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MavisOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I am very down to earth and look for the best in everyone. That being said I believe we should take pride in the gifts God has given us and I am looking for someone who takes care of themselves mentally and physically. I love outdoor activities, boating, hiking outdoor concerts, snow and water skiing amoung other things. I work out at 24 Hr Fitness ***hours a week and try to make it to church and Sunday school every week. I try my best to live by the Golden Rule and to not be judgemental. I love animals and have had cats, dogs, pot bellied pigs, lizards, snakes and a donkey for pets. I think you can learn alot about a person watching their interaction with animals. I am open but, prefer to meet in a public place over a drink or coffee. *** and forth can only go so far. Meeting is imperative to determine if we have any kind of spark or commonality. I am a big romantic and I don't like bs. Honesty and just being yourself are what impress me. You don't have to be rich to be my man. Hard and honest work are what counts, you don't have to be a billionaire. I love to travel and hope to do much more. Of course, I guess we will not be traveling much on our first date. I look forward to meeting a really good man!
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MilagrosOnline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Can we talk? Seriously, I don't know why this is so difficult! I use to meet men at the deli, driving, baseball games etc. So have men changed? I do see men looking at me, but they seem "sheepish" about approaching...? Why is that? Except for recently, when this guy walked by me a few times, and then actually stopped and talked to me! Unfortunately, no attraction. But at least he "took a shot"! Love that! I am a happy person, and I do believe it shows. I have a very open honest personality, a positive attitude, and good sense of humor. I get along with basically everybody I meet. I have strong values, but not the kind of person which will force them on others. I believe in "live and let live". I am the kind of person who enjoys learning about other people's cultures, languages and faith. I believe that life is so much more than about yourself. If given the chance to chat with someone from another country, religion, or culture, do it. You will be amazed how much we are all actually alike. I hope to find someone who is just as adventurous and open minded.I am very loyal, loving and compassionate. I have learned through experience "nothing is forever"...good or bad. Time keeps moving forward regardless. If you can find someone to "stand still with" for a long period of time, it makes you feel as if you have been able to "stop time". It's a wonderful feeling!! You cannot "fake" chemistry. I am a bit of a "domestic goddess"...lol!! I cook, clean, wash and will massage the soreness out of you. I am very into "taking care of my sweetheart". If you are good to me, I am very good to you. All I require is a man who is respectful, hardworking, healthy, compassionate with a good temperament. I'm not looking for a health nut/gym rat. But if you are a man with weight issues (have a gut, etc), I probably am not the woman for you. Since my cooking will push you closer to being on the "Biggest Loser"...lol...sorry! I would prefer to have a man who is in shape, outgoing, funny, social, full of energy and generous emotionally more than anything else. I'm a bit "old school". By that I mean, I love a man who opens the door for me. Whether it's to a restaurant or car door. Because it's how they were raised, not because they are on "good behavior" for the evening and it's an "act". Trust me, I know the difference. Men who are authentically well mannered, kind, protective and affectionate is a turn-on. Turn-Offs-living with your parents (or not your own residence), not divorced/not single, pushy, demanding, overly aggressive, no personality!I also believe a man should pick-up the phone, and call a woman to go out on a date (women fall in love between their ears!! By hearing your voice!! Not reading your endless texts msgs, and being asked out in yet another text msg!) I know texting is convenient, but it should not be the vehicle for 95% of the communication. Take the initiative (show interest) to discuss the details of the date (where to go, what I like, time, day). If you are chewing food, watching T.V.(loudly), playing a musical ***, guitar etc.), while talking to me, this does not convey I have your undivided attention nor your interest in me is sincere. Either is scheduling/putting off our meeting around a sports event, or favorite T.V. show! If your work, family, kids & friends dominate your life, to the point where it seems like you do not have time for a relationship, then why are you on here? A sense of humor, personality, depth, kindness, and a heart of gold TRUMPS any degree, lack of social skills, shallow, cold, distant, self involved, any day of the week! Yes, a "blue collar" man often is more of a front runner in my book, in comparison to his "white collar" counterparts!! BTW - I have heard stories from some of you, about meeting women who are overweight and don't look anything like their picture. Which I feel is misleading and unfair. With that said, I am more than happy to state I am 5'5", slender, with dark green eyes, and if we meet...you will know it is me...LOL! I still have a Southern drawl...not as strong as it use to be, but it is still present. It's noticeable...LOL! I am very proud of my age, and believe that a mature woman with experience is very sexy! Although most people guess/think I am 10 yrs younger. Which makes me giggle... Whatever is comfortable for both of us. I do love a man "with a plan" though..LOL! If you have a fun and interesting personality (like myself), then we will have a good date no matter where we are!! Here is some other info if you got to this point...1. I don't live with my ex2. I have a car & it runs3. I do laundry4. I like to watch sports5. I own what I have6. I love animals - especially dogs!7. I love cars and engines8. I can stay up past 10pm9. I like discovering new places and people10. I make awesome beef stew!11. I like to take day trips12. I'm not on an anti-depressant13. I will not put you in jail!14. You don't have to block your number from my ex when you call15. I take very good care of my body and mind16. I'm extremely fun!17. I don't do drugs18. I only drink a cup of coffee in the morning19. I have a brain and soul20. I like boats, the ocean, and swimming21. I don't deal with BS (if you are still fighting with your ex, indecisiveness, lack of proper behavior)22. I am known to make people laugh and be thoroughly entertaining!23. Not into "HEAD BANGER" music, long hair, bikers, gang members, or former rock stars (or still trying!!)24. I don't have a crazy ex stalking me25. I like HGTV and the Food Network26. I play well with others27. I have nice everything!28. I like ";29. I don't bring my girlfriends on my date30. I have dimples...on my face not my backside!31. My parents don't live with me32.33. I have morals/values34. I have class and manners35. I have not dated every man in the Tri State!36. I like the Yankees37. I haven't spent time in a rehab38. I am loyal and truthful39. I forgive quickly40. I am very interesting and social
