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About Me

~Insert witty opening comment here :) Here's a "little bit" of me. I have 4 amazing kids who mean the world to me. They are my heart & I would be nothing without them. I'm confident in saying that I'm proud of who I am on the inside. I have alot of love & compassion for others. Even more waiting for the man I fall in love with. I would do anything for anyone if I'm able. I'm an honest (do expect honesty in return) understanding, giving & loving soul. I'm a fun-loving gal & sometimes simply silly. I have a lot to give from my heart, & I'm not afraid to show it. Dont get me wrong, I'm far from perfect, I have my moments just like anyone else & of course I can be emotional, I AM a woman! lol :)So, what am I looking for in a relationship..? I know what I want..do you? I'm looking for a friend, eventually to become My Best Friend for the rest of my life... taking it slow (whatever that means?) is not a bad thing....but I'm not getting any younger (although age is just a number) time is ticking! I'm a very passionate, love hugs & kisses (given & received) kinda girl. I can be wild & crazy at times, but also quiet & shy. I think at some point I'll make you laugh, probably because I did or said something ridiculously goofy. Laughter is the best medicine, and I absolutely love to laugh, even at myself! My friends have always told me that I have a huge, loving & giving heart. Sometimes over extending that part but that's ok. I wouldn't be happy with myself if I didn't. You can talk to me about anything you might need or want to. I prefer honest communication & being upfront. I'll always be there for my family, friends & loved ones, period.What I'm really looking for is a man who will truly love me, unconditionally, as I know without a doubt, I can return that same love to him. I want to be able to look at my man from across a crowded room & melt, just knowing that he wants me as much as I want him.....I'm waiting for this man, who will look at me & think I'm beautiful, even if in sweats, no make up & in full morning frumpy gear (that's before the coffee!) lol But no worries! I love to get dressed up too! I want to be in a committed relationship with someone who knows they want to be in one too, with me (only) and who wants to spend his time (not all of it) with me doing "anything" (I'll try almost anything once & love spur of the moment getaways) or even absolutely nothing fancy (just sitting together, snuggled up, enjoying each others company). I'm waiting for a man who is also passionate, genuine, caring, understanding, loving & true. Someone who is willing to take life's ups &..together. Someone who can communicate his needs & wants to me, not make excuses, or shut me out of his world.I'm waiting for you....wherever you are. (need directions?)I was married to my children's father for 14yrs, I still believe in commitment & marriage, even though that part of my life didn't work out as I hoped. I've been divorced for over 10yrs & I'm ready to have those words "I Love You" actually be meant when it's said. All too easy for some people to "just say" those 3 special words. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. It's just that simple. So yes, truthfully, I do want to be married again, someday, when it's undeniable, feels right & is nothing even close to perfect. Perfection is unrealistic.... a relationship takes work...it's what you give and put into it, by both individuals that makes it amazing!Yes, I do want the "fantasy romance". No, I'm not naive, just a hopeless romantic. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mercedez

