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JacklynOffline
Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I am pretty outgoing. I like to stay busy doing something usually out of the house. I don't watch tv or get into sports. I sing and I play percussion in a concert band. I also enjoy a little dancing, going to concerts, listening to a band, playing pool, bowling. I enjoy museums and musicals. I'm very girlie girl. I like sparkly sequins, pinks, purples, blues, black, dresses. i love long necklaces with little trinkets on them, painting my nails, curling my hair, putting on make up. I like to wear heals, and flowers in my hair. However on a typical day I'm showered and out the door in 30 minutes, hair is blow dried at best, no make up. I am back to school, taking 3 classes. Time to focus on myself and use the opportunity to invest in my future. I'm pursueing my BA in Business Management with a double major in Accounting. I already have my Associates and graduated Summa Cum Laude so I definitely apply myself and take my education seriously. My family is large and very close. We have a lot of family days hanging out at my parents. My extended family is huge and also very close. I work full time days during the week. I have my kids full time, they stay with their dad every other weekend. My daughter is 17, a senior in high school and works part time. My son is 12, a 6th grader. My kids have the same dad and we were together for 16 years. I have worked full time since ***, done all my school while working full time with a family. I have my own place, a car, and a car for my daughter. I started young yes, but I have my sh*t together and always have. I don't have all the fancy stuff but I have enough to get by. I am looking for a man at least my age, maybe a few years older than me that has children and that can tolerate music. I perform in auditorium style band concerts a few times a year. DTE is ok but really i get uncomfortable around drunk, high idiots. Singing is a huge plus. I love karaoke!!! I don't drink or smoke, but I do go to karaoke bars. Easy going, go with the flow but outgoing personality is a good fit with me. I take my time to get to know someone. I prefer to message here for a while and see if there is a mutual interest. I like a guy to plan a date and ask me out, something in public where we can just get to know each other. Doesn't need to be fancy or expensive, I am actually a fairly cheap date. However, I am not easy. Don't expect a kiss on a first date, and please if you are not capable of keeping your hands to yourself then find someone else to feel up. Give me a chance to see if I am connected to you. Feel free to send me a message if you are interested in getting to know me. Would like to do something fun and somewhat active. Sitting and talking at a table is one way to meet someone but it seems more like an interview. I am looking for someone with common interests, activities, lifestyle. A connection, not just a checklist. I'm looking for someone who is polite and has an outgoing personality. Lets do something fun where we can laugh and conversate. Karaoke, pool, bowling, putt putt, museums, shopping.
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MaxineOnline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
OK. Cards on the table...D'oh!! I keep adding to this...So, while I totally get this whole MILF thing and can appreciate positive comments, I am not into random hook-ups (my passion's a bonfire when its with someone I love) and will continue being the "master of my domain" until I meet my special dude. I've waited a looong time, I can hold off some more *sigh* lol. Before you go thru the time reading below, I would like to share that my FM (as described below) has flared up and has affected my ability to walk great distances. I am cruising in my new ride these days :) I get up and push through every day, so I am not reliant on Ol'Betsy, just makes getting out (which I love to do) easier. And hey, makes that first date stigma a little less unnerving, no way I'm beating you out the door ;)I am a good ol' canadian chick. I love hockey, cooking/baking and being outdoors. I am suburban over urban. It is rare to see me without my smile and I live for fun. I love life and I truly can find joy and amusement in the smallest of things. Ok, ok - yes I'm a big goofball! ;) My life is highlighted by my 10 year-old daughter. She is absolutely my pride and joy. I am lucky to call such wonderful people my friends and they, along with my family, are the most important things in my life. Although slowed by Fibromyalgia (pain in my joints and muscles/tissues), I push through and try to live life to the fullest. And to be completely honest, there are some bad days...days where I'm stiff (that's what he said lol) I am definately a glass-is-half-full kinda girl. I know that having someone by my side, will make those "movie" days much easier (and oh-so much more fun!!). In my good ol' days, hiking and playing hockey were my passions and I am determined to continue to find my "cure" that will allow me to get back on the trails and ice one day!! Something to be said about me is that I am positive and pretty strong willed. I love trying new things. Would like to find someone who is willing to try/teach scuba diving, skydiving, etc, activities that my body will allow me to enjoy. I am intelligent, confident, generous and outgoing. My faults...well, I can be sarcastic ~funny, not mean; I am very passionate ~sometimes too much so; as I mentioned above, I am strong willed, but have no problem conceding defeat and agreeing to disagree; and I do love to shop ~I have this desire to have my cupboards stocked...its a homemaker