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Monica, 30
United States, Florida, Cape Coral

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About Me

I am a bouncy, outgoing, energetic, career minded 29 year old women looking for the same. I love to have fun and being around active people. I hate sitting around doing nothing. If I'm bored, it's not a good thing. Concerts are a favorite past time of mine. Most of my time is spent out on the boats in summer and snowboarding in the winter. I love trying anything sporty and spontaneous!! My friends are my world along with my beautiful 6 year old son. I hate this internet dating but I've found I'm never going to find the right guy at the bar so here I am. I love, love bright blue eyes! I have a big personality and am looking for someone who is a little ADHD like I am. I know what I want and even more so what I don't! I have to have someone who knows how to stand on his own two feet, who has an opinion but knows it's not the only opinion, meaning is respectful and still good to me. I may need a little reining in sometimes but if you treat me with respect I will be sure to do the same. I do believe that the people you keep close to you are a good indicator of the type of person you are. I need someone who always knows how to have fun. I love being a kid at heart and loving life is what it's all about for me. I work to live, not live to work! I want the person I'm with to be the one sitting next to me in jail saying "That was was F***ing Awesome!" at times, and at times the one putting his foot down and keeping me out of jail. (No I have never been in jail ever so far nor do I intend to be.) I need someone just as outgoing if not more so! Someone who stands out in a crowd and doesn't even have to do a thing. I'm not looking for a nice guy, I'm looking for the RIGHT guy. P.S. Yes! I think tattoos are SEXY! Don't over do it. Things apparently needed to be said: Pet peeve: * That means you too 5'6s and 5'7s! There's nothing worse then going in for a kiss and finding yourself having to bend down to kiss a guy! It sucks! I'm 5'6 and LOVE wearing 4-6" high heels, soooo were looking at 5'9ish at least. I love having sexy calves what can I say. :D * Touchy feely guys! