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Merle, 49

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About Me

I am a 49 year old single mom who likes to have fun with my son and his friends - we play COD, basketball, tennis, bowling, movies. I feel like I'm still twenty (I think most of us do) :) and now that my sons are eighteen and moving forward in their lives, I feel like it's time to meet someone to hang out with and have some fun. I find alot of adults to be boring and too serious. I try not to take things too seriously and want to enjoy life. I like going to hockey games, would definitely like to go to NBA game sometime ( that would be exciting ) and concerts. I love movies, like yoga and zumba, dining out, and just hanging out with good conversation. I don't like smokers or people that llike to drink alot or all the time. I guess that's it for now. maybe just a coffee and some conversation cause I think you can tell right away if someone can be a friend or if there's no interest and then possibility of dinner or go for walk if things feel right.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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