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Debora, 48

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 May 2025 06:12:00

About Me

hmmm... I don't really know what to say without sounding as "lame/boring" as my teenagers think I am. Ok, so on with the lame/boring stuff - I am the mom to two great teenagers - I can't wait to see what kind of adults they'll become but until then I sure enjoy having them around. So now to the me (personal) part of this - most of my friends would say that I am very passionate about life, outgoing and too trusting. I would tend to disagree about the outgoing part - granted I can talk with anyone (in most settings) and am willing to tell you anything about myself but personally I would consider my self rather shy. I don't really like to be in situations where I don't know anyone or are in unfamiliar surroundings. I would much rather be someone's arm piece in situations like that but then again I love to be across the room and see the man I love and just give him that look that lets him know that we're really the only 2 in the room.I definitely believe in chemistry and attraction - I am looking forward to my skin being on fire and my heart fluttering by the touch of the man I love.I think one of the true tests of woman's love and understanding of her man is how she responds to him when comes home from a really bad day at work... I think that 1st we could talk if you want if not then I'm sure between the two of we could figure out a way of distressing you and if you are still in need of some unwinding time - I'll send you off to the golf course and when you arrive back home there will be a wonderful meal waiting for you and dessert will be back up for discussion.I am looking for a man that loves Jesus Christ with all his heart. If you have seen the movie "Facing the Giants" then you have only seen a glimpse of what I believe God is capable of. I want someone that wants to take care of me not because he thinks he needs to or has to but because he loves me but at the same time realizing that I am a woman of my own - that I have the strength and ability to take care of myself.Just know that I've never been the kind of woman that could juggle several men in my life at one time - I'm basically just a one man kind of girl.Ok, so as I read over what I've wrote I'm not so sure if the true essence of me is coming across.... lets just say I am who I am ... way to lazy/busy to put on fronts .... I'm just a simple girl who loves playing paintball all afternoon and then getting dressed up for an evening of romance dinner, movie, football game.... or just plain hanging out

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ines

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello,"Updated ***Well let me start out by saying that in the past year that I've been off and on this site, I have learned that the men on here are not on here for the same reasons I am. I am not on here looking for a pen pal or to be that someone that you call once a month because your board, I am interested in dating, if something more develops that would be cool. If you don't have the time to get to know me or are to busy then please pass me by, also if your looking for money to get you out of South Africa or invest in a company that your father is starting once again, keep moving.Alittle about me, I feel I am an one who does above and beyond with just about everything in my life, I like sports, especially with wheels and that go fast. I like men on the taller side with light eyes, showing me the mirror pic with your shirt off doesn't get my attention nor do the profile pic with sunglasses, after all if you wanna meet someone let us see what you look like. I'm a stylist and consultant so will definitely be checking out what your wearing. Lol I'm comfortable in a bathing suit, jeans or an evening gown. Definately a girlie girl.I have created a bucket list and am working on checking things off. I do my best to get the most out of each day and fly by the seat of my pants alot of the time. I'm willing to compromise but will never settle. My children are pretty much on there own so I can come and go as I please. I love to travel and do every chance I get, but can be fine just chilling at home. I love to cook, and enjoy holidays. I live by the beach so I hang out there mostly. I'm a classic eighties chick when it comes to music but like a variety. Really enjoy live music, I don't want to babysit anyone that drinks to much but I do enjoy drinks socially. I Love to dance and do work out at the gym as much as I can. I definately care about the way I look and what I eat. Over all I'm very easy going and try to create a balance with everything in my life.I am also very affectionate and not afraid to show it, so would like the same, I see guys say must live within bla bla bla, if you want someone in your own backyard then go to the grocerie store or walmart, otherwise please show some effort.By the way not into endless ***, if were both interested I prefer a few phone conversations to know you alittle, then decide if we wanna meet.Good luck on your search. We can figure that out after we chat.

  • Lola

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hey - I am looking for someone that wants to enjoy life and what it offers. I love just about everything ! .. Movies, walks, dancing, playing cards, talking, holding hands ... I am interested in meeting and getting to know someone that truly enjoys life without all the drama that can drag you down.I do love animals - and enjoy horseback riding and fishing. I always have the radio on and love to sit on the deck enjoying the evening and reading a good book. I love to laugh and you know when I am around .. just listen for my laugh.I am close to my family and friends and have learned the value good friends. I am NOT interested in head games or wasting time on the negatively that can easily slip into our lives. A place where we can talk and get to know each other

  • Janette

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    After a few friends have found success in online dating, I decided to give it a try. Although I find it both a little challenging and funny to have to describe myself, here it goes...I am born and raised here on the Central Coast and love the feel of a small town but enjoy the excitement when visiting big cities. I am the kind of girl who can take care of herself but looking for someone to share my life with. I am more of a relationship kind of person than serial dater, someone who wants to find an equal partner to enjoy what life brings us.I have raised three wonderful children who have grown into caring,loving adults. I have worked for the same company for 18 years and have enjoyed much success in my chosen career. Although I am very driven, I like to get out and have fun in my off hours. "all work and no play makes Jack (or Jill)a dull boy!" We are lucky enough to live in an area where you can always find some great live music and a glass of wine so lets take advantage of it!I enjoy keeping busy, and love to wine taste,dance,travel and have recently taken up paddleboarding which is both great exercise and fun. My friends would tell you what you see is what you get with me. I am honest and sincere and want the same in a mate. Trust and honesty is important to me. Why be something your not? I strive to live my best life and want a partner who is open, honest, fun loving and family oriented. Family and friends are an important part of my life. If this sounds like you, lets get in touch...Enjoy your search!

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