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Clare, 45

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Seeing what kind of guys are out there. Just "looking" so to speak. Meet a great friend first!! This is the first time in my life I have actually been "single". I had my heart broke so decided to shed 25 pounds since April. I found myself again and learned a lot about myself in the meantime to be a better person! I wont just settle again to not be alone. I am a FUN loving lady so anything I do is done with a smile if I can help it! I am sassy, sexy and confident. Been told I have a bounce in my walk. I have a strong personality and I am a survivor type of person. I am very optimistic and believe positive thinking helps get us through life. I am an affectionate, kind and loving person, down to earth and easy going. Family is important to me so I want a man who feels the same about his.I have 2 kids. My son is 14 and my daughter is 25. Sorry but they always come first, I want a guy that is secure with himself. A gentleman who will make me want to be a better person and accepts me for me! I dont want a man with a chip on his shoulder. I like men who respect women to the fullest! I am a huge Nascar fan (Jr is my boy!) and enjoy to go to the races at NHMS! I love to go to concerts (rock and roll and blues) , motorcycles, snowmobiles, hot rods, car shows, the beach, being active, landscaping, camping, swimming, bon fires, bbqs & parties with friends, cooking ,dancing and playing pool. Plan to have my first Harley by spring. I grew up on dirt bikes and three wheelers. I like animals as my parents have a mini farm. I have a witty sense of humor and like to make people laugh, I am a big tease and flirt at heart. LOVE adventures and willing to try anything once having a zest for life. Born and raised in NH I enjoy all outdoor activities in every season... (yes I love snow!)lol...... I want to date a man who has similar interests as myself. I am a passionate person about everything I do in life! I know how to hang with the boys! I am a true tom boy but know how to clean up and be a lady when I need to be. I have nice curves in the right areas. I am a muscular/ athletic build. I plan to start Pilates next week and know karate, II try to eat right and take good care of myself. Good Luck to everyone in your search and path through life. The beach or dinner and a movie. I like to dance to live bands, even though I am not much of a bar fly. A coffee is ok too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kat

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am single and I have no children but I do have 12 nieces and nephews,4 baby cousins, and 4 godchildren who are a large part of my life I would like to have children in the future. Overall, I'm looking for that certain someone who will complement my personality, make me laugh.

  • Rosie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    DISCLOSURE: One photo isn't enough. If you don't have SEVERAL current photos of yourself, or, if you have several photos but they are all from a distance, blurry, of your dog or headless pictures of your pecks, you're probably not getting a response from me. Let me see your eyes.... Eyes speak... And so does a clear, full body shot... ;) Also, it's obvious based on your messages whether or not you read my profile... I realize it's a lot to take in, but it's good information if you really want to get to know me. Please TRY to read it in it's entirety. Take your time. I'm a high energy, social, fun, motivated, woman. I'm a live and let live, don't fight the natural order of the universe type person. I respond best to the Eastern Philosophies and the natural cycles of the universe... I'm more of a Taoist, or at least I strive to be. I'm still an amateur... I make things happen and I do it in an out of the box, creative way. I'm a bit disorganized and can be a little scatterbrained at times, but I like to think it's part of my charm....I'm cluttery but clean. However, I do LOVE when everything is in its place.I have a real passion for food.... (My other religion... Epicureanism....) Spicy food and sushi are my favorites. Any ethnicity works. I don't care if it's a hole in the wall or fine dining. Usually the hole in the wall is better. Nothing beats a great farm to table restaurant... I cook a lot and I love it spicy!!! I see potential for issues if spicy isn't your thing... When I say food, I mean, actual real food. Not genetically modified and/or processed "food" as long as I can help it. Although, I do have a weakness for pixxy sticks occasionally as much as I try to resist... Most of my diet is organic and I rarely eat meat, so when I do, I'm pretty picky about quality... My potential future partner should also be aware enough to want to be picky about what he chooses to nourish his body with too... I'm a small business owner, mother ***year old son), student, designer, gardener (farmer) and artist. I live a wonderfully full life that is lacking romance... However, I'd much prefer to stay single rather than find myself in the wrong relationship... I am pretty in tune with what kind of person I might connect with and unfortunately, I will not be able to fit that specific description in this little box as I do not not want rule anyone out based on shallow descriptions... Unless, of course, you're sporting a mullet and porno mustach in a cheesy photo of yourself, shirtless, next to your Camaro... Gasp! I have my limits!!! Lol...I thrive on positive energy. I try to see the good in things. I find character in imperfection. I'm interested in finding a positive man who also sees the good in things. So, if your profile lists a bunch of negative, venomous spew,..... you can be certain never to hear from me no matter how hot you are... I'm a free spirit. I love my life.. I don't NEED a man. I WANT one!!! An awesome one that will contribute value to my life as I will also do to his... I don't need to be rescued... I'm definitely not one of those woman's lib types either. I love being treated like a girl. A little chivalry goes a long way... But please don't do it because I say so, only do it if you feel it... I know the difference...How about funny? Now a sense of humor is a quality that I can really appreciate in a man.... Integrity, intelligence, moral and ethical are also very high on my list of standards. Yeah, You've gotta have a nice mug and good teeth but you don't necessarily have to be a supermodel, although that's fine too. Truth is, I'm not attracted to any particular type and you never know who's going to stir up a spark. However, I'm not attracted to a "few extra pounds" or bigger. My preference is probably towards the slim and slenderish side or if you're the type that likes to work out a lot, I won't complain about it... If you eat well and are reasonably active, your physique will easily measure up to my standards.I'm a nurturer and a giver... I'm only interested in dating another giver... Great Relationships are not about give and take... They are about giving and giving.. I will never ask for more than I'm willing to give. The gifts one has available will of course not be apples for apples or dollars for dollars as clearly everyone has different things to offer.... Of course, both "banks" can't always be full all the time, but neither should ever be found empty... If your bank is empty now, fill it before you reach out to me... Mine is full and ready to start giving to the right reciever...So, if you've made it this far, digest what I've said and give me a shout if anything resonates with you. Oh, and please don't be offended if I don't respond. I'm taking a passive approach to this thing. Ciao! Ideally a first date should be casual and potentially short with a possible option for it to last a while just in case the elusive chemistry is there.... Coffee, a drink, brunch, lunch or maybe dinner.... You know how much I love food!!!

  • Brigitte

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello guys, I am a very outgoing passionate, sensual woman....I am a single mom of 2 boys who r 16 and 5.....I m a full-time nursing student and I sure love school.....I have a wide range of things I enjoy....I love the outdoors, fishing, camping hiking, walking, all water sports, live to spend time with family and friends and I love music.....I am a very kind and gicaring and giving person...I am a very honest woman and I hope to meet a honest guy first and foremost....

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