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 20-28

    Hi! My name is Mercedez. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Portsmouth, Virginia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Angelia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    .. Not living with your parents), well counseled or able to deal with conflictive criticism, to make a better YOU....(Adding ten years of your just severed relationship into my hands to carry is a burden, if you weren't aware.) Chemistry and compatibility are a must... Building a relationship and having a solid foundation is a necessity in order to be friends, partners, and more, in any long term relationship. If you are not capable of unconditional love, please keep going. Most of you are a total joke... (STD free with dated and detailed lab work will be required before dating and would need to be viewed with my own two eyes, and yes, I know how to read labs. If you think that you will be even close to getting a piece... That's if you can get lucky enough to obtain my phone number.) If you want someone with any lessor quality for yourself, than we are not each other's type. *** Be a little smarter and wiser as to what you do, if you care about yourself and your children. It shouldn't take extensive research to figure out what is out there, and to lower yourself to these type of women. I cannot relocate... Please be Mentally and Financially Stable....NO Mood Swinging Men with Rotten Attitudes who throw anything, including BIG BOY Temper Tantrums, Manipulation, nor Controlling issues...Yes, your type is a joke. Seek counseling. Currently, I prefer a bigger (toned or muscular) man (not obese and minus a double chin...; minimal...sky is the limit) with PERSONALITY, SUBSTANCE, and MEANING to talk, text, and possibly date, hopefully looking for a long term relationship (Not here to give out naked photos...Respect is definitely a priority). Hopefully, we can see where it goes from there. I'm big into communication which means, good conversations, and not just about being intimate. Please have updated photos to view. I am visual like most of us, thank you. No players allowed. You would be wasting both of our time. There's no room for dishonesty. I'm a very down to earth person and get along well with most people. I believe anything is possible. I don't mind that you had a past, as long as you haven't been in JAIL or are wanted. If you plan on dragging your previous lover, or sex partner along into every new relationship you make for security, I'm not your woman. If you date women that are from the ages of 18 to 30 bracket, we more than likely aren't going to click. I have a child who is a big part of my life. I share ***custody with her father. I can't relocate for another eight years. My busy days with her are Wednesday thru Friday, and every other Wednesday thru Monday. I figured it would be a good idea to note this, in case you have children as well, or are wondering on availability. This will hopefully give you an opportunity to compare our schedules. There are other qualities that I also enjoy seeing, but the ones I've listed, I think I like most. As far as looks go, I enjoy an athletic, stocky, or an average build, taller white male with nice white (bleach strips work well), straight teeth (my own silly quirks). I adore a great smile. :) I think a man's face is an attractive quality. If possible, it would be nice to find someone who enjoys working out, and would like the company as a partner, if not, that's okay as well. I have similar traits of what is listed above, and tend to be very easy going. I have a strong faith in God. I'm not high maintenance, nor materialistic. I am selfless with my loved ones. I'm not into drinking, and tend to only have one or two drinks a few times a year. I don't have a large bottom. It's in proportion with my body. I'm very self sufficient, though a handy man would be much of a blessing. If not, we could possibly make a mess trying to put things together with each other's help. :) I'm not that talented when it comes to following boxed directions; electronics; computers; and can't lug heavy objects... I'm guessing I'm not a Jane of all trades. I'm willing to take part in a well balance of teamwork (all the more fun and interesting), and I'm confident that I'm a good team player. Believe it or not, I'm a real SWEETIE, and I'm sensual as well for the right man... ;;) Just wanted to steer the jerks in a different direction. But from what I've been encountering, they don't bother to read profiles anyway... :)I'm not looking for someone perfect, just someone compatible who would like to experience peace and happiness in a possibly normal life style...someone excepting and loving of my child and myself. Love can be beautiful to experience when you're with the right person....(Look forward to this being the last person in my life)....someone to have lots of fun, laugh, and grow old together, not sweating the small stuff. I really like animals. I have one dog and two cats.....I hope you're not allergic.Please, NO married or separated men....nor someone who needs to drink daily. If your longest relationship is of ***years or less, that's another red flag to me. I also don't think every sentence really needs " lol" on it. It's kind of tacky. I'm 43, not a teenager. Don't get me wrong, acting silly is fun, but I think a profile and communication back and forth could use some real words. No exclamation points, unless you've something positive to say...and no capital letters for full words, unless it's something good. :)My hair is naturally curly, so it comes out a little different everyday....I also straighten it most of the time. My photos are all dated. I'm half French and half Italian, first generation. I speak only English.Thanks for your time and understanding.... Best wishes and good luck to you, all. :)Also, if you have nothing nice to say, or you're not liking what I wrote, please don't send me a message. It's like looking in the paper for a car. If you don't like the ad, why call the person to insult them? It tells me you have your own issues to work on. I understand some people have nothing better to do, and can't help themselves in acting like a true fool. If you With genuine company... Your choice...but in a public setting. :)

  • Marylou

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I would describe myself as easy going, intelligent, and fun to be around. I workout ***times a week, am very active and dedicated to being fit and generally leading a healthy lifestyle. I like to go out and have a good time on the weekends, but on occasion like to stay in and relax at home or catch a movie. Although I don’t have family that live near me, they are important to me and I sometimes travel a short distance to spend time with them and get together around the holidays.I am looking to meet a guy in the city that is attractive, smart, outgoing, successful, and has a great sense of humor, who will not only introduce me to new things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new to both of us.

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