thing ~ and yes, I love shoes...its a girl thing (I am proud to say that I'm the queen of bargain hunting)!!! I believe in Karma, paying it forward and that things happen for a reason. I really, really love to learn and feel there is always room for self-growth, be it from meeting new people or seeing new places. Excitement lies with experiencing new adventures.I don't play mind games and demand this same respect back. I want someone who ,can communicate, is open and honest and says what they mean, and means what they say. I am looking for someone real and not someone with a 'cover' identity. I would like to meet someone who is confident and outgoing. Although we'd want to spend time together, he'd be someone who also is comfortable with enjoying time apart. I am hoping to find someone where our chemistry is such that we can have a great night snuggling watching tv then have our passion explode and we can't get each others clothes off fast enough ~ I believe this to be a very important part of a relationship. I've tried the long-distance relationship bit and have concluded that, for the most part, I am not willing to relocate my daughter again. Obviously, if I were blessed in finding my soulmate, well, anything's possible. I am proceeding with this "dating" thing very slowly so don't take offence if it takes time for me to respond. (and to be honest, its a little overwhelming being a girl on this site). Although ultimately I do want a long-term relationship, I really need things to start off as friends and slowly build from there. I have realized that pressure to proceed into something serious too quickly, will deter me and have me backing away. I should also say that,at least for the near future, I have 100% custody of my girl, so my time is somewhat limited. But in saying this, I have found myself feeling lonely lately and craving MY mans arms wrapped lovingly and protectively around me, while he kisses the top of my head. I really do want to find my Forever. (whew...women sure do have lots to say lmao!!)If you are looking for something 'quick', well, move on then 'cause you're barking up the wrong tree.Happy Hunting ;o)MxoxoUPDATE - ok, so I yammered on quite a bit above, but by the content of many of my received messages, a few main points seemed to be drowned in all my writing. I have Fibromyalgia. Its a chronic systemic pain condition that impacts my daily life, much like arthritis. I also am a single-mom of an amazing and very active 10-year-old. Managing these both on my own is very challenging and time consuming - although, my situation has been both a burden and a wonderful blessing. I am receiving disability benefits, and because of my working hard all my life and choosing a wonderful career, I am able to raise my daughter financially on my own. I mention this because I don't want false judgment thrown at me, in that I am looking for someone to pay our way. I do want someone who is well aware of my challenges and knows that I love life and want to share the rest of it with my soulmate. oh...I also should mention that i am currently of a voluptuous body-type (NO, not bbw), but not a stick - I do have curves in ALL the right places ;).. Damn...too much writing again! Lmao! Go-Karts, skydiving, hockey game, cage diving South Africa, pool, nookie kidding!! ;=sister's wedding in the beginning of October ***?? I'm a great travel companion ;)
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LilaOffline
Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
I been divorced for four years I have a grown daughter 22 who is married.I love small dogs, I have a toy poodle who is like my baby.Im kinda a homebody but I do enjoy getting out and spending time with family and friends.I dont get to go to the beach much but I do love the ocean.I enjoy taking walks and getting out especially on pretty days.I hope to find a nice christan man and remarry one day soon.I prefer someone with grown children or no children.When I say grown I mean GROWN! I am NOT looking for someone who is under child support or alimony obligations. My child is grown and married and moved out already. We are very close though and Im always there for her because family is very important to me and I want that to be important to whom ever Im with also.I hope they have a close relationship with there kids and family but when your children are grown a husband and wife can put each other first and that's what Im looking for, "some who will put me first, not second!" On another note I dont drink or smoke or do any kind of drugs and dont care for those who do.I dont have tatoos and I dont like the kind of men who have more than two small ones.I like a well groomed man but i dont mind a little facial hair.I dont like people who curse alot. I know I may sound particular but there are alot of creeps out there and Im just trying to weed out the bad ones LOL! Hopefully they are few of you good ones out there and I hope to meet one of you. I am really down to earth but I do have my standards.I like men who have good old fashion values and who know how to treat a lady with respect.Im easy to get along with and I like to have a good time but I dont do bars and I beleive in actually talking on the phone and hearing a voice before i decide to go on a date with someone.If I have to text you the whole time I will lose interest. I would just like for someone to take me out to dinner on a first date so we could talk and get to know each other. Maybe take an evening walk after dinner or a browse around the mall just somewhere we can communicate.I can be shy at times but the right person always brings out my personality and if i feel comfortable around you i will have no problem knowing what to say.