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First off, there are few things that I dislike more than people/men who are dishonest or unfaithful. If you are either, please keep looking and I wish you luck! A little about me. I have two kids but they are grown and no longer live at home. Since my kids are gone, I have a dog and two cats that are important to me. I am definitely an animal lover so if you don't like animals we probably wouldn't work out. I have a career, I own my home and my car. I enjoy road trips, hiking, bowling, going to the movies, dining out, cuddling, spending time with family and friends. I'm not really into the bar scene. Haven't found that as being the best place to meet people. I also enjoy most sports but my favorite is hockey .. Go Red Wings!! I have recently started playing golf which I'm not great at but I enjoy it and I'm getting better. I love amusement parks and can't get enough of the roller coasters. I like almost any kind of music but I seem to be leaning towards country lately. What I'm looking for: Someone who is honest, faithful, motivated, compassionate, attentive, kind, loyal, and giving. Someone who will treat me with respect. Unfortunately, I haven't always gotten that out of my past relationships.Now that I've had this up for a few days I feel it necessary to let you know what I'm no looking for. If any of the following apply, I am not interested and don't want to waste your time:1) You do drugs or drink excessively2) You don't have a drivers license or a vehicle3) You don't have a job (I know the job market sucks but I can't afford to take care of someone else***You have small children/under age ***I love kids but mine are grown and I am at a point in my life that I don't want to start over from scratch***You're just looking for a hook upAlso, if you send me a message and I don't respond, please don't take it personally. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it just means there was some reason that I wasn't interested. Could be as simple as distance or not seeing any common interests. It would depend on each persons interests but I'm sure most people would agree that the time should be spent doing something that allows you to talk and get to know each other without having to yell or say "what?" all the time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    - Im not looking for a long distance relationship.I don't want to meet men at a bar, so here I am . - I have been divorced for seven years now and have learned alot about myself and what it takes to make a relationship work. I know I want to be able to enjoy life and enjoy it with the people that are around me. I would say I have a good since of humor, but at first I may be shy. My friends would tell you that I am fun to be around, a great mom, and for those I care about-I would do just about anything for you. I have two boys and they are my world. Besides some hard lessons learned, they are the best thing that came out of my marriage. If you don't enjoy kids I am not the person for you. I do have my kids full time (that does not mean I can not get away) so it is important for me to be around someone who does enjoy kids.I am looking for a man that will treat me with respect, is honest, and will be there in rough times. I want someone who will respect my kids, and realizes when you do have kids plans can change at the last minute. I want someone who likes to go out and have a good time, yet he has no problem staying at home lounging around on the couch. I am looking for someone who is done with the party scene and more on the settled side. My hope is to find a good hearted, loving man! I'm looking for someone I can share my life with, so if you are just looking to get laid- don't contact me.As well, while I will text quick messages I hate texting full on phone conversations. If you can't pick up a phone to have a conversation then please don't bother contacting me. Honestly, for first dates I prefer, to either go for coffee, a happy hour or lunch. I feel this takes some of the pressure off. If there is not a connection, then we are out an hour of our time! If there is a connection we can can plan another date soon, or continue on with the date.

  • Carmella

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Spontaneous, blue- Thrust back into the world of Singledom after vacating quite a while ago and still unsure if I'm relieved or terrified to find myself here. I'll preface my profile by stating that I'm not a serial dater....I'm terminally monogomous and not the least bit interested in a meaningless hookup. I'm tiptoe'n back into the pond thinking it couldn't hurt to meet a few new friiends with mutual interests while waiting for that intelligent, witty, fun, honest, music lovin man who clearly must be stuck in one helluva traffic jam, I'm a high energy, creative, talkative, intelligent, clutzy, sarcastic night owl obsessed with music who loves to laugh. Ive been described as spirited, animated, fiery and a ball of energy - which is probably a nice way of saying I can be a bit wound up at times and take multi-tasking to a new level. However I DO have that slower gear and can enjoy the quiet as much as the chaos, At the core, I'm intelligent, sensitive, witty, generous, compassionate, forgiving, affectionate, loyal, passionate (sometimes thats a good thing..sometimes not) and speak sarcasm fluently. I treat others the way I hope to be treated even tho i find that rarely reciprocated. I'm fairly transparent and people typically know exactly where they stand with me. I appreciate HONESTY, SARCASM, INTELLIGENCE, CREATIVITY, KINDNESS, WIT, SPONTANAIETY and the ability to be GOOFY all bottled up in the same person. And since music and humor are both pervasive in my life, I tend to gel best with those that share my passion for music and don't take themselves too seriously. I suppose time will tell if mine is too lofty a list,I'm not what people typically expect, I am just as comfortable engaged in a debate with a world reknowned surgeon in a 4 star restaurant as I am pacifying my rebel spirit shootin a game of 9 ball with a couple of bikers in the neighborhood dive.I'm not a jealous person by nature, I believe if your partner wants someone else, then let em go have it. I'd rather be with someone that has options but chooses me *** one that is faithful only because I've crawled so far up his a*** that he has little opportunity to be otherwise. I still believe in soul mates, acting silly, PDA and in letting people see the real you right from the beginning (cuz let's face it, its gonna come out eventually). I believe in saying what you mean and meaning what you say. I believe that you GET what you GIVE and that being with the right person makes you a better person - baggage and all (carry-ons are preferable :o) I appreciate those that accept others, faults and all and are willing to admit they may have a few of their own, So......if ya think you can keep up, how about a game of pool? We're burnin daylight here..... Something casual, not too structured. I find a game of pool is a great way to have fun and get to know someone in a more relaxed manner. (Plus I get to see how you handle losing to a girl. LOL)

  • Lenora

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Ok a little about me...I've been divorced over 3 years. I have 2 great children. Daughter 22 and son 14. I love my kids with all my heart. I love almost anything to do with the outdoors. I like to go out with friends for dinner and/or drinks and laugh,get crazy and have fun. I also enjoy staying in sometimes and just watching movies. Im very easy going, hate drama, honest sincere affectionate woman looking for someone with same. Someone to share fun times with and see what happens.P.S. if you can bring the teenager out in me...big plus! Meet for dinner or a drink...or both. Depends on the person really.

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