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Marian, 48
United States, Texas, Wichita Falls

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I like art, poetry, exercising my brain but most importantly I love to spend as much time with my two "grown" sons as they will tolerate! lol. I enjoy all types of music except bluegrass and heavy metal. The movies I enjoy watching are comedies, suspense/thrillers, some action adventures and of course chick flicks. I don't really care very much for science fiction movies or musicals but I will watch one once in awhile. I'm searching for an intelligent man who can stimulate my mind. I do maintain my own thoughts, dreams, desires and opinions. I was given a very good brain and I do intend to use it until the dementia finally sets in! Lol. I am seeking a good, HONEST man with an open mind and an open heart! I would really also prefer someone with a positive attitude!! I think a man with a great sense of humor is so sexy! I'm actually here looking for a TRUE friend first. If that friendship grows into something else then thats great if not at least I have a good friend. I'm a very loving, caring and passionate person and I miss having that special man in my life. I want to look at the man I'm with and know that he cares for me for who I am. I am NOT looking for a man to pay my bills or take care of me, I can do that myself. I don't have to HAVE a man in my life but I do WANT a man to share my life with. Most importantly I am a grown woman and I know how to treat my man! So if you aren't intimidated by a strong, independent and extremely passionate woman let's have fun together with no pressure from either side, just enjoy one another's company and see where it takes us. We can start with open, HONEST COMMUNICATION and build on MUTUAL RESPECT and GENUINE CARING for one another. "Sometimes the night seems so long...When you lying in bed all alone...And tomorrow seems so far away...I don't want to live another day this way...Scared to let someone in...Can't bear to get hurt again...But my body needs to feel a touch...Someone come and wake me up...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me"..."Don't want to let life pass me by...Never knowing what it's like...To be as real as real can be...To share my life and all my dreams...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me""Cause I'm hurt and I'm scared and I'm lonely...All that I want is somebody to want me...Cause I've got so much to give...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me"***I AM HUMAN! I have made MISTAKES! I will probably make more before I die. I do at least TRY to learn from them and TRY very hard not to repeat them! I think the reason why we make mistakes is to teach us the important lessons in life that we need to learn. Maybe I'm wrong maybe it's just *** stupidity but I'd like to think my suffering has been or will be for some greater purpose. ***I am NOT looking for one night stands nor am I looking to get married tomorrow! Can't we just start as friends and see where it goes? Just be HONEST about what you want! Is that really too much to ask? *** RACE ISN'T AN ISSUE! However, LACK of substance IS an issue! I don't deal well with NARCISSITIC people!*** PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF ANY OF THE FOLLOW APPLIES: • If you are a Convicted Felon • If you have NO Job (At least be looking for a job!) • If you have NO Car • If you have a drug/alcohol dependency • If you are ALWAYS broke • If you have an ISSUE with NOT being able to tell the TRUTH • If you have NO Cell Phone # To Give out • If there is ALWAYS going to be a reason why I can NEVER come to YOUR place • If you Just want a piece of ASS • If you are Into PLAYING mind games • If you LIVE with your "momma" • If you are NOT man enough to handle your OWN business • If you Have double standards when it comes to SEX! Come on guys get it together!!!***QUOTE TO LIVE BY: "It's easy to take off all your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams......That's being naked!" Anonymous***People even if you consider yourself extremely good-looking YOU still need to possess a personality (preferably just one)! Multiple personalities are a little difficult to get to know when starting a new relationship. It would be difficult to discern which one you're dealing with at any given moment. Same goes for someone with any other uncontrolled mental disorders. If you are currently under the care of a psychiatrist and its not going well, it probably is not the best time to be starting a new relationship! Just saying!***Please! Please! Please! STOP with ALL the GAMES people! Just say what you are REALLY about from the beginning! We are all adults here and are too old to waste time with stupid games! Dating really shouldn't be so difficult! Meet for coffee or drinks and have an intelligent conversation and hopefully a few laughs! Get to know each other and see where it takes us. If the chemistry is there hopefully plan date #2!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Ellen from Wichita Falls | Woman | 49 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm a hopeless romantic with a good sense of humor. I'm hoping to find a nice guy looking for a nice gal. I enjoy going to the movies, eating out, spending time at home, getting in the car and driving with no destination in mind, weekend get-a-ways, traveling, reading... lots of things. I'm a pretty easy going person and am slow to anger. I don't like unnecessary drama as life has enough already. I'd like to meet a guy with a great sense of humor. I have two cats so he should like cats or at least tolerate them in a nice way.I know there are a lot of players on here, both men and women. I'm real and I want to find someone real. So, if you're real and you're interested I'd love to hear from you. Coffee? Tea? Lunch or dinner perhaps? Something fun?

