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Erna, 40
United States, North Carolina, High Point

Offline, last seen Thu, 15 Jan 2026 11:51:54

About Me

love to laugh, dance around my kitchen barefoot, play in the rain and listen to good music, especially if it's live! Good friends, good food, good wine (or beer depending on the mood), good conversation. Honestly? I want pretty much what everyone wants: to date someone and see where it leads, hopefully with the end result of a loving, healthy, happy relationship. If nothing else, maybe we find the love our life or a best friend... or both.My dad tells me that the guy I choose to be with is in for a handful and that I'll always keep the guy on his toes. I am pretty sure he meant it lovingly as he said it with a smile! Family is very important to me so if you want to date me, be prepared for me to talk about them a lot. I was raised in the center of ACC basketball country so that is a big part of my life. I also have a love of golf. I have played golf with my dad since I was 4 so it'd be nice if you're a sports lover! I am compassionate, empathetic, gentle, funny - so I've been told - and pretty much a happy-go-lucky girl. I believe that everyone we meet in life is a teacher and a student, always something to teach as well as learn. I also am pretty free-spirited and a bit of a hippie girl at heart. I love life and do what I can to live it to the fullest. I've never met a challenge I back down from. I'm laid back and independent, goofy and happy, serious when I need to be, loving and loyal. I would like someone to see and appreciate that. IMy ideal guy would be open to and enjoy all these things, as well as passionate, fun, playful, supportive, great sense of humor with an even temper and maybe even a tad bit of a romantic. It'd be really perfect to meet/date someone who is independent, happy, stable, gentle, kind, smart, funny and attentive. The rest is just bonus! Be open to what could happen, not clingy and certainly not pushy.Please don't tell me you think I'm beautiful... I don't want to be wooed with that. Don't get me wrong. It's nice to hear, but I rather you have a real conversation with me. I rather be wow'd with your intelligence, not pretty words or**** behavior. Get to know me. There's much more to me than blonde hair and blue eyes. It needs to be said that my school schedule is very important as I am near the end of finishing my Bachelor of Arts in Public Relations/Social Science (double major) that I have worked very hard for. I also have plans to earn my MLA when that is completed.Dog lover a must! I have 2 dogs that are very important to meFair warning: I'm very strong willed, but also soft-hearted. I have always been the woman that takes care of everyone. I had to be strong. I can hold my own, but I would like to share my life with someone special who understands me and allows me to understand them. And takes care of me when I need it, too!Remember, there's a huge difference in want and need... I'm very happy with who I am in this world. I don't need a relationship, but I would like to have someone permanent and dependable in my life. I look forward to hearing from you and seeing what happens! Cheers! Ideal would be a picnic at the park at sunset

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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