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Alfreda, 45

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Ok hobbies? Hmm...well..finding as many moments of joy as I can in a day, that’s my full time hobby....Love creativity and creative thinking!!! Love the water..swimming, scuba diving, body surfing...esp love warm tropically water! Love running, dancing, yoga!, skiing, horseback riding, hikingetc....just playing outside!I looove movies! Love art...soo appreciate most any unique artistic expression.Im a big sucker for love...that i see or witness anywhere.One of my main goals for this life is to learn to love REALLY well. And Love love LOVE laughing...Ok.. Here it is- If laughing and cuddling with someonethat I love were a hobby, THAT would be my favorite! :))! I find most people and things interesting and love an adventure--.. or just going along for the ride to the grocery store (not sure why that feels like an adventure to me...but somehow..like a puppy, it does :)I'm a happy person and feel tremendously grateful for so much... for the people...and events and Grace in my life.I am blown away by the grace that continually, so lovingly, guides my life.I love God and that love fills my heart and guides my life daily, but I am much more spiritual than religious.Yes, it's true I am a yogini but I eat meat and love a good BBQ! :)Love just hanging out with and being playful with friends and family.Love working with friends, creating projects that have the potential of reaching and uplifting millions of people. I seem to be forever coming up with a new idea or invention and have patented two of them. Must be the blond thing… maybe we have thinner noggins.... ideas floating around just might permeate more easily.? :)I adore children and animals and if you have them or want them, that's a plus. With those I love, I am completely devoted and loyal, very caring and very affectionate. Love to hold hands, snuggle and caress and just be 'in touch'. Music?...Love all kinds..(love to dance!!) hip hop, rock, pop, mo-town, country, jazz, classical and music of other cultures.But I think my favorite music of all are the sounds of nature....sounds a little corney as I read that back..but it's true!I am not sure what makes me unique?.. Well , my friends tell me thry love me cuz I'm fun, witty, "sweet as pie", caring, and extremely devoted. People close to me often say they feel completely "seen" and loved by me (That makes me happy). I think I'm pretty quick, perceptive and wise... and yet rediculously silly with the heart of a child. The qualities I most admire in men are first and foremost, kindness… towards everyone... Even when no one is watching. Kindness is my favorite quality in anyone actually. Kindness and courage...especially courage of the heart...Love can be scary... a man who is strong enough to reveal his heart...melts me.I respect and admire a man who is generous and a protective provider A man who knows what he wants and goes after his dreams..and of course, I love a man who is romantic, attentive and devoted. I love to be receptive and appreciative and available to the man I love.Day in and day out...I'm happiest with a man with whom i can laugh easily with, who can be playful and have fun doing just about anything or nothing together.All this being said, I cannot Believe! the number of sentences that I began with 'I'....this thing is waaaaay too long and reads like a fifth grader!Are there editors for this sort of thing? Help!!! I, I, I need one! :)*****Hugely important-I need to add to this a disclaimer: I am not 45, I am 52, and very happily so. This profile was set up several years ago.. then I was in a relationship ..and then icame back. My pictures are all current, however you cannot change/ update your age on this site?! I apologize for the misrepresentation. At some pt. I'll set up a whole new profile..just don't like spending more time on a computer than I have to. Also.. I am looking for someone close to my own age as ultimately, I think that would feel more fun and comfortable.**added note: the lovely men I've met from this site say that I am prettier in person than these photos.... I guess thats better than it being the other way around. :)**ps- If I don't return your message, it's not that I don't think you seem like a wonderful man, it's just that I don't feel we would be a 'fit'Thanks for visiting!:)I wish you the Best life ever!!Wendy The first date... Really anything.. a tea or a walk ..just an easy way to say 'hi'. If we knew each other more and liked each other! :)... .. a fun date would be a tucked away cozy little spot where we could snuggle in a booth... a picnic under a tree...or driving to a little country town, having lunch and walking around laughing and kissing.I like a guy that likes to be physical and athletic during the day and then dress to go for a lovely dinner and evening out.That being said, probably what I love most are the nights in...curled up watching a movie with you. (That's where the "best friend I love to kiss" part comes in.)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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