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Elma, 50
United States, Virginia, Springfield

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About Me

I am an independent woman but want a man that desires to care for a woman in every way. I am very busy with my family and daily life but does not mean I don't have time to take care of my man. I am looking for someone that brings out the best in me not bring out stress in me. I have no desire to be a sugar momma or any other type mom to a man. Speaking of a mom, I have kids that are grown but am very involved with them so you must see family as important. I do not want to be with someone that is not independent, good work ethics, job, car, not live with mommy unless it is cause of their health issues lol. I want to go out without being a financial burden. Want to travel, go see and experience the world. I like to go dancing, movies, dinner, friends hanging out, but just as happy to stay home cuddle watch good movie, play games, or just talk cause we choose to stay home not cause we can only go out if I pay as the man does not work or have money. As you can tell finding a lot of problems lol otherwise I am a fun person, with good personality that can be easy to love, As far as a first date, after some communication to get to know each other, would like to go out to a nice dinner with good conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    . I like to camp under the stars yet also enjoy a five star hotel. Hate to play games because im always the winner. lol im just really looking for someone to share life with someone to care about i love the outdoors i can catch it cook it and eat it lol. it has to be someone with awsome chemistrey i think thats important.i love to laugh and make others do the same must like pets i have a few so lets have some fun. it would be so awesome to fall in love and have some one to share life with . if all your looking for is sex thats great but not for me i would love to find an honest caring funny adventurious person I'm the kind of woman who likes to live in the moment.So the posabilties are endless.

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  • Patricia from Springfield | Woman | 49 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I have been blessed with 2 beautiful children who are grown and out of the house. Now I find myself looking for my other half. I am a positive person who believes a great relationship requires honesty, open communication, respect, adventure and passion!!! It's so important to let that special person know your thinking of them. It doesn't have to be in a big way. It can be in a note, a glance when you know what they are thinking ;) ...making their favorite dish, doing something for them that you know they don't want to do... etc...I think it keeps the love alive. I am a spontaneous person and have been know to plan last minute trips for fun...why not, you're not here to let life pass you by! So take a chance and let me know you're interested! ;o) I think first dates should be kept simple. I don't believe the guy should have to take you to a fine dining restaurant when neither of you really know if there is a spark. That's for date two!!! lol...Something fun where you both can engage in conversation to get to know eachother better.

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  • Susanne from Springfield | Woman | 50 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello there! Thanks for stopping by......It is so hard to try to describe yourself, but here goes. I am a pretty easy going person. Like the simple things in life. Taking walks, holding hands, snuggling on the couch. I enjoy being active, either at the gym, or on my bike or walking my dogs. I also enjoy watching football! "Go Bears!" I like cooking, but it is more fun when I have someone to cook for or with! I like to listen to live music. I enjoy most types of music. Country, Christian, contemporary blues and jazz. Not to much into Rap or Heavy Metal. It would be nice to have someone to share some quality time with. Whether that be hitting the town, or staying at home. I can make the best of either situation.I have a good job, and a nice home. I'm not really looking for someone to take care of me, but a little pampering would be nice! If any of this sounds good to you or if you would like to know more, drop me a line.Let's chat and see what happens!Thanks........ If I am meeting you for the first time, let's meet at a local restaurant. We can have a few drinks and appetizers. Let's talk and get to know each other a bit to see if we 'click'. If we do, let's plan a date doing something we both like!

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