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Shari, 43
United States, Virginia, Portsmouth

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About Me

Please do not message me if your are gay, bi-sexual or just not sure do not waste my time I am not your savior!!!! I am looking for a real man!!! Southern girl hoping to meet sane, normal, non-controlling, drama free, distinguished ***percent man. I am not hard to please by far. Seeking a spooning partner. Love to go mudding sometimes and definitely not afraid of getting dirty but I clean up pretty nicely. I love the beach but my heart is in the country. Bonfires, 4-wheelers, grilling out, camping, dirt roads, snowy roads, anything to get the heart going but there is nothing like snuggling in front of the fireplace and warming up in the hot tub on a snowy day or anyday. Nothing like taking off at the any moment for a road trip. I love to spoil my partner in many ways and yes love being pampered too. There is nothing like that first kiss that makes your toes curl or makes your whole body get a warm tingly feeling all over. I do however, have zero tolerance for bull crap so dont bother. Endless ideas come to mind but must be open to lots of fun, romancing, walking, talking, eating, laughing and hopefully alot of chemistry will spark. If all goes well maybe there will be many more dates after the first and then snuggling, pampering, slow kissing and maybe other words that end in ing such as cooking, camping, spooning, kissing again, shopping, hiking, dancing, and traveling.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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