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ChelseaOffline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
]b]NOTE: I prefer someone more on the fit or athletic side. It simply is a preference of mine. Thank you for understanding. I appreciate someone that wants to exercise at least a few times a week. It is great stress relief and our bodies are meant for motion! I think at this point for me it is going to be about fun and laughter. I want to take things a step at a time...easy going. If something unique and a monogonous relationship occurs, I won't be afraid....I want something organic... I am an adult and lived alot of life, though some may believe not as much as others. Each person's path is unique...I believe we know pretty quickly if we click....I believe in things happening naturally...we all know it is the physical that attracts us first..a smile, etc.Something unique that makes us notice someone. Chemistry is important and how we relate to each other. Call it a connection, clicking, etc......a relationship can develop if the chemistry and people are right for each other. I am honest about myself and expect the same in another. I can be a little shy or reserved until I feel comfortable around/with someone. I believe in mutual attraction .... physical, mental and chemistry/connection. In order to ever know if there is a good connection, you must meet someone face to face if each seem interested. ULTIMATELY, I would love to meet the man I cannot stop thinking about. Someone that laughter comes easy with and the one that brings a solid smile to my face. The one I cannot wait to put my arms around to hug and kiss. The one I don't want to stop holding his hand. :) Someone I can open up and tell my secrets to...share my passions with...and share my desires and ideas with...I am a romantic at heart and would love to meet someone that still believes in love and when it is right it will find us. That being said...I am in no hurry. I will take my time. Let the right man find me or me find him....one of us needs to find the other one that is for sure, lol! I have 4 small tattoos... one on each foot, one on each ankle. Some do not like tattoos period, regardless if in a non-conspicuous place. If you don't like a woman with tattoos, feel free to pass me by. I like those young at heart & comfortable with themselves. My ex was my junior, so I am not opposed to men younger than myself. That doesn't mean that I wouldn't be attracted to someone my own age or older either. I appreciate a man that is capable of having an opinion and speaking his mind. It means they say what they mean, and mean what they say. I do appreciate a man that has tact/class. I try to eat right and exercise. I do not have a perfect diet myself, but I do try and eat to be healthy. I seek someone that would prefer to be healthy as well.I seek someone with a great sense of humor. I can be silly at times, some sarcasm, noting times of comical timing of things...etc. I can laugh at myself and try not to take myself too seriously.I am also an adult. I am mature & stable. I do not do drugs. I don't smoke. This doesn't mean someone else can't smoke, but I do prefer someone more on the "healthy" side. Recreational drugs are just not an option to be with me, sorry. A drug or alcohol addiction is not something I will be able to deal with.Did I mention I prefer those that like to take care of themselves?I do drink alcohol on occasion and socially. Honestly, I can take or leave it. I don't "have" to drink period....green tea, coffee, water, herbal tea, black tea, juices, etc. are all still good choices to me.I enjoy getting out on the town as much as staying home. I enjoy listening to live music...love live plays and live comedy.I also enjoy stargazing, great conversation and a good movie.What a beautiful thought to be able to wake up to a person each and every day and they look at you thinking how lucky they are to have found you…and you think/feel the same about them. This is what I am looking for. To find a love that they can make you feel like you are amazing, and you the same to them. Make a heart burst with joy. I don’t think this is a dream…I desire to meet a special someone that I can share my dreams with, my deepest secrets with, my deepest desires, silliness, laughs, etc. Enjoy watching/noticing the smallest details about them, listen to their stories/ideas/dreams. I won't settle for less than exactly who is right for me......and frankly, no matter who you are, you shouldn't settle either. :)I am not on this site seeking a FWB, Hook up, etc. type of situation. I miss intimacy...the ability to have that close and personal relationship with another...trust, caring, tenderness, sharing, caressing, kissing...etc.. etc. etc. I want that too and know since I am tactile by nature, whomever I am in a relationship with will need to be a man that doesn't mind touch. I want to share dreams and desires with a special someone one day...I need a man that is capable of giving as well as receiving. I need a man that enjoys taking care of himself. I need a man that is open minded...this means different things to different people. There is so little we know about this world/universe we live in and that includes human beings. I love yoga. I love to feel every muscle in my body having been used when I am through with a class. This means each muscle becomes stronger and keeps my body strong. I seek moments that take my breath away…in nature, in human compassion, in the beauty of the human soul. Dawn, Dusk...beautiful sky…watching the fire dance in a fireplace, watching the snowflakes fall and try to catch them on my tongue. Those were just some examples of the smallest things that make a moment in time...stand still....I am a passionate person. Some are not comfortable with passionate people. Some believe just because someone raises their voice they are angry. This is not always the case...perhaps you raise your voice because you feel strongly about what you feel or think. Ever watch a football or hockey game in total silence? See what I mean? I am not a "religious" person...I am more spiritual if who I am must be described....I have a personal relationship with God/Source of All. Have you read the book by Dr...Proof of Heaven? This might be a great way to describe what I think about God/The Source of All.I am curious and enjoy learning about Quantum Physics, New Science and Biology. What will we have learned in another 20 years? What has been learned already that the average person is unaware of wit The point is to be able to meet someone, get to know them and see if there is interest for meeting again. Dating should be fun and not feel like a job....I believe the whole point is to be ourselves!If we are having to "sell" ourselves then we are not able to be ourselves. :/Thousands of tiny bits of information our brain takes in determines whether we think the person is compatible. This allows us to determine chemistry and/or connection. Enough like of the other person to meet again and get to know more about them, etc.