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  • Julia from Wichita Falls | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I have had a very tenacious pursuer for the last 5 years and finally said yes.. We are going to travel across the country, hang out and enjoy the scenery...Be a real nice down to earth guy with integrity. Be on time. I am really challenged by some men and their lack of manners, culture and respect for women. I have had the opportunity to meet and break up with a few. I never did date a lot~ two long terms, so it's been an epic adventure. I don't intend to waste my time or anyone else's. I want you to be fit, secure and handsome.. I need you to be affectionate and intelligent and engaged in conversations that matter.. It could range from politics, business to intimacy, but if my brain isn't seduced I do lose interest quickly and get frustrated. I am goal oriented and enjoy my free time & the sponetity I have now. I am not looking to get married or have another family arrangement and just realized that recently.. Reciprocal Brokers license and snowbird this winter.. On to the next chapter of this beautiful chaotic thing called life, but my objective now is to enjoy it fully.. I love to have fun and laugh. I am adventurous by nature and fun loving .I have 0 tolerance for head games or shenanigans unless they are fun. If I start over thinking analytically it becomes too challenging for me and I move on.I am very attracted to tall, but not bodybuilder buff, but built strong & athletic, tone.. Not into the metro sexuals, or passive whiney types.. .. Meaning I like aggressive go getter types, outgoing and confident.. Competitive to the degree they do well in life because they do apply themselves and take chances.. Adrenaline junkie here ha.. Yes I do all of those things as often as possible. Negative energy builds up.. I want positive people only.. Open

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  • Brandie from Wichita Falls | Woman | 49 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Howdy, Here I go again...my heart will not give up or give in. I know true love is out there. I will not settle for anything less than what I deserve! Ive been "thrown back" into the dating scene. I have a few things that I need to make very clear. I am a christian lady and am looking for a christian man! What I mean by that is we have the same values and morals. I do believe in God and attend church regularly (Church of Christ) and want someone who will with me! I am a lady who respects herself. I do not bed hop and am not into free sex. If thats what your after then please move on. I do not care for a man who cusses in front of a woman....yes I know men do that "talk", but leave it with the men. I know that I am different, but also know there is a real man out there who will respect that too! Wow! If you have made it to this point, Im really impressed!!! I am attracted to men of all shapes and sizes. I seem to like the big and tall..teddy bears! I love facial hair and a sexy smile. I tend to look at the heart more than appearances. I think inward beauty out ranks outter beauty. Appearances change over time...we both will grow old! I think its more of how they treat you than looks!!! No smokers . I tend to be shy and timid at first. Look out, when Im comfortable with you its a whole new ball game. I will tease and throw sarcasim your way. I love making that special one happy and smile. If we arent lauighing together or at each other...there is a problem . I am a fun lovin crazy go girl, Laughter is an every daily requirement for me!! HUMOR is a must! Ive been told Im crazy, silly or a goof ball..but I believe if we didnt have crazy then this world wouldnt turn. I am very giving and considerate. I always give of myself first and take care of myself last. (that needs to change) I've always spoiled the one Im with. Im looking to be spoiled! I enjoy laughing, being silly and living life to the fullest. I have 3 grown children. I am 1st grade teacher which suits my silly personality. I am a breast cancer survivor...off with the old and got me some new perky ones. (ask me how they make the nipples)! :)........ I continue to wear wigs..long, short, medium...what ever the mood strikes!I Love romance...what woman doesnt? I love affection and soft slow kisses. Ive been told Im an awesome kisser. Cuddling, holding hands and big bear hugs!!! Sending special notes/text, flowers , or sending a random Im thinking of you....yes I feel thats a daily requirement for a relationship to survive, Yes, Ive sent flowers to my man too! I am an animal lover..dogs especially. I have 2 cats and an Akita. If you dont like pets then we wont work! My pets are my babies! As far as music goes I enjoy country, rock, and 80's. I love live concerts. I enjoy area bands, My favorite is A 70 DISCO band Le Freaki and Spazmatics 80's music. I like watching movies either at home cuddling on the couch or at the theatre. Im not really into the scary movies....yes, I get scared! love most others. I LOVE TO CW DANCE!!!! If you dont we can always work on learning! LOL Ive been divorced now for several years...not by choice. ( Im not real keen on my man having a girlfriend ) Its important to have a "friendship" to where we know each other and can communicate anything we may need to discuss. I think the best of relationships start out as friendships; and when I am ready..... I hope to find a man that can commit; understand and know what a "marriage" is suppose to be. Who will be trustworthy, honest, open, can communicate as well as listern.In other words ..talk it out!!! There is no fairy tale marriage..it takes work...not lets give up and move on, but lets look at what we can do to fix it and continue loving each other. NOT A QUITER! I hope I can find not only a friend, but a dance partner one day for life. I want what most every person in this world wants; to be accepted and loved for the person I am. I want the happy ever after, never ending love.....He is our there in this big"'ocean"! Ya just have to take that chance...... Happy Fishing! I guess thats something we can discuss...

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