Total users: 61,859,023 Online users: 222,567
Ruthie, 41

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Mar 2026 15:40:21

About Me

I like to have fun and am open to most activities, especially outside (except when it's cold). I am very open and honest so be ready for that. I don't play games and really want to meet someone who is fun, easy and relaxing. I work hard all week and have two children so having a man in my life who makes me laugh and relax is very important to me. I prefer to not do the planning. I wont hesitate to voice any ideas but like for the man to do the planning.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Morgan Lynae

    Offline

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-25

    Im down to earth, love new adventures and trying new things. I am kind of shy when I meet new people, but once you get to know me you will not regret it. Not exactly sure what I'm looking for but a friend is a start.

  • Robyn

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello, Im a mom of 3...im 43,...All 3 of my kids are about to graduate.(yes at the same time, very proud), 1 from high school ( son***huge on baseball), My 2 daughers from college, i started young, married when i was in college..... Im soooo young at heart, BUT a mom all the time. i work full time, as an Asst. to a Director ....love my job. A teacher previous. I work out all the time , enjoy my time with my kids. friends, family....Any way!!! i love to have fun! BUT want ONLY 1 MAN IN MY LIFE, for the rest of my life......i love kids, and who at our age doesn't have them...right? :) Im athletic, funny,.....i am always up for anything...nothing scares me.....a risk taker.....hell, life is too short , and its about living :) my kids are grown, so it leaves me with a lot of free time. And I don't mind if you have kids......I think its great :) Just don't be selfish and forget we both have kids....I am not keen on some one who just makes it about their kids.....great to recognize both. Makes it nice :) I want something real with someone who isn't afraid to give it a chance and is definitely open to commitment. Someone who loves sports and likes to go to games or just hang home and watch them together.....walk, a bike ride....weekend trip away....camping, sitting out by the fire.....fun things....making new memories. One Last thing: Please do not send me an *** with: "Damn Your Hot"....(Ive gotten them ....its flattering) But my heart is just as beautiful.....AND NO PLAYERS PLEASE.... I know YOU are out there. I want a great guy, who knows who is.....and has a big heart too. Leave your BS at the door. Thank you :) oh gosh, i love Sports.....baseball game, football. romantic dinner, Wine..a walk. ( holding , hands, yup...this girl is romantic) i love hanging out with couples, family.....good stuff. :)

  • Avis

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ~Insert witty opening comment here :) Here's a "little bit" of me. I have 4 amazing kids who mean the world to me. They are my heart & I would be nothing without them. I'm confident in saying that I'm proud of who I am on the inside. I have alot of love & compassion for others. Even more waiting for the man I fall in love with. I would do anything for anyone if I'm able. I'm an honest (do expect honesty in return) understanding, giving & loving soul. I'm a fun-loving gal & sometimes simply silly. I have a lot to give from my heart, & I'm not afraid to show it. Dont get me wrong, I'm far from perfect, I have my moments just like anyone else & of course I can be emotional, I AM a woman! lol :)So, what am I looking for in a relationship..? I know what I want..do you? I'm looking for a friend, eventually to become My Best Friend for the rest of my life... taking it slow (whatever that means?) is not a bad thing....but I'm not getting any younger (although age is just a number) time is ticking! I'm a very passionate, love hugs & kisses (given & received) kinda girl. I can be wild & crazy at times, but also quiet & shy. I think at some point I'll make you laugh, probably because I did or said something ridiculously goofy. Laughter is the best medicine, and I absolutely love to laugh, even at myself! My friends have always told me that I have a huge, loving & giving heart. Sometimes over extending that part but that's ok. I wouldn't be happy with myself if I didn't. You can talk to me about anything you might need or want to. I prefer honest communication & being upfront. I'll always be there for my family, friends & loved ones, period.What I'm really looking for is a man who will truly love me, unconditionally, as I know without a doubt, I can return that same love to him. I want to be able to look at my man from across a crowded room & melt, just knowing that he wants me as much as I want him.....I'm waiting for this man, who will look at me & think I'm beautiful, even if in sweats, no make up & in full morning frumpy gear (that's before the coffee!) lol But no worries! I love to get dressed up too! I want to be in a committed relationship with someone who knows they want to be in one too, with me (only) and who wants to spend his time (not all of it) with me doing "anything" (I'll try almost anything once & love spur of the moment getaways) or even absolutely nothing fancy (just sitting together, snuggled up, enjoying each others company). I'm waiting for a man who is also passionate, genuine, caring, understanding, loving & true. Someone who is willing to take life's ups &..together. Someone who can communicate his needs & wants to me, not make excuses, or shut me out of his world.I'm waiting for you....wherever you are. (need directions?)I was married to my children's father for 14yrs, I still believe in commitment & marriage, even though that part of my life didn't work out as I hoped. I've been divorced for over 10yrs & I'm ready to have those words "I Love You" actually be meant when it's said. All too easy for some people to "just say" those 3 special words. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. It's just that simple. So yes, truthfully, I do want to be married again, someday, when it's undeniable, feels right & is nothing even close to perfect. Perfection is unrealistic.... a relationship takes work...it's what you give and put into it, by both individuals that makes it amazing!Yes, I do want the "fantasy romance". No, I'm not naive, just a hopeless romantic. :)

Follow Us: