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Maxine, 40
United States, Washington, Puyallup

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OK. Cards on the table...D'oh!! I keep adding to this...So, while I totally get this whole MILF thing and can appreciate positive comments, I am not into random hook-ups (my passion's a bonfire when its with someone I love) and will continue being the "master of my domain" until I meet my special dude. I've waited a looong time, I can hold off some more *sigh* lol. Before you go thru the time reading below, I would like to share that my FM (as described below) has flared up and has affected my ability to walk great distances. I am cruising in my new ride these days :) I get up and push through every day, so I am not reliant on Ol'Betsy, just makes getting out (which I love to do) easier. And hey, makes that first date stigma a little less unnerving, no way I'm beating you out the door ;)I am a good ol' canadian chick. I love hockey, cooking/baking and being outdoors. I am suburban over urban. It is rare to see me without my smile and I live for fun. I love life and I truly can find joy and amusement in the smallest of things. Ok, ok - yes I'm a big goofball! ;) My life is highlighted by my 10 year-old daughter. She is absolutely my pride and joy. I am lucky to call such wonderful people my friends and they, along with my family, are the most important things in my life. Although slowed by Fibromyalgia (pain in my joints and muscles/tissues), I push through and try to live life to the fullest. And to be completely honest, there are some bad days...days where I'm stiff (that's what he said lol) I am definately a glass-is-half-full kinda girl. I know that having someone by my side, will make those "movie" days much easier (and oh-so much more fun!!). In my good ol' days, hiking and playing hockey were my passions and I am determined to continue to find my "cure" that will allow me to get back on the trails and ice one day!! Something to be said about me is that I am positive and pretty strong willed. I love trying new things. Would like to find someone who is willing to try/teach scuba diving, skydiving, etc, activities that my body will allow me to enjoy. I am intelligent, confident, generous and outgoing. My faults...well, I can be sarcastic ~funny, not mean; I am very passionate ~sometimes too much so; as I mentioned above, I am strong willed, but have no problem conceding defeat and agreeing to disagree; and I do love to shop ~I have this desire to have my cupboards stocked...its a homemaker thing ~ and yes, I love shoes...its a girl thing (I am proud to say that I'm the queen of bargain hunting)!!! I believe in Karma, paying it forward and that things happen for a reason. I really, really love to learn and feel there is always room for self-growth, be it from meeting new people or seeing new places. Excitement lies with experiencing new adventures.I don't play mind games and demand this same respect back. I want someone who ,can communicate, is open and honest and says what they mean, and means what they say. I am looking for someone real and not someone with a 'cover' identity. I would like to meet someone who is confident and outgoing. Although we'd want to spend time together, he'd be someone who also is comfortable with enjoying time apart. I am hoping to find someone where our chemistry is such that we can have a great night snuggling watching tv then have our passion explode and we can't get each others clothes off fast enough ~ I believe this to be a very important part of a relationship. I've tried the long-distance relationship bit and have concluded that, for the most part, I am not willing to relocate my daughter again. Obviously, if I were blessed in finding my soulmate, well, anything's possible. I am proceeding with this "dating" thing very slowly so don't take offence if it takes time for me to respond. (and to be honest, its a little overwhelming being a girl on this site). Although ultimately I do want a long-term relationship, I really need things to start off as friends and slowly build from there. I have realized that pressure to proceed into something serious too quickly, will deter me and have me backing away. I should also say that,at least for the near future, I have 100% custody of my girl, so my time is somewhat limited. But in saying this, I have found myself feeling lonely lately and craving MY mans arms wrapped lovingly and protectively around me, while he kisses the top of my head. I really do want to find my Forever. (whew...women sure do have lots to say lmao!!)If you are looking for something 'quick', well, move on then 'cause you're barking up the wrong tree.Happy Hunting ;o)MxoxoUPDATE - ok, so I yammered on quite a bit above, but by the content of many of my received messages, a few main points seemed to be drowned in all my writing. I have Fibromyalgia. Its a chronic systemic pain condition that impacts my daily life, much like arthritis. I also am a single-mom of an amazing and very active 10-year-old. Managing these both on my own is very challenging and time consuming - although, my situation has been both a burden and a wonderful blessing. I am receiving disability benefits, and because of my working hard all my life and choosing a wonderful career, I am able to raise my daughter financially on my own. I mention this because I don't want false judgment thrown at me, in that I am looking for someone to pay our way. I do want someone who is well aware of my challenges and knows that I love life and want to share the rest of it with my soulmate. oh...I also should mention that i am currently of a voluptuous body-type (NO, not bbw), but not a stick - I do have curves in ALL the right places ;).. Damn...too much writing again! Lmao! Go-Karts, skydiving, hockey game, cage diving South Africa, pool, nookie kidding!! ;=sister's wedding in the beginning of October ***?? I'm a great travel companion ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Basketball Boxing
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