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Shawn, 41

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About Me

First off, there are few things that I dislike more than people/men who are dishonest or unfaithful. If you are either, please keep looking and I wish you luck! A little about me. I have two kids but they are grown and no longer live at home. Since my kids are gone, I have a dog and two cats that are important to me. I am definitely an animal lover so if you don't like animals we probably wouldn't work out. I have a career, I own my home and my car. I enjoy road trips, hiking, bowling, going to the movies, dining out, cuddling, spending time with family and friends. I'm not really into the bar scene. Haven't found that as being the best place to meet people. I also enjoy most sports but my favorite is hockey .. Go Red Wings!! I have recently started playing golf which I'm not great at but I enjoy it and I'm getting better. I love amusement parks and can't get enough of the roller coasters. I like almost any kind of music but I seem to be leaning towards country lately. What I'm looking for: Someone who is honest, faithful, motivated, compassionate, attentive, kind, loyal, and giving. Someone who will treat me with respect. Unfortunately, I haven't always gotten that out of my past relationships.Now that I've had this up for a few days I feel it necessary to let you know what I'm no looking for. If any of the following apply, I am not interested and don't want to waste your time:1) You do drugs or drink excessively2) You don't have a drivers license or a vehicle3) You don't have a job (I know the job market sucks but I can't afford to take care of someone else***You have small children/under age ***I love kids but mine are grown and I am at a point in my life that I don't want to start over from scratch***You're just looking for a hook upAlso, if you send me a message and I don't respond, please don't take it personally. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it just means there was some reason that I wasn't interested. Could be as simple as distance or not seeing any common interests. It would depend on each persons interests but I'm sure most people would agree that the time should be spent doing something that allows you to talk and get to know each other without having to yell or say "what?" all the time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    - Im not looking for a long distance relationship.I don't want to meet men at a bar, so here I am . - I have been divorced for seven years now and have learned alot about myself and what it takes to make a relationship work. I know I want to be able to enjoy life and enjoy it with the people that are around me. I would say I have a good since of humor, but at first I may be shy. My friends would tell you that I am fun to be around, a great mom, and for those I care about-I would do just about anything for you. I have two boys and they are my world. Besides some hard lessons learned, they are the best thing that came out of my marriage. If you don't enjoy kids I am not the person for you. I do have my kids full time (that does not mean I can not get away) so it is important for me to be around someone who does enjoy kids.I am looking for a man that will treat me with respect, is honest, and will be there in rough times. I want someone who will respect my kids, and realizes when you do have kids plans can change at the last minute. I want someone who likes to go out and have a good time, yet he has no problem staying at home lounging around on the couch. I am looking for someone who is done with the party scene and more on the settled side. My hope is to find a good hearted, loving man! I'm looking for someone I can share my life with, so if you are just looking to get laid- don't contact me.As well, while I will text quick messages I hate texting full on phone conversations. If you can't pick up a phone to have a conversation then please don't bother contacting me. Honestly, for first dates I prefer, to either go for coffee, a happy hour or lunch. I feel this takes some of the pressure off. If there is not a connection, then we are out an hour of our time! If there is a connection we can can plan another date soon, or continue on with the date.

  • Claire

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    You clicked, you looked, you're intrigued and want to know more. So just ask! I love the outdoors, not afraid to break a nail or get my hair wet, but clean up nicely, too! Looking for someone who appreciates that. Not looking to rush into anything, but fully willing to give it my all for the right man.I am a pretty simple person with a very adventurous side. I don't watch TV, so don't ask me about the latest shows (I seriously have no clue what's on these days). But ask me about the latest paddleboarding technology and then we may have a conversation starter! ;-) Seriously, if you're a couch potato, we will have nothing in common. I work to pay the bills...I play to have a life! Meet for drinks somewhere on the water...duh! ;-)

  • Stella

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello : Here I am once again. I took a break for awhile , but I have come to the conclusion I would like to find someone to share my life with. I know I have a lot to offer the right person.The million dollar question... what am I looking for? I desire to find someone that is ready for a relationship and willing to get to know each other. In order to get to know each other there has to be communication between us. I am a firm believer in open and honest communication. If you ask me a question you can be sure that I will give you an honest answer. I am a very honest and up front type of person. I will not tolerate games or dishonesty. I am 44 years old and have two children ages 9 and 11. I have been divorced since ***and yes my ex-husband and I get along well for the chlidren's sake. He and I share custody ***. There is no drama between us, and we have both moved on with our lives. My potential partner would have to be accepting of my two children and realize I am busy with them, but I hope to find someone that would want to have fun with me and the kids. I also realize it is important to have adult time, and with me having ***custody I do have every other weekend free. I work for the state investigating reports of abuse and neglect of the elderly and disabled population. I have stable work history and I expect the same in a potential partner. I have a big heart and want to help those in need, however I have also learned how not to be taken advantage of. With that being said if you don't have stable work history, your own bank account , your own residence, and own car, lets not waste each others precious time. Life is too short. During my free time I love being outside. This usually includes me riding my horses, camping, fishing or just outside enjoying nature. I am not a hunter, however i am not opposed to hunting. I know animal population has to be decreased to keep animals from starving to death. I desire to find someone that loves the outdoors and loves animals. I think I have given an overall description of what I am seeking. If you are still reading , and would like to know more, drop me a line and we can chat. Otherwise best of luck to you. LucyOne more thing i will have a picture posted in the next couple of days. Flash drive with pics is at work. First dates are always a bit awkward. I find it usually to work best to have the first date at a public place, and then if things go well it can turn into a longer date. its important to find what is comfortable for each person, and then take it from there.

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