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Helen, 36
United States, Georgia, Albany

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About Me

I'm a single mom and work full time so that's what brings me to the online dating world since I'm not one to go out all the time. I tend to focus on raising my son to be a strong, polite, independent man, work, and on family and taking care of everybody else so think it's time I start "living" as they say. Like a guy that knows what he wants and goes for it. Can't we be two consenting adults that can be friends and do friend stuff and grown stuff. I'd love to meet a chill guy to hang out with, someone that brings me out of my shell or at least makes me want to come out, someone that knows how to have fun. And if it evolves into something more, grrrreat! If not, hope we had fun while it lasted.The great things about life are getting to know people, those like you and those who aren’t like you, those who have opinions that excite you, challenge you and maybe even piss you off sometimes. They can teach you new things about the world and help you discover a new side of yourself you didn’t even know existed. There are still great catches out there! geez Once we hang out and see if we click, then hopefully we can actually be friends and actually hang out and not just when it's convenient for one side.Chemistry isn't always ***, it can be discovered gradually. But, after a certain point, you will know if that spark is there or not, right? And if there's not a spark, we can be gentle and kind and go on our separate mature ways. :) If there is a spark, let's keep it going and let it take us where it may. ;) Beauty on the outside fades away with time, they need to love your heart along with your inner beauty. Otherwise, it’s time to let go. Just because we both order the same food or drink, doesn't make us compatible. ;) .Family-oriented, I like making new friends, would do anything for that special person. I like people who have brains, humor and wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), those who have been through some sh-t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you). Got to be a man that isn't afraid of hanky panky with a BBW and help me with the workouts. Ha ;)Love long road trips on the open highway speeding with the wind blowing through my hair and music on, like hearing life stories over a glass of wine or a cold beer, like to dance (even more after alcohol ha) I want to start to learn to speak a different language, either French or Italian. I plan on getting back to college finish up and get a degree even if I am an old fart. :)I'm actually a pretty chill easy to get along with gal once I get to know you and get pass the initial nerves with the whole meet and greet thing. ha. Been known to be the one that makes everybody laugh but do take some time to warm up around others I don't know or don't know me well. :) But also know when to be serious. ;) Navigate seamlessly between fun and serious, sensual and sexual, romantic and raunchy. :)I'm not picky, I'm selective. And just because I'm a "big girl" doesn't mean I'm desperate and willing to screw anything with a penis.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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