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Jody, 41
United States, Virginia, Portsmouth

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I have three things that are important to me…age, location and kids. Please be between ***and live in CT. If you're not /don't that's not right for me, which means no thanks and all the best to you.Look, I don't date much, because I don't date lightly (and I don't hook up) so I rather have a quality date than quantity of them. My goal is to meet a man I could get to know and build a healthy relationship with. I'd like to let things evolve natrually into long term dating or more if things are right.When it comes to kids…I have them, but I’m not incapable of dating. And, like all parents I love my kids (two girls, 10 and 8) more than anything in life. But, I don’t need to replace their dad or want an *** My kids know I date (we had a talk), but I don’t like exposing my kids to dating (too much for them to understand), so they wouldn’t come into the picture until we decided we want to keep dating.Now that I've said all that...like everybody else I need that combination of physical and emotional attraction, which I know you can only learn in real life. So, I’m not afraid to chat and meet, but really it’s a blind date so no guarantees (there may only be one...how else would you know)…nuf said, right?I’M ATTRACTED TO...a man who tries to be the best they can, who learns from their mistakes, who’s not a liar, judgmental or bigoted. A man with street and book smarts. Someone who is not afraid to get their hands dirty, but can occasionally enjoy the finer things. Who after a day of playing or working can clean up and look hot to go to dinner for some challenging conversation and a great glass of wine. I need a man who’s willing to date a women with kids, but would prefer a man who’s…either a dad with kids close to the age of mine (so you get it) or a man who doesn’t want to have any children in the future (I can’t). I like a man who’s reasonably fit, not bald – sorry I like hair (usually dark), you might like blondes! Taller than me – I like high heels.ME…I’ve been divorced 5 years (was married ***and I’ve learned it’s easier to trust your *** never go against what doesn’t feel right. I’ve learned it’s important to me to treat people respectfully, think first and act second. I’ve learned (and happy to report) I’m normal…and like everybody else there are times when I want to chill at home, hang with family and friends, or to go out and have fun.Own my house, work full time, drink sensibly, don’t smoke, never had a drug problem or STD Do my own yard work - riding mower, snow blower, etc.. Think drama is people trying to make the wrong thing right Not judgmental - I accept we have a history Try to have fun and make the best of what I’m doing Think laughter makes things special and memorable I’m romantic…think it’s important to have private things to share and laugh about Work out several times a week and eat healthy, most days White wine over red Steak medium rare Love skeet shooting - haven’t done it in a long time Camping is cool...wanna buy a camper Fishing is fun Enjoy watching martial arts, MMA and boxing TV…CSI, Criminal Minds, Person of interest, Cooking Channel, True Blood I love cooking, dinning out and trying new foods. And, I am a good cook (honest) so I love cooking for people, which means you can’t be a picky eater or you’ll take away my fun.Looking forward to getting to know you…till then be well !

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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