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Avis, 42
United States, Virginia, Portsmouth

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About Me

~Insert witty opening comment here :) Here's a "little bit" of me. I have 4 amazing kids who mean the world to me. They are my heart & I would be nothing without them. I'm confident in saying that I'm proud of who I am on the inside. I have alot of love & compassion for others. Even more waiting for the man I fall in love with. I would do anything for anyone if I'm able. I'm an honest (do expect honesty in return) understanding, giving & loving soul. I'm a fun-loving gal & sometimes simply silly. I have a lot to give from my heart, & I'm not afraid to show it. Dont get me wrong, I'm far from perfect, I have my moments just like anyone else & of course I can be emotional, I AM a woman! lol :)So, what am I looking for in a relationship..? I know what I want..do you? I'm looking for a friend, eventually to become My Best Friend for the rest of my life... taking it slow (whatever that means?) is not a bad thing....but I'm not getting any younger (although age is just a number) time is ticking! I'm a very passionate, love hugs & kisses (given & received) kinda girl. I can be wild & crazy at times, but also quiet & shy. I think at some point I'll make you laugh, probably because I did or said something ridiculously goofy. Laughter is the best medicine, and I absolutely love to laugh, even at myself! My friends have always told me that I have a huge, loving & giving heart. Sometimes over extending that part but that's ok. I wouldn't be happy with myself if I didn't. You can talk to me about anything you might need or want to. I prefer honest communication & being upfront. I'll always be there for my family, friends & loved ones, period.What I'm really looking for is a man who will truly love me, unconditionally, as I know without a doubt, I can return that same love to him. I want to be able to look at my man from across a crowded room & melt, just knowing that he wants me as much as I want him.....I'm waiting for this man, who will look at me & think I'm beautiful, even if in sweats, no make up & in full morning frumpy gear (that's before the coffee!) lol But no worries! I love to get dressed up too! I want to be in a committed relationship with someone who knows they want to be in one too, with me (only) and who wants to spend his time (not all of it) with me doing "anything" (I'll try almost anything once & love spur of the moment getaways) or even absolutely nothing fancy (just sitting together, snuggled up, enjoying each others company). I'm waiting for a man who is also passionate, genuine, caring, understanding, loving & true. Someone who is willing to take life's ups &..together. Someone who can communicate his needs & wants to me, not make excuses, or shut me out of his world.I'm waiting for you....wherever you are. (need directions?)I was married to my children's father for 14yrs, I still believe in commitment & marriage, even though that part of my life didn't work out as I hoped. I've been divorced for over 10yrs & I'm ready to have those words "I Love You" actually be meant when it's said. All too easy for some people to "just say" those 3 special words. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. It's just that simple. So yes, truthfully, I do want to be married again, someday, when it's undeniable, feels right & is nothing even close to perfect. Perfection is unrealistic.... a relationship takes work...it's what you give and put into it, by both individuals that makes it amazing!Yes, I do want the "fantasy romance". No, I'm not naive, just a hopeless romantic. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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