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Alfreda, 45

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Ok hobbies? Hmm...well..finding as many moments of joy as I can in a day, that’s my full time hobby....Love creativity and creative thinking!!! Love the water..swimming, scuba diving, body surfing...esp love warm tropically water! Love running, dancing, yoga!, skiing, horseback riding, hikingetc....just playing outside!I looove movies! Love art...soo appreciate most any unique artistic expression.Im a big sucker for love...that i see or witness anywhere.One of my main goals for this life is to learn to love REALLY well. And Love love LOVE laughing...Ok.. Here it is- If laughing and cuddling with someonethat I love were a hobby, THAT would be my favorite! :))! I find most people and things interesting and love an adventure--.. or just going along for the ride to the grocery store (not sure why that feels like an adventure to me...but somehow..like a puppy, it does :)I'm a happy person and feel tremendously grateful for so much... for the people...and events and Grace in my life.I am blown away by the grace that continually, so lovingly, guides my life.I love God and that love fills my heart and guides my life daily, but I am much more spiritual than religious.Yes, it's true I am a yogini but I eat meat and love a good BBQ! :)Love just hanging out with and being playful with friends and family.Love working with friends, creating projects that have the potential of reaching and uplifting millions of people. I seem to be forever coming up with a new idea or invention and have patented two of them. Must be the blond thing… maybe we have thinner noggins.... ideas floating around just might permeate more easily.? :)I adore children and animals and if you have them or want them, that's a plus. With those I love, I am completely devoted and loyal, very caring and very affectionate. Love to hold hands, snuggle and caress and just be 'in touch'. Music?...Love all kinds..(love to dance!!) hip hop, rock, pop, mo-town, country, jazz, classical and music of other cultures.But I think my favorite music of all are the sounds of nature....sounds a little corney as I read that back..but it's true!I am not sure what makes me unique?.. Well , my friends tell me thry love me cuz I'm fun, witty, "sweet as pie", caring, and extremely devoted. People close to me often say they feel completely "seen" and loved by me (That makes me happy). I think I'm pretty quick, perceptive and wise... and yet rediculously silly with the heart of a child. The qualities I most admire in men are first and foremost, kindness… towards everyone... Even when no one is watching. Kindness is my favorite quality in anyone actually. Kindness and courage...especially courage of the heart...Love can be scary... a man who is strong enough to reveal his heart...melts me.I respect and admire a man who is generous and a protective provider A man who knows what he wants and goes after his dreams..and of course, I love a man who is romantic, attentive and devoted. I love to be receptive and appreciative and available to the man I love.Day in and day out...I'm happiest with a man with whom i can laugh easily with, who can be playful and have fun doing just about anything or nothing together.All this being said, I cannot Believe! the number of sentences that I began with 'I'....this thing is waaaaay too long and reads like a fifth grader!Are there editors for this sort of thing? Help!!! I, I, I need one! :)*****Hugely important-I need to add to this a disclaimer: I am not 45, I am 52, and very happily so. This profile was set up several years ago.. then I was in a relationship ..and then icame back. My pictures are all current, however you cannot change/ update your age on this site?! I apologize for the misrepresentation. At some pt. I'll set up a whole new profile..just don't like spending more time on a computer than I have to. Also.. I am looking for someone close to my own age as ultimately, I think that would feel more fun and comfortable.**added note: the lovely men I've met from this site say that I am prettier in person than these photos.... I guess thats better than it being the other way around. :)**ps- If I don't return your message, it's not that I don't think you seem like a wonderful man, it's just that I don't feel we would be a 'fit'Thanks for visiting!:)I wish you the Best life ever!!Wendy The first date... Really anything.. a tea or a walk ..just an easy way to say 'hi'. If we knew each other more and liked each other! :)... .. a fun date would be a tucked away cozy little spot where we could snuggle in a booth... a picnic under a tree...or driving to a little country town, having lunch and walking around laughing and kissing.I like a guy that likes to be physical and athletic during the day and then dress to go for a lovely dinner and evening out.That being said, probably what I love most are the nights in...curled up watching a movie with you. (That's where the "best friend I love to kiss" part comes in.)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Msmar

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-60

    Hi! My name is Msmar. I am never married catholic native american woman without kids from San Angelo, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Cassie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Not so sure about this meetville thing, its so hard to get to know people on here! I'm contemplating remaining single until circumstances lead me to the right guy! :) You will not find another woman like me! I am fan****ingtastic! :) ;-P I am fun, very positive, very giving, and I have an amazing sense of humor. Most people I know tell me that I'm really funny and very nice. I'm also quite levelheaded and it takes a whole helluva lot to set me off. When I love someone , they are very well taken care of! :) If you could describe yourself that way as well then lets chat! Movies: Action, scary movies like The Ring or totally creepy and gross with a gutslinky in it!;)Music: I like a lot of different genres but lately I'm listening to Atreyu, System of a Down, or Rap with a super heavy bass and I like dance/clubmix stuff when I'm working out.Food: I love steak , Mexican , or Chinese !I like being outdoors (like most everyone) and enjoy shooting, fishing- I'm looking for a new pole (no this is not sexual innuendo) lol, roadtrips, just hanging out and relaxing with good people who make me laugh! Seems like everyone on here puts hiking as their interest so I'll skip that and say my interest is making my love happy! My goal is to move South of where I am now within the next two years since my youngest will be grown at that point! Doesn't seem to be a lot of opportunity up here! I'm open to new adventures and learning new things too! ~~ attraction> It helps if you are great looking, tall (over 6'), active and interesting! My last relationship spoiled me ( I might be ruined forever I don't know!) ======= I am attracted to YOUNGER than me guys. I don't look my age- I know it, so I don't find men older than my actual age attractive ... no matter what shape you are in! Sorry!!!About "Average Body" type on this site. There seems to be quite a range in what the definition of this is. It doesn't mean fat or needing improvement. It simply means not an Athlete. Athlete's play sports to stay in shape... like someone on the Sounders team. I take care of myself and I work out to keep myself looking appealing to the opposite sex! Just wanted to clarify that since I see a lot of fatasses calling themselves average. :) A drink and conversation! Something relaxed so we can have fun and see where things go!

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    It shouldn't be that complicated.... put two people together with a few things in common, similiar values and outlooks on life and alot of chemistry(or completely different outlooks on life- that sometimes works too). Sounds easy enough.You have to be physically active. I am. It's a dealbreaker for me.I don't do arrogant, but I do like self-confident men who know who they are. Someone that isn't bothered by the small things. Laugh ALOT. Be reasonably intelligent- in some way, any way.I'm independent and driven- this is not just said for show. You can drop me in a room full of strangers at a party or put me in a dive bar, I'll be fine either way. I'm a Mom, ***enough said.Oh yeah- you should know how to use a tool, not be one :) If you get that one, you'll realize sense of humor is required, but I actually mean that as well.

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