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Jenifer, 47
United States, Virginia, Springfield

Offline, last seen Sat, 04 Jul 2026 14:17:05

About Me

The last fifteen percent required to complete this profile was painful!! And it WAS written nearly two years ago, so after taking a year sabbatical, I'll try to freshen it up a bit and bring it current, slowly, but surely. Besides myself being straightforward, I also appreciate honesty and directness, in others too. I strive to be laid back...and sometimes I succeed! I don’t like to get into many hurried habits, and try to give myself some quiet space to slow things down if needed. I find that I really enjoy many simple things in life and I tend to be very present and appreciate what I'm doing at that moment. The times I feel most alive and peaceful are when I'm doing most anything outdoors. Some of the things I love are: hiking, biking, running, gardening, camping (tent, dispersed), scrambling up and over rocks, jumping into and swimming in water and kayaking, My kids are in their early teens and are getting to that age where they often like to do their own thing alone or with their friends. Although I still enjoy and appreciate the times when we can be together, I'm sensing it's time for me to be doing some more things for me and it's a transition...This (dating) is PART of that process...um...adventure? :) I love to find humor around me. I enjoy getting others to laugh too and tend to find (and point out) the quirky things that go on every day. I won’t be found laughing at someone else’s expense, unless it’s my own. I'm usually pretty upbeat and look at the positive side of things.) and usually try to give them the benefit of the doubt. I hope to find this deference in someone else, that is a tendency to not be too critical of others.I’ve always enjoyed learning new things or exploring new areas of thought and asking questions like, ‘why do people/societies/kids (etc.) do the things they do?’ I’m not a Chatty Cathy by any means, but I do enjoy engaging in thoughtful discussions. I’m fairly open-minded, although it might take a bit of time to wrap my mind around certain ideas. I tend to see both sides of most situations. Nothing is Black or White to me, only many shades of Grey. I’m glad of this, but at the same time, that means I can be slow and thoughtful when making decisions. But...spontaneity is enjoyed by me as well!I think I'm in a good space right now and look forward to meeting others (or one "other"), but honestly, I'm a bit apprehensive as well. It's been a long time (a couple of decades!) since I've dated much, so a little nervous and excited, all rolled into one!. I feel it's hard to really tell what someone's like from their profile (but I do get a kick out of reading some!). Probably meeting a time or two, is a better gauge as to what type of a connection we may or may not have together. I’m looking forward to a connection, when the right person comes along. And who knows,...it might be you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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