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Vivian, 48
United States, Puerto Rico, Mayaguez

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Mar 2026 00:02:17

About Me

I've been divorced for 7 years. I've been raising my daughters and getting our lives back in order. I feel I'm now at a place that I'm ready to make the next step. As we get older we learn looks aren't everything, but there does have to be some physical attraction. Please don't think I'm superficial with this statement, I'm just being honest.Key items about me:* I am very easy going* I have a great sense of humor* I'm silly* I have my own home* I love to dance* I have a job (that I really like).. actually I have 2 I really like! * I love to golf* I have 2 daughters ***& 17)* I keep my car clean* I make my bed every day* I'm not looking for someone to take care of me financially* I won't judge you* Mis-spelled words drive me crazy* Texting is NOT the only form of communication for me* I love watermelon and lime slushes* I am fiesty - hope you can take a joke* I work out ***times a week* I love to watch NFL football and the Buckeyes* I go to church every week* I don't play slop anything when it comes to sports, with the exception of pool.... but then again, is that really a sport? I bet I offended some people:)What I am looking for:* Someone who doesn't mind me being silly and can make me laugh* Someone who has learned from their past mistakes or life lessons.* Someone who can carry on a conversation* Someone financially stable** Someone who does NOT always agree with me. I love challenges!* Someone who likes sports* Someone strong, but gentle, sweet, yet firm, confident, but not****.* Someone who knows what they want, but still wants to need.* Someone who is my best friend. I want to be that old couple(in 20 years) holding hands that people look at and say "I wanna be them someday".I love spontaneity. The best things happen when they are not planned. Try duplicating the fun and it will never be the same, you'll have expectations. Expectations can lead to disppointment. I've been on this site before and have learned a few things.... I don't feel you should IM / text or e-mail for weeks before meeting. Once you've shown interest in the person, you should meet and see if the connection is real.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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