Total users: 62,443,208 Online users: 224,544
Barbra, 42

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Apr 2026 21:57:36

About Me

Ok, I think I am ready to give up. I am a very nice girl looking to find her happily ever after. After my experiences on here I do not think it is going to happen. I am giving this one last chance. If you are a guy who is looking to find that one special person that you truly want to spend the rest of your life with, not just saying that, but actually MEANS it and FEELS that way, and sincerely wants to get off the dating sites, then please write me. If you just say that, but are continually still looking for the next thing, then please don't.I have three great children who I have custody of 50 percent of the time. Obviously my match would need to like kids, however I also have plenty of alone time. I would welcome my potential partner's children as well.I also have an Alaskan Malamute.I love the shore, movies, spending time with my kids, and would love to spend time with that one special man...Also my pictures are extremely recent and I look like my pictures, really.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Judy

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a Single Mom looking for a stable, secure, guy with a strong but sensitive quality and a great sense of humor. Life is too short and I would like to enjoy it with someone special who shares the same positive fun outlook on life. Someone to share a mutual respect, great conversation with laughter, good chemistry and can make me smile inside and out. I want to meet that guy I can't stop thinking about :). Honesty, Trust, Respect, Communication and Passion are the keys to a successful relationship. Is the ink still wet from your divorce? allow it to dry first. I'm a Fun, Passsionate, Witty, Positive, Warm, Caring, Affectionate, slightly sarcastic (but never hurtful), and yes modest woman just looking for that one missing piece..maybe it's you. Won't know until you try. : ) I like to do just about anything…I’m pretty easy going and truly appreciate the little things, just love to laugh and have a good time and can find humor in just about any situation. Hanging out with family/friends, bbqs, etc., Any time spent with my daughter (my match must love kids too), going for drinks at an outdoor bar/restaurant, movies, bike riding, concerts, love seeing live bands, bowling,, blah, blah blah lit'l bit of everything : ***hey watching paint dry can be fun with the right person LOL. Just looking to meet that guy to do this with - who are you? You are fun/funny, sweet, thoughtful, passionate, compassionate, romantic, easy to talk to/Open (no wall up), not afraid to act silly at times and honest -- also i am not a mind-reader and do not want to have to try and guess what you're thinking or feeling -- ok everyone might want these but I REALLY do ;) I treat others how I would want to be treated, my match should too. It’s all in that first meeting (drinks/coffee, etc.) keep it casual and just see if that spark is there. Something about that person has to grab me from the beginning. The perfect blend of physical and mental connection is the key. So let’s be great friends that have serious sparks. In time and a little luck – love will build from that. Any takers?I'm a sucker for a Great smile! My ideal date is one where we had such a great night talking and laughing, when i leave i can't wipe the smile from my face or wait to see you again. sooo...let's meet and see what happens.

