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Clare, 45
United States, Virginia, Portsmouth

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Seeing what kind of guys are out there. Just "looking" so to speak. Meet a great friend first!! This is the first time in my life I have actually been "single". I had my heart broke so decided to shed 25 pounds since April. I found myself again and learned a lot about myself in the meantime to be a better person! I wont just settle again to not be alone. I am a FUN loving lady so anything I do is done with a smile if I can help it! I am sassy, sexy and confident. Been told I have a bounce in my walk. I have a strong personality and I am a survivor type of person. I am very optimistic and believe positive thinking helps get us through life. I am an affectionate, kind and loving person, down to earth and easy going. Family is important to me so I want a man who feels the same about his.I have 2 kids. My son is 14 and my daughter is 25. Sorry but they always come first, I want a guy that is secure with himself. A gentleman who will make me want to be a better person and accepts me for me! I dont want a man with a chip on his shoulder. I like men who respect women to the fullest! I am a huge Nascar fan (Jr is my boy!) and enjoy to go to the races at NHMS! I love to go to concerts (rock and roll and blues) , motorcycles, snowmobiles, hot rods, car shows, the beach, being active, landscaping, camping, swimming, bon fires, bbqs & parties with friends, cooking ,dancing and playing pool. Plan to have my first Harley by spring. I grew up on dirt bikes and three wheelers. I like animals as my parents have a mini farm. I have a witty sense of humor and like to make people laugh, I am a big tease and flirt at heart. LOVE adventures and willing to try anything once having a zest for life. Born and raised in NH I enjoy all outdoor activities in every season... (yes I love snow!)lol...... I want to date a man who has similar interests as myself. I am a passionate person about everything I do in life! I know how to hang with the boys! I am a true tom boy but know how to clean up and be a lady when I need to be. I have nice curves in the right areas. I am a muscular/ athletic build. I plan to start Pilates next week and know karate, II try to eat right and take good care of myself. Good Luck to everyone in your search and path through life. The beach or dinner and a movie. I like to dance to live bands, even though I am not much of a bar fly. A coffee is ok too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Funk Dance Gardening American Irish Italian Spanish Action Documentary Martial Arts Western
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