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Jenifer, 47
United States, Virginia, Springfield

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About Me

The last fifteen percent required to complete this profile was painful!! And it WAS written nearly two years ago, so after taking a year sabbatical, I'll try to freshen it up a bit and bring it current, slowly, but surely. Besides myself being straightforward, I also appreciate honesty and directness, in others too. I strive to be laid back...and sometimes I succeed! I don’t like to get into many hurried habits, and try to give myself some quiet space to slow things down if needed. I find that I really enjoy many simple things in life and I tend to be very present and appreciate what I'm doing at that moment. The times I feel most alive and peaceful are when I'm doing most anything outdoors. Some of the things I love are: hiking, biking, running, gardening, camping (tent, dispersed), scrambling up and over rocks, jumping into and swimming in water and kayaking, My kids are in their early teens and are getting to that age where they often like to do their own thing alone or with their friends. Although I still enjoy and appreciate the times when we can be together, I'm sensing it's time for me to be doing some more things for me and it's a transition...This (dating) is PART of that process...um...adventure? :) I love to find humor around me. I enjoy getting others to laugh too and tend to find (and point out) the quirky things that go on every day. I won’t be found laughing at someone else’s expense, unless it’s my own. I'm usually pretty upbeat and look at the positive side of things.) and usually try to give them the benefit of the doubt. I hope to find this deference in someone else, that is a tendency to not be too critical of others.I’ve always enjoyed learning new things or exploring new areas of thought and asking questions like, ‘why do people/societies/kids (etc.) do the things they do?’ I’m not a Chatty Cathy by any means, but I do enjoy engaging in thoughtful discussions. I’m fairly open-minded, although it might take a bit of time to wrap my mind around certain ideas. I tend to see both sides of most situations. Nothing is Black or White to me, only many shades of Grey. I’m glad of this, but at the same time, that means I can be slow and thoughtful when making decisions. But...spontaneity is enjoyed by me as well!I think I'm in a good space right now and look forward to meeting others (or one "other"), but honestly, I'm a bit apprehensive as well. It's been a long time (a couple of decades!) since I've dated much, so a little nervous and excited, all rolled into one!. I feel it's hard to really tell what someone's like from their profile (but I do get a kick out of reading some!). Probably meeting a time or two, is a better gauge as to what type of a connection we may or may not have together. I’m looking forward to a connection, when the right person comes along. And who knows,...it might be you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adventure Animation Martial Arts
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I’ve been divorced for a few years and feel it\'s time to make new friends. I\'m a funny and sensitive person. I’d love to find someone who loves Christ. I’m not a religious, but a relationship person.

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  • Lora from Springfield | Woman | 49 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm a gal with a big heart whose fun loving, adventurous, full of life and extremely loyal to those close to me. I have been single for a while and have found it's been a lot harder than I originally anticipated in finding a compatible man. Maybe I am too picky, but I would rather say that I won't settle as at this point in my life I am looking for my "last love of my life." I am not 'needing' a man, as I am extremely independent and can definitely handle things on my own, but admit I miss having a loving man in my life, one whom softens the blows of every day life, and will give me a warm hug and passionate kiss on a bad day. I don't date just to go out.....I am extremely picky on whom I spend time with as I am a mother of two children and would rather spend my extra time with them than spend it with someone I'm not really excited about. I adore kids, so if you have them great -- it not, I hope you have room in your heart to accept mine, as they are wonderful and deserve the best, just as your children do too.On our first date, let's just meet for a drink and see if the chemistry is there -- physical attraction is a must, yet it comes in so many different forms. I am extremely attracted to a smile, a sense of humor, a person's compassion, drive and ambition and could really care less if you work out in a gym five days a week! If you are a couch potato, downer Dave or a momma's boy, please pass me up -- I've had enough of those to last a lifetime really!So if you like what you read and see, drop me a note and let's meet -- you just never know right, and at least we could make a new friend if nothing more!Good luck with your fishing!!! :)

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  • Amy from Springfield | Woman | 46 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    This is the part that I would rather do in person, but here it goes. I love to run and be outdoors. I will have to say I'm not a big fan of winter. I would rather hang at the beach. There is nothing better than a good movie and a glass of wine on a cold winters night though. So I guess I like winter when I'm curled up and watching it from my couch. I love to hang in the city but would be perfectly happy hanging out in the barn or riding a quad through the woods. Well I guess if you wanna know more you will have to ask.Say what you mean and mean what you say. I am looking for a best friend, lover and someone to share the every day events with. If you are looking for the "booty call", please keep moving. I workout ***times a week and I would like to spend time with someone who likes to be active. I'm not saying you have to workout and be at the gym all the time, but please enjoy being active not just changing channels.****Update:ok I'm gonna try to give this one more try. If your a playa and just want pictures of boobs and ass, keep walking. Please be honest, real and fresh. I don't want to chat back and forth on this site. Listen, if you really want to meet a real women that enjoys life and loves to love, then get up and take a stand!! So here we go.........***Ok, this will be my last update, if you are wanting to communicate FOREVER on this site and never move forward, I only have one thing to say. Step back and stay back because I am moving on without you. Good grief guys, enough with the little boy games. Oh, and one more thing, if you are on this site because you are bored because you ain't got no job, then keep on steppin. I will not date someone for the sake of dating. I am cool with my world and won't have someone draggin around it. I hope to find someone who will treat me like a lady. Have a drink, nice conversation and hopefully want to know more about each other.

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