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About Me

I'm blessed to say that I love my job! It's an incredible industry & it helps to be an aviation fanatic as well. He's all grown up (so he thinks) at 20 years of age. Honestly, I couldn't have asked for a better child. We were fortunate not to have the teenager problems that many parents have these days.I love animals, I have a dog & 3 cats but they don't live with me. Sound crazy? LOL I visit them often.I look for the good & the positive in every day. I love people with a positive attitude & say away from those that live on negativity. I'm a responsible woman but when it's time to let the hair down and get crazy and have fun, it's ON!I'm not shy. I love learning about different cultures.I was married for 22 years, it was a mutual decision. No drama, no ugliness. We still talk and are friends.Yes, it can happen, it doesn’t have to be an ugly thing if you both are adult about it. I'm single for the first time in my adult life and looking forward to the adventures that life has waiting for me!I was my mother’s caregiver after my father passed away in ***. She had several health problems and Alzheimer’s. In March of this year, her suffering ended and is in the arms of her true love once again.I've learned not to allow things to stress me out that are out of my control. Life is full of changes; you just have to roll with it.I don't play games, I keep it real. I have no expectations, I am looking to meet new people/friends and enjoy life. I'll let things happen when they are meant to happen.Always challenge yourself to do something new, it may change your life!**********************************************************************************If you are married or a racist, don't bother messaging me, there is no room in my life for you. Just sayin'!I am a strong, independent, confident woman that has self-respect. Don't bother asking for nude photos or sex, it won't happen.***NOTE***If the site shows that I'm online, it doesn't mean that I'm sitting in front of a computer screen awaiting the next message. I could be signed into the phone app but driving, actually talking on my phone, kicking the a$$ of the person who spray painted my son's truck, saving a homeless animal or whatever.I might be home but busy doing things. Things like cleaning, cooking, shaving my legs, organizing my closets & drawers, dancing to loud music, paying bills, reading a book, you get the idea...I'll stop by the little glowing screen every now and then.If I don't respond as quickly as you'd like & you get annoyed, you might want to look for someone else who doesn't have responsibilities, hobbies, activities, or interests. Just keeping it real. Be creative and surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angel

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    -Portishead-The National-anything non-radio really ..-the beach-Santorini--airplanes-Charles Bukowski-freshly cut grass .. art .. lots of it .. literature and photography .. pic-nics- hockey games ..- Cafe de Flore-. shoes shoes and more shoes .. teaching,writing and above all mothering .. humour and truth .. live laugh love .. grow-up without ever growing bitter, too old or bored ...

  • Erin

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    The absolute first thing I notice in a man is his smile. You have to have all of your teeth... sorry, no exceptions. I think everyone should cherish the little things in life... a kiss on the forehead, the touch of a man’s fingers on the small of your back, that "look" that needs no words... If you are here to play games, please walk the other way. I am not here for that, so please don’t waste my time or yours.I am definitely not high maintenance. I color my own hair and do my own nails. I am not looking for someone to take care of me or pay my bills. I can do that just fine on my own. I love to smile and make people smile. I eat cereal for dinner and would not be upset if brussel sprouts were removed from the Earth. I like the smell of gasoline. I like my steak medium rare. I like Sweet N' Low in my iced tea and Splenda in my coffee. Coke over Pepsi, hands down. I love the smell of fresh cut grass. A rainy day. A campfire. A puppy's kiss. The sun on my face. I'm a great talker but even a better listener. Lazy people bother me. I walked the bridge today. I love life every day. No drugs, no drama, no games. I like it simple, fun and loving. I don't think that is too much to ask. The following list is largely satirical but has come about from profiles I have "marveled" while here. 1. iF YoU HaVe tExT LiKe tHiS iN YouR pRoFiLE yOU'rE pRoBaBly NoT mY TypE. 2. If your tongue is hanging out of your mouth in your pics because you are "hammered" I am not too sure we would be a good match. 3. If you're forming "wanna-be" gang symbology with your hands, we're probably NOT compatible. 4. If the majority of your pics are a portrayal of you consuming alcohol, we would most likely not be a good fit. 5. If your main pic is of you at your prom you might be too young and if your baby pics are in black and white, you MAY be a little too old. 6. Lastly, if most of your pictures are of you taking your own picture in your bathroom or gym mirror, I don’t think it’s going to work out. Ask a neighbor or even a stranger. Looks more natural … just saying.Honestly though, if a person has indulged too much in the current American culture, they've probably ruined themselves. Ironically, they are also probably painfully unaware of this fact! A few of life's little *** I try and live by... sing in the shower, drink champagne for no reason at all, return borrowed vehicles with a full tank of gas, compliment three people every day, never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them, floss your teeth, keep it simple, say "thank you" and "please" a lot, avoid negative people, buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards, keep your promises, have a firm handshake, surprise loved ones with little unexpected gifts, wave at kids on school buses, call your mother, don’t be afraid to say “I made a mistake”, and marry only for love. Live music, a couple of drinks, great conversation, and a lot of laughter..... If things go well, maybe plan a second date.

  • Amanda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love being outside whether it's gardening, hiking, riding 4 wheelers..Doesn't matter. I have two daughters who mean the world to me.I've never tried to meet someone this way and so far....Not so much fun. Okay I've decided I want a man that is mine and only mine, that tells me I'm pretty, that works, that isn't a drunk or on drugs, that can be counted on to show up, that calls or texts just because he's thinking of me, that sends roses or a card.. And of course there's nothing better than when my girls come get me and say, Hey Mom listen...My oldest plays guitar and My youngest sings.. I'd love to go get some dinner and have a picnic by the lake.

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