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Ella, 44

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About Me

Quick-witted, passionate, occasionally lazy, sometimes too busy for her own good, looking for a good reason to slow down and sit on the couch.Fiercely loyal to loved ones.Love to bike around the city despite the inherent danger.Still figuring out what the hell I'm doing but getting better at it and closer all the time.I love to DJ and get all kinds of people dancing.Not ashamed to admit my love of bad pop music, strong allegiance to 80's music.Looking for a guy who's relatively happy with himself and his life - you don't have to have everything together, but headed in the right direction. I love kids, so it's great if you're already a dad.I'm looking for a guy with a wicked sense of humor - it's fine if it's hidden and reserved just for your closest friends!Please be fully single - divorced is ok (we all have a history), but I'm looking for someone who's resolved their past relationship. Being friends with your exes is a plus, not a minus.I don't mind differing on politics, but I care passionately about social justice and have a wide and diverse group of friends that reflects this. I've had the most fun having an active first date - going for a walk or a bike ride. Since I sit at a desk all day without windows, I always want to soak up the sun and get out and about. Grabbing a cup of coffee or ice cream is a great way to break the ice too, to see if there's anything there worth exploring.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Rosie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    DISCLOSURE: One photo isn't enough. If you don't have SEVERAL current photos of yourself, or, if you have several photos but they are all from a distance, blurry, of your dog or headless pictures of your pecks, you're probably not getting a response from me. Let me see your eyes.... Eyes speak... And so does a clear, full body shot... ;) Also, it's obvious based on your messages whether or not you read my profile... I realize it's a lot to take in, but it's good information if you really want to get to know me. Please TRY to read it in it's entirety. Take your time. I'm a high energy, social, fun, motivated, woman. I'm a live and let live, don't fight the natural order of the universe type person. I respond best to the Eastern Philosophies and the natural cycles of the universe... I'm more of a Taoist, or at least I strive to be. I'm still an amateur... I make things happen and I do it in an out of the box, creative way. I'm a bit disorganized and can be a little scatterbrained at times, but I like to think it's part of my charm....I'm cluttery but clean. However, I do LOVE when everything is in its place.I have a real passion for food.... (My other religion... Epicureanism....) Spicy food and sushi are my favorites. Any ethnicity works. I don't care if it's a hole in the wall or fine dining. Usually the hole in the wall is better. Nothing beats a great farm to table restaurant... I cook a lot and I love it spicy!!! I see potential for issues if spicy isn't your thing... When I say food, I mean, actual real food. Not genetically modified and/or processed "food" as long as I can help it. Although, I do have a weakness for pixxy sticks occasionally as much as I try to resist... Most of my diet is organic and I rarely eat meat, so when I do, I'm pretty picky about quality... My potential future partner should also be aware enough to want to be picky about what he chooses to nourish his body with too... I'm a small business owner, mother ***year old son), student, designer, gardener (farmer) and artist. I live a wonderfully full life that is lacking romance... However, I'd much prefer to stay single rather than find myself in the wrong relationship... I am pretty in tune with what kind of person I might connect with and unfortunately, I will not be able to fit that specific description in this little box as I do not not want rule anyone out based on shallow descriptions... Unless, of course, you're sporting a mullet and porno mustach in a cheesy photo of yourself, shirtless, next to your Camaro... Gasp! I have my limits!!! Lol...I thrive on positive energy. I try to see the good in things. I find character in imperfection. I'm interested in finding a positive man who also sees the good in things. So, if your profile lists a bunch of negative, venomous spew,..... you can be certain never to hear from me no matter how hot you are... I'm a free spirit. I love my life.. I don't NEED a man. I WANT one!!! An awesome one that will contribute value to my life as I will also do to his... I don't need to be rescued... I'm definitely not one of those woman's lib types either. I love being treated like a girl. A little chivalry goes a long way... But please don't do it because I say so, only do it if you feel it... I know the difference...How about funny? Now a sense of humor is a quality that I can really appreciate in a man.... Integrity, intelligence, moral and ethical are also very high on my list of standards. Yeah, You've gotta have a nice mug and good teeth but you don't necessarily have to be a supermodel, although that's fine too. Truth is, I'm not attracted to any particular type and you never know who's going to stir up a spark. However, I'm not attracted to a "few extra pounds" or bigger. My preference is probably towards the slim and slenderish side or if you're the type that likes to work out a lot, I won't complain about it... If you eat well and are reasonably active, your physique will easily measure up to my standards.I'm a nurturer and a giver... I'm only interested in dating another giver... Great Relationships are not about give and take... They are about giving and giving.. I will never ask for more than I'm willing to give. The gifts one has available will of course not be apples for apples or dollars for dollars as clearly everyone has different things to offer.... Of course, both "banks" can't always be full all the time, but neither should ever be found empty... If your bank is empty now, fill it before you reach out to me... Mine is full and ready to start giving to the right reciever...So, if you've made it this far, digest what I've said and give me a shout if anything resonates with you. Oh, and please don't be offended if I don't respond. I'm taking a passive approach to this thing. Ciao! Ideally a first date should be casual and potentially short with a possible option for it to last a while just in case the elusive chemistry is there.... Coffee, a drink, brunch, lunch or maybe dinner.... You know how much I love food!!!

  • Leticia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Ask me a lot of interests,fishing,hunting,general outdoors,cooking, if you don't have a pic or photo please don't waste my time,I am who I am I will not change for anyone ever! Coffee,conversation

  • Bertie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy & value quality time with that special someone.! Never settling for the status qou..... I love reaching goals! Traveling near and far is great therapy for me. I occasionally enjoy a night on the town to partake in a spoken word event or sit back and enjoy some jazz. To balance my life I aslo like cuddling at home while watching a good suspenseful movie. I'm a mature, honest, thoughtful and drama-free individual with an sense of humor looking for the same. I'm currently looking for a friend(s) to hangout with, talk to and get to know; but if there is a chemistry boiling, I'm open to more. A chemistry match for me is someone emotionally and mentally mature, confident, secure and stable, a profound thinker not shallow, someone who is skilled at discerning,and who is family orientated. My ideal mate is honest, trust worthy, supportive, encouraging and comfortable in his own skin. Going out somewhere where we can focus on getting to know each other.

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