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Marian, 48
United States, Texas, Wichita Falls

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About Me

I like art, poetry, exercising my brain but most importantly I love to spend as much time with my two "grown" sons as they will tolerate! lol. I enjoy all types of music except bluegrass and heavy metal. The movies I enjoy watching are comedies, suspense/thrillers, some action adventures and of course chick flicks. I don't really care very much for science fiction movies or musicals but I will watch one once in awhile. I'm searching for an intelligent man who can stimulate my mind. I do maintain my own thoughts, dreams, desires and opinions. I was given a very good brain and I do intend to use it until the dementia finally sets in! Lol. I am seeking a good, HONEST man with an open mind and an open heart! I would really also prefer someone with a positive attitude!! I think a man with a great sense of humor is so sexy! I'm actually here looking for a TRUE friend first. If that friendship grows into something else then thats great if not at least I have a good friend. I'm a very loving, caring and passionate person and I miss having that special man in my life. I want to look at the man I'm with and know that he cares for me for who I am. I am NOT looking for a man to pay my bills or take care of me, I can do that myself. I don't have to HAVE a man in my life but I do WANT a man to share my life with. Most importantly I am a grown woman and I know how to treat my man! So if you aren't intimidated by a strong, independent and extremely passionate woman let's have fun together with no pressure from either side, just enjoy one another's company and see where it takes us. We can start with open, HONEST COMMUNICATION and build on MUTUAL RESPECT and GENUINE CARING for one another. "Sometimes the night seems so long...When you lying in bed all alone...And tomorrow seems so far away...I don't want to live another day this way...Scared to let someone in...Can't bear to get hurt again...But my body needs to feel a touch...Someone come and wake me up...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me"..."Don't want to let life pass me by...Never knowing what it's like...To be as real as real can be...To share my life and all my dreams...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me""Cause I'm hurt and I'm scared and I'm lonely...All that I want is somebody to want me...Cause I've got so much to give...I just want somebody to love me...I just need somebody to hold me...Somebody to love me"***I AM HUMAN! I have made MISTAKES! I will probably make more before I die. I do at least TRY to learn from them and TRY very hard not to repeat them! I think the reason why we make mistakes is to teach us the important lessons in life that we need to learn. Maybe I'm wrong maybe it's just *** stupidity but I'd like to think my suffering has been or will be for some greater purpose. ***I am NOT looking for one night stands nor am I looking to get married tomorrow! Can't we just start as friends and see where it goes? Just be HONEST about what you want! Is that really too much to ask? *** RACE ISN'T AN ISSUE! However, LACK of substance IS an issue! I don't deal well with NARCISSITIC people!*** PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME IF ANY OF THE FOLLOW APPLIES: • If you are a Convicted Felon • If you have NO Job (At least be looking for a job!) • If you have NO Car • If you have a drug/alcohol dependency • If you are ALWAYS broke • If you have an ISSUE with NOT being able to tell the TRUTH • If you have NO Cell Phone # To Give out • If there is ALWAYS going to be a reason why I can NEVER come to YOUR place • If you Just want a piece of ASS • If you are Into PLAYING mind games • If you LIVE with your "momma" • If you are NOT man enough to handle your OWN business • If you Have double standards when it comes to SEX! Come on guys get it together!!!***QUOTE TO LIVE BY: "It's easy to take off all your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams......That's being naked!" Anonymous***People even if you consider yourself extremely good-looking YOU still need to possess a personality (preferably just one)! Multiple personalities are a little difficult to get to know when starting a new relationship. It would be difficult to discern which one you're dealing with at any given moment. Same goes for someone with any other uncontrolled mental disorders. If you are currently under the care of a psychiatrist and its not going well, it probably is not the best time to be starting a new relationship! Just saying!***Please! Please! Please! STOP with ALL the GAMES people! Just say what you are REALLY about from the beginning! We are all adults here and are too old to waste time with stupid games! Dating really shouldn't be so difficult! Meet for coffee or drinks and have an intelligent conversation and hopefully a few laughs! Get to know each other and see where it takes us. If the chemistry is there hopefully plan date #2!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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