  • Marie

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm bored of my ***year old profile, even though I've changed it up a little over the years. (ugh, years. How pathetic)Observations: - Why are ***year old men taking "selfies" and posing in the mirror with duckface? My 11 year old does that. STOP!- Why are men taking pics of their abs? And not all of them are muscular abs. I don't want to see either. If your abs are hot, peachy. But if you have the personality of a rock, I don't care how hot you are. - If you're going to post a pic on a site where you are looking to meet someone, don't post a pic that looks like your mug shot. Scary!- I always read profiles but you know how many say, "I like to have a good time and laugh."? Who doesn't? It should be a given without saying it. - I like terms of endearment, but I feel they should be earned. While I know some of you are just being sweet, I am not too keen on being called sweetie, babe, hon, or anything like it. - I can't for the life of me understand why some of the men on here have a back and forth all day, ask you to meet and then completely drop the ball. Isn't it the point to see if you have a rapport and then meet up? Why ask me out to begin with? Nobody twisted your arm to do it. Don't leave a girl hangin' - it's so rude. I NEVER do that to anyone nor would I ever.That being said:I'm normal in the sense that I know how to communicate, I like to talk/write and learn. I have my lovies, my two kids, and I would probably prefer someone with kids as well and NOT because of anything other than the fact that there's a mutual understanding (or should be) about time constraints. Also, I have dated a guy without kids who stated he didn't want any, then bam... he was on the fence and POSSIBLY wanted 'em. I am not going through that with anyone else. Besides, this old chick is done! My son is 16 and daughter is 12. My car seat days are waaaaay over and soon my oldest will be chauffeuring around little one. Yippee!I hate listing my likes because it always sounds like, well... a stupid list. But here are a few things: Family Guy/Stupid humor***Jump Street (who doesn't love Jonah Hill?)I also like movies that make me think or affect me... Flight with Denzel was awesome. I dig cooking and watch Foodnet and HGTV for ideas. I like wine over beer but will drink a beer if it's what's available! I don't do sports. Frankly, they bore me because I can't catch on. I will watch a little hockey though. You can watch 'em as long as you acknowledge my sparkly presence every few minutes (and I mean at least once or twice during the game, really) I like to shop like most women but I am speedy and efficient. I don't blow my money on crap I can't afford (meaning, I live within my means) I don't expect to be showered with gifts but after being married almost 17 years, it would be nice once in awhile to have a partner who thinks about me when they see something I would like (even if it's a magazine!! I'm easy like that!) I really hate bad grammar and complete laziness with the English language. The men that write to me tell me they have "good "grammer" and spell and "speling" and no, they aren't joking. I am no snob but it is just a mental turn off if you can't even check your message to at least make sure it makes sense, too.I have a dog (pictured!) and she is an angel. I am buying a home and maybe getting another dog and some kitties. If you don't love animals, boo. I don't expect a perfect man, but I want someone perfect for *me.* I have quirks and I'm sure you guys do, too. I talk a lot, I can be loud, I sing to my kids to wake them up in the morning, I even sing songs I make up for the dog. No, not crazy just goofy at times. I like to be social and don't like shy men. I like outgoing confidence. If you smoke, ok. I go back and forth. I'm on the downswing with it now but working on it.At present, I am buying a home so will be somewhat busy, but conversation in the interim is ok with me still. Food and drinks!

  • Sylvia

    Offline

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for someone who can be at ease hanging out watching a movie or sitting by a camp fire..... to getting all dolled up for a fun night out. I enjoy pretty much anything...... If your with the right person anything can be fun. Some things I currently enjoy....... I love being out doors and I grew up hanging with the guys playing match box cars....lol. Of coarse my dad wanted a son, but he got me *** I got Barbies and Tonka Trucks....lol. I enjoy cooking and baking...I'm pretty good, not to toot my own horn or anything :) I love antiques and refurbishing things I come across. ....I am a history buff and staying up to date with current events. I appreciate those who can hold a good intellectual conversation about current events rather then just so called reality shows. I love to learn, explore and travel. I go target shooting with my 16 yr old son and I am a pretty good shot ;). I can be kind of a wise ass sometimes, but all in good fun. But I am also very loving and giving of my time. Which my time means a lot to me...if I am taking time away from my son to be with you, make it worth my while and don't waste my time with BS, please.....I'm a pretty independent woman because I had to be but I would like to find someone to spend time with, get to know and go on some adventures with. And most importantly, have some fun... Life is too short not too :) I'm not into playing games. I'm looking for a loving and real relationship with a man who knows what they are looking for, is self confident, and knows how to treat a woman. I'm not looking for booty calls or lies.....Honesty is the best policy... I'm not looking for perfection but I do believe there is someone perfect out there for me and vise vera. Chemistry is key....."Physical attractions are common, a mental connection is rare." There's more to me then just a pretty smile and I'm looking for chemistry and a connection with someone beyond just a physical attraction. Meet some where for a couple drinks see if we connect and go from there......

Follow Us: