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I'm simple...sarcastic...outgoing and a whole bunch of other good things. I think it would be super awesome to see someone fill this box up with nothing but their flaws, bad habits and raw truth...lol If you can't solve it, it isn't a problem - it's reality. And sometimes reality is the hardest thing to understand and the thing that takes the longest to realize. But once it hits you in the face you'll never forget it. It will always be there in your memories and sometimes that is the best way to look at itThis life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soulmate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.So anywho, It doesn't really matter what I put into this box. A person will always, and only, see what they want to see in another person. I am constantly shifting, and changing, and growing, so it is absolutely pointless to try to describe myself. As they say, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder." It's up to you to learn me, see me as I am, or twist me into something I'm not. I'll give you a few bits and pieces - a starting point, if you will, and then, I'm leaving the rest up to you. I am a very open minded open hearted person. I love everyone and everything. I love meeting and making new friends. I never forget anyone i meet. I'm spontaneous and VERY random. Other times quiet and observant. I am my own person. Own style. I'm very affectionate and love to do nice things for people. I want to live in the moment. I don't care to look at my past. Only my future and what lies ahead. I'm not one to tolerate any bullshit. No attitude No grief...guaranteed that's the end of that. Don't label me cause i have no intention to do it to you. I don't like people who have bad manners,****, self absorbed, stuck up, or rude. I like to do more guy stuff than girly stuff. (but i do like to look nice and girly haha) I tend to hang out with more guys than girls. Lets talk cars, sports and beer lol. Something fun & spontaneous ...I like it when a man plans out the evening for the two of us .. gives me an idea of how creative he is plus its cute to see him sweat a little .. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock English Indian Family & Kids History Horror Mystery War
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