a girl...nobody's baby. A man who can treat me like all of these deserves the best of me. The fella I'm seeking is articulate & naturally good natured, intelligent, cool headed & confident. Practice compassion, gratitude and generosity? Must love kids & dogs. Sorry cat wranglers...allergic. Genuinely happy and secure except for missing ONE special lady in your life?I'm an artist & love photography. Love to be by the water, enjoy in it's inspiration & energy. I love my job & have great kids, one is grown up already.I am a free spirit & crave time to myself but am often lonely. I wonder if there are any true gentlemen left out there who love to please the lady who pleases them. Enjoy almost all music, blues, jazz, new age, classic rock but cringe at country. 2 X College Graduate...not ..."some college"I'm optimistic. Observing possibilities.I'm not hung up on looks, but there has to be attraction, interested in advanced thinkers. (& someone not hiding behind sunglasses)I suppose a good relationship is what we really want, but friends must come first.I'm looking for someone who respects and allows freedom but can trust & be trusted in commitment. Not into sex outside of a commitment...means monogamy. Someone who won't sweat the small stuff...and encourages creativity. People tell me I don't look my age but I'm by no means a Barbie. I'm average, well actually quite soft & don't get a chance to exercise much, working & left raising a family on my own. North American average size is 14. I am ***. I am who I am & I do the best I can. Seriously into healthy eating as a lifestyle. Love cooking & concocting... Yes, I'm a good cook but looking for a man who doesn't mind doing the dishes or cooking too.Love knows no boundaries, so if you really want to find the ONE for you wouldn't you be willing to step out of your own home town? I wish everyone to find the perfect match so please do not take offence if I do not answer every message. I will respond if I feel a connection is possible. After all attraction is important. If you were interested in me because of my photo, it's only fair that you have a pic of yourself too.Sorry, I delete favourites, I refuse to be on anybody's back burner.P.S. Photos of a a motorcycle or hiding behind sunglasses...Not appealing. If distance is a deal breaker then please don't waste both of our time with initial contact. (Not into flirting just to pass the time.; 1.Thanks & Best Wishes! Discussing life & what you really desire & like to do. Open to suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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