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Stella, 45
United States, Michigan, Livonia

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About Me

Hello : Here I am once again. I took a break for awhile , but I have come to the conclusion I would like to find someone to share my life with. I know I have a lot to offer the right person.The million dollar question... what am I looking for? I desire to find someone that is ready for a relationship and willing to get to know each other. In order to get to know each other there has to be communication between us. I am a firm believer in open and honest communication. If you ask me a question you can be sure that I will give you an honest answer. I am a very honest and up front type of person. I will not tolerate games or dishonesty. I am 44 years old and have two children ages 9 and 11. I have been divorced since ***and yes my ex-husband and I get along well for the chlidren's sake. He and I share custody ***. There is no drama between us, and we have both moved on with our lives. My potential partner would have to be accepting of my two children and realize I am busy with them, but I hope to find someone that would want to have fun with me and the kids. I also realize it is important to have adult time, and with me having ***custody I do have every other weekend free. I work for the state investigating reports of abuse and neglect of the elderly and disabled population. I have stable work history and I expect the same in a potential partner. I have a big heart and want to help those in need, however I have also learned how not to be taken advantage of. With that being said if you don't have stable work history, your own bank account , your own residence, and own car, lets not waste each others precious time. Life is too short. During my free time I love being outside. This usually includes me riding my horses, camping, fishing or just outside enjoying nature. I am not a hunter, however i am not opposed to hunting. I know animal population has to be decreased to keep animals from starving to death. I desire to find someone that loves the outdoors and loves animals. I think I have given an overall description of what I am seeking. If you are still reading , and would like to know more, drop me a line and we can chat. Otherwise best of luck to you. LucyOne more thing i will have a picture posted in the next couple of days. Flash drive with pics is at work. First dates are always a bit awkward. I find it usually to work best to have the first date at a public place, and then if things go well it can turn into a longer date. its important to find what is comfortable for each person, and then take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Mexican Portuguese
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