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Carmella, 45
United States, Michigan, Livonia

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Spontaneous, blue- Thrust back into the world of Singledom after vacating quite a while ago and still unsure if I'm relieved or terrified to find myself here. I'll preface my profile by stating that I'm not a serial dater....I'm terminally monogomous and not the least bit interested in a meaningless hookup. I'm tiptoe'n back into the pond thinking it couldn't hurt to meet a few new friiends with mutual interests while waiting for that intelligent, witty, fun, honest, music lovin man who clearly must be stuck in one helluva traffic jam, I'm a high energy, creative, talkative, intelligent, clutzy, sarcastic night owl obsessed with music who loves to laugh. Ive been described as spirited, animated, fiery and a ball of energy - which is probably a nice way of saying I can be a bit wound up at times and take multi-tasking to a new level. However I DO have that slower gear and can enjoy the quiet as much as the chaos, At the core, I'm intelligent, sensitive, witty, generous, compassionate, forgiving, affectionate, loyal, passionate (sometimes thats a good thing..sometimes not) and speak sarcasm fluently. I treat others the way I hope to be treated even tho i find that rarely reciprocated. I'm fairly transparent and people typically know exactly where they stand with me. I appreciate HONESTY, SARCASM, INTELLIGENCE, CREATIVITY, KINDNESS, WIT, SPONTANAIETY and the ability to be GOOFY all bottled up in the same person. And since music and humor are both pervasive in my life, I tend to gel best with those that share my passion for music and don't take themselves too seriously. I suppose time will tell if mine is too lofty a list,I'm not what people typically expect, I am just as comfortable engaged in a debate with a world reknowned surgeon in a 4 star restaurant as I am pacifying my rebel spirit shootin a game of 9 ball with a couple of bikers in the neighborhood dive.I'm not a jealous person by nature, I believe if your partner wants someone else, then let em go have it. I'd rather be with someone that has options but chooses me *** one that is faithful only because I've crawled so far up his a*** that he has little opportunity to be otherwise. I still believe in soul mates, acting silly, PDA and in letting people see the real you right from the beginning (cuz let's face it, its gonna come out eventually). I believe in saying what you mean and meaning what you say. I believe that you GET what you GIVE and that being with the right person makes you a better person - baggage and all (carry-ons are preferable :o) I appreciate those that accept others, faults and all and are willing to admit they may have a few of their own, So......if ya think you can keep up, how about a game of pool? We're burnin daylight here..... Something casual, not too structured. I find a game of pool is a great way to have fun and get to know someone in a more relaxed manner. (Plus I get to see how you handle losing to a girl. LOL)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Gardening American Football Tennis
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