SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Brooke
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I'm hoping to find what most people on dating sites are searching for: someone whom I have a special affinity with. There definitely needs to be chemistry, but friendship is just as important.I tend to go with the flow and love trying new things. Dining out is great, but I also enjoy cooking for someone special. Staying healthy and fit is important to me, although I'm not a health nut (I love pizza, cheesecake and fried food...moderation is key). No matter how busy I may be, I always make time to work out at the gym at least a few days a week...it's a lifestyle. I can listen to almost any type of music, but I especially like alternative and classic rock. The type of guy I'm usually attracted to is intelligent, confident, family-oriented (involved in his kids' lives and has a great relationship with his mom/dad), fit and loves to be active, can make me laugh and loves to have fun. He' taller than I (I'm usually in heels, which makes me about 6' tall). He doesn't need to impress and is very generous with his time and attention (not joined at the hip though). We wouldn't be a good match if you prefer to sit in front of the TV every night or dislike your job, complain a lot, or talk badly about your ex...we should own up to our share of why the relationship failed.Please do not be offended if I don't respond...I just didn't think we'd be a good match. There are way too many single men on here trying to make a connection, and I wouldn't want to give the wrong impression by sending an ***, what's with not posting a picture? Are you in the witness protection program? Or maybe a district court judge or secret agent? Own who you are and what you do.Good luck in your search. I prefer to meet for coffee or a quick drink.
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Milagros
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
Can we talk? Seriously, I don't know why this is so difficult! I use to meet men at the deli, driving, baseball games etc. So have men changed? I do see men looking at me, but they seem "sheepish" about approaching...? Why is that? Except for recently, when this guy walked by me a few times, and then actually stopped and talked to me! Unfortunately, no attraction. But at least he "took a shot"! Love that! I am a happy person, and I do believe it shows. I have a very open honest personality, a positive attitude, and good sense of humor. I get along with basically everybody I meet. I have strong values, but not the kind of person which will force them on others. I believe in "live and let live". I am the kind of person who enjoys learning about other people's cultures, languages and faith. I believe that life is so much more than about yourself. If given the chance to chat with someone from another country, religion, or culture, do it. You will be amazed how much we are all actually alike. I hope to find someone who is just as adventurous and open minded.I am very loyal, loving and compassionate. I have learned through experience "nothing is forever"...good or bad. Time keeps moving forward regardless. If you can find someone to "stand still with" for a long period of time, it makes you feel as if you have been able to "stop time". It's a wonderful feeling!! You cannot "fake" chemistry. I am a bit of a "domestic goddess"...lol!! I cook, clean, wash and will massage the soreness out of you. I am very into "taking care of my sweetheart". If you are good to me, I am very good to you. All I require is a man who is respectful, hardworking, healthy, compassionate with a good temperament. I'm not looking for a health nut/gym rat. But if you are a man with weight issues (have a gut, etc), I probably am not the woman for you. Since my cooking will push you closer to being on the "Biggest Loser"...lol...sorry! I would prefer to have a man who is in shape, outgoing, funny, social, full of energy and generous emotionally more than anything else. I'm a bit "old school". By that I mean, I love a man who opens the door for me. Whether it's to a restaurant or car door. Because it's how they were raised, not because they are on "good behavior" for the evening and it's an "act". Trust me, I know the difference. Men who are authentically well mannered, kind, protective and affectionate is a turn-on. Turn-Offs-living with your parents (or not your own residence), not divorced/not single, pushy, demanding, overly aggressive, no personality!I also believe a man should pick-up the phone, and call a woman to go out on a date (women fall in love between their ears!! By hearing your voice!! Not reading your endless texts msgs, and being asked out in yet another text msg!) I know texting is convenient, but it should not be the vehicle for 95% of the communication. Take the initiative (show interest) to discuss the details of the date (where to go, what I like, time, day). If you are chewing food, watching T.V.(loudly), playing a musical ***, guitar etc.), while talking to me, this does not convey I have your undivided attention nor your interest in me is sincere. Either is scheduling/putting off our meeting around a sports event, or favorite T.V. show! If your work, family, kids & friends dominate your life, to the point where it seems like you do not have time for a relationship, then why are you on here? A sense of humor, personality, depth, kindness, and a heart of gold TRUMPS any degree, lack of social skills, shallow, cold, distant, self involved, any day of the week! Yes, a "blue collar" man often is more of a front runner in my book, in comparison to his "white collar" counterparts!! BTW - I have heard stories from some of you, about meeting women who are overweight and don't look anything like their picture. Which I feel is misleading and unfair. With that said, I am more than happy to state I am 5'5", slender, with dark green eyes, and if we meet...you will know it is me...LOL! I still have a Southern drawl...not as strong as it use to be, but it is still present. It's noticeable...LOL! I am very proud of my age, and believe that a mature woman with experience is very sexy! Although most people guess/think I am 10 yrs younger. Which makes me giggle... Whatever is comfortable for both of us. I do love a man "with a plan" though..LOL! If you have a fun and interesting personality (like myself), then we will have a good date no matter where we are!! Here is some other info if you got to this point...1. I don't live with my ex2. I have a car & it runs3. I do laundry4. I like to watch sports5. I own what I have6. I love animals - especially dogs!7. I love cars and engines8. I can stay up past 10pm9. I like discovering new places and people10. I make awesome beef stew!11. I like to take day trips12. I'm not on an anti-depressant13. I will not put you in jail!14. You don't have to block your number from my ex when you call15. I take very good care of my body and mind16. I'm extremely fun!17. I don't do drugs18. I only drink a cup of coffee in the morning19. I have a brain and soul20. I like boats, the ocean, and swimming21. I don't deal with BS (if you are still fighting with your ex, indecisiveness, lack of proper behavior)22. I am known to make people laugh and be thoroughly entertaining!23. Not into "HEAD BANGER" music, long hair, bikers, gang members, or former rock stars (or still trying!!)24. I don't have a crazy ex stalking me25. I like HGTV and the Food Network26. I play well with others27. I have nice everything!28. I like ";29. I don't bring my girlfriends on my date30. I have dimples...on my face not my backside!31. My parents don't live with me32.33. I have morals/values34. I have class and manners35. I have not dated every man in the Tri State!36. I like the Yankees37. I haven't spent time in a rehab38. I am loyal and truthful39. I forgive quickly40. I am very interesting and social
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Josephine
Online
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I am a 47 year old woman with an eight year old daughter. I am sociable, funny so I am told, love to laugh, dance and even write my own songs. I am not American Idol quality, but I can carry a tune from time to time. The ideal man for me would be someone who is interested in taking care of his overall health, likes to exercise and eat healthy with me. Outgoing and spontaneous are great qualities, but sitting home and watching a movie from time to time is fine too. I did say that I have a daughter so ultimately it would be nice if the three of us could get together and do fun activities together. Overall, I am an easygoing very affectionate person. I prefer someone who is clean, neat and organized. Although I am a teacher by profession, I have not taught in seven years because I have taken off to raise my daughter. In the interim, I have been working on my own businesses. I love languages and would eventually love to travel and explore different cultures. I am most definitely an animal lover as well. Looking for the man that is most compatible with me for a long lasting perhaps lifetime commitment............ A first date could be just going for lunch or a cup of coffee or a drink. Nothing fancy!!!!