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Essie, 29

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About Me

Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.I handle mayhem flawlessly. I work too much. I'm not too crazy and all my baggage fits in a small carry-on. I've moved around a ton in the past 6 years so I never let my relationships last (it's hard to keep something going when you know you're leaving.Huge sports fan, I love football and hockey, baseball is good too but if you're a Yankees fan we might get in a fight. I'm up for anything that has to do with water or fresh air. I've got a ridiculous amount of energy and am a pretty happy, playful person. I think I'm a riot, my friends usually do too.I like people that know the difference between it's and its, your and you're and their, they're and there. I'm a dog person but had to say goodbye to my fluffy guy a few months ago; it crushed me. Bonus points if you have one that I can snuggle. I'm a photographer but really I get paid to goof around all day making little kids smile. I'm a decent cook 1 out of 6 times but I can make a mean chocolate chip cookie any day of the week. I put "average" in the check box because it seems like girls twice my size were calling themselves "a few extra pounds." Nothing against them but just so I'm not misleading anyone, I'd consider myself a little squishy but curvy and proportionate. I am a big fan of country music but can usually appreciate and find something I like within other genres. I'm very straightforward, I'm a terrible liar so I just don't do it. I'm not looking for a one-night, casual thing so if you are please just skip over me.-surfing lesson. Or go-kart racing or mini golf if you're feeling goofy. Something serious? Maybe a picnic somewhere not too buggy. I think dinner, coffee, or drinks are good but I'd opt not for a movie since you can't really talk. And probably no awkward hand-holding on the first date (you're welcome.)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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