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Ramona, 38

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About Me

Yea, I am an old maid, but I Am still not willing to settle. Lol. I have not felt like dealing with dating for a while. Not because I am bitter, but just because i haven't felt like doing the whole get to know you thing. It usually is either like pulling teeth to really get to know someone or you think you get to know them just to find out they were not being themselves. It is just exhausting. I wish someone great would just fall in my lap, lol, but since that hasn't happened, I guess I should start putting forth a little effort! :) I need a man who can take care of me when I need it, but who will also allow himself to be taken care of. Actually, I don't NEED a man, I just Want one lol. I know everyone says they are honest, and how important honesty is to them, but I see no point in lies. No point in games. We are adults, and as adults, we should be able to handle the truth. I respect someone who is honest.Even if it is not something I necessarily want to hear, in the end, I can't fault someone who has been truthful.I do not stay mad long, if you make me mad, but if you lie to me, I have no tolerance for that. This goes both ways. I am a very honest person, and it takes someone special to be able to handle that.Most people say they want honesty, but in reality, most people are neither open minded nor understanding enough to deal with it.Attraction is a personal preference. I do not expect everyone to find me attractive, and I am not going to be attracted to everyone. For me, you have to not make my stomach turn when I look at you, but more importantly, I have to feel like we would get along. That our senses of humor mesh well (mine is very sarcastic and sometimes crude, lol), and that I can hold easy flowing, relaxed conversations with you. I know we are all here to meet someone (some for different reasons), but I am amazed at the amount of people who get their underwear in a wad because i do not want their phone number or to meet them just because they said hello. I want someone who understands and appreciates the fact that I am pickier than perhaps I have a right to be, and thinks it is a good thing that I do not talk to or meet every single person who sends me an *** i am pretty. I would think that is a good thing!!!! Who wants someone who "gets around" like that! As an intelligent adult, I am not naive enough to think that whoever is *** is not also ***+ other women. It is my job to make them want to stop talking to all those other women and concentrate on me.....If you want my undivided attention.....earn it!!!! LOL just some advice,though, I am not one to fall for BS, so don't waste your time trying to throw it at me. I will simply laugh at it, because I find it funny, and the only time that is a benefit to you is if you are saying it to purposely be funny!I am not a small girl, so I do not want a man I feel like I can beat up, lol. Oh, and please have a job,a sense of humor, and all your teeth! :DThank you, and if you read this and are still interested, fit the above prerequisites, and are not a complete ass, please send me a message....if not...good luck! The typical first date is dinner and a movie. That's fine, but I think a first date should be somewhere that you can talk and really start to get to know someone. People also are usually a little nervous on first dates, and you don't always see the real them. I like to go somewhere like "dave and Buster's" where you can't help but be yourself because the kid in you comes out. You see the more relaxed and fun side of somebody. Don't get me wrong, a nice romantic date is great too though!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Friends and family would describe me as a dedicated, driven, outgoing, funny (maybe a tad sarcastic), and loyal woman. I am open to try all kinds of new things from food, to music, and travel. I will try just about anything once. I absolutely love music....all kinds but my passion is R&B and old school hip hop. The last concert I went to was L.L. Cool J, Doug E. All of the music I grew up listening to. Yes.......Flavor Flav is just as crazy looking in person (smile). I especially love to hang out and listen to live music wherever I can find it. I love everything about water activities; the beach, waterparks, swimming pool, etc. I enjoy working out several times a week in addition to being an avid runner. I have four half marathons under my belt and hope to get a full under there one day soon. I would appreciate having someone who would like to run with me even if it's only a fun 5K from time to time. My daughter and I still roller skate at least once a month as well. Super fun, great exercise, and great music......can't beat it. I would simply love to find someone compatible that would compliment me that I would do the same for. I am looking for a fun loving, understanding, secure man that is open to whatever may happen at the end of this adventure. I have no interest in being a serial dater nor being someone's "girlfriend" at 50:) I am looking for that man who is ready to give his all....faithfully, honestly and openly. The man that is not afraid to be sensitive, sweet, caring, and to show his feelings. However........not a weak man......it's a delicate balance. He must be educated, goal oriented, and one day, if he's so blessed, be able to set a good example around my little Princess.A lot to think about huh? Well a woman with no expectations for her man.........probably doesn't have many for herself either.......hmmmmmm. I would enjoy coffee on a Sat morning or going somewhere to listen to some live music and chit chat. Keep it simple and go from there if you're vibing.

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