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Ericka, 42

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About Me

These things are always so hard to start, but I suppose I should start as I will end, HONEST. What I am looking for from this site first is a FRIEND. I am looking for a long term relationship, but I am not looking to rush anything. Things are so much better when they happen naturally. I won't push it, I take things, appreciate things, as they are. I'm so not into the drama. That being said, this is a good place to add that I am also not n2 married men. I'm not judging, u do what u do 4 whatever reason (there's an excuse 2 b found, made if u need one), but it's just not my thing. Now I'll give u a lil about me. I am a very mature, blunt spoken woman. I am honest and demand honesty in return. I am very independent. I don't need or want you for your money. I want your attention and time. I lead a busy life as I am sure u do, but as i will make time for you I will expect and demand the same. A phone call r text, but I want 2 know u r thinking of me. I will be a person/friend 2 u and not just a booty call. I am an amazing friend to all I love. I give of myself unselfishly because doing so makes me happy. I love to laugh and have a great time and I am very social. I am a woman with a lot to offer. I have a great persnality, I am very honest, and I have old fashioned values n morals. There are so many game players that I am about fed up. I am a single mom raising a daughter, so I am not about to give u my home phone before we meet in person. If u aren't willing to chat online, see if there is enough common ground for an in person, public meeting, then move on. Respect the fact that I am smart and cautious. I am not playing games, I'm just not gullible or stupid. If u can prove to me u r true, n not playing games, then we may have the opportunity for something amazing. Otherwise, move on n don't waste ur time or mine. My idea of a perfect date is meeting in public and enjoying an alcoholic beverage or coffee and just talking and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shawn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    First off, there are few things that I dislike more than people/men who are dishonest or unfaithful. If you are either, please keep looking and I wish you luck! A little about me. I have two kids but they are grown and no longer live at home. Since my kids are gone, I have a dog and two cats that are important to me. I am definitely an animal lover so if you don't like animals we probably wouldn't work out. I have a career, I own my home and my car. I enjoy road trips, hiking, bowling, going to the movies, dining out, cuddling, spending time with family and friends. I'm not really into the bar scene. Haven't found that as being the best place to meet people. I also enjoy most sports but my favorite is hockey .. Go Red Wings!! I have recently started playing golf which I'm not great at but I enjoy it and I'm getting better. I love amusement parks and can't get enough of the roller coasters. I like almost any kind of music but I seem to be leaning towards country lately. What I'm looking for: Someone who is honest, faithful, motivated, compassionate, attentive, kind, loyal, and giving. Someone who will treat me with respect. Unfortunately, I haven't always gotten that out of my past relationships.Now that I've had this up for a few days I feel it necessary to let you know what I'm no looking for. If any of the following apply, I am not interested and don't want to waste your time:1) You do drugs or drink excessively2) You don't have a drivers license or a vehicle3) You don't have a job (I know the job market sucks but I can't afford to take care of someone else***You have small children/under age ***I love kids but mine are grown and I am at a point in my life that I don't want to start over from scratch***You're just looking for a hook upAlso, if you send me a message and I don't respond, please don't take it personally. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it just means there was some reason that I wasn't interested. Could be as simple as distance or not seeing any common interests. It would depend on each persons interests but I'm sure most people would agree that the time should be spent doing something that allows you to talk and get to know each other without having to yell or say "what?" all the time.

  • Shelia

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm currently a full-time student, mother, and employee. My life is full - but, one thing is missing - my soulmate. Yes, I believe he's out there somewhere.In my closet, Harley boots, Cowboy boots, Heels, Flats, Flip Flops - I like almost everything. My iPod is the same - a little bit of everything. However, my favorites are Pink and Sugarland. I couldn't find my soul-mate, so I bought my car.:) I don't have to worry about fitting the car-seat in the back (I tried when kids were little - it didn't work). I read on here somewhere - "when you find the one, it will be like breathing" - it will come naturally. I hope I find that one day!I come off shy and "reserved (so I'm told)" at first. I'm not the talk your head off type - I like to have fun and just take a little time to get to know me. I'm a bit old-fashioned, I like for the guy to make the first move. That doesn't mean I won't - just sayin'...I don't like shirtless pictures. If you're in a swimsuit being normal that's one thing, if you're in the bathroom posing, that's another. I am not here for a hook up, so if that's what you're looking for - keep looking. Really, I'm surprised at all the guys that are here just for that.I really try not to judge people because I've only walked in MY shoes. I'm just looking for someone who does the best they can with what they have and wants to be the best they can. For people who require no drama - I've never met anyone like that. I have friends who have all the $ they could wish for and people who live one day at a time - everyone has drama - it's called life. However, choosing to participate in drama is sometimes a choice.Today, I am content with being single. I don't prefer it, but I'm okay with it. Happy hunting. Of course, public place. Dinner, coffee...

  • Dawn

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I really don't want to write about myself, I would rather just talk in person. Anway i'm trying to get out and socialize more try to meet people that are fun to be with, and just see what happens. If you are are trying to do the same I hope to see you soon. Somewhere easy to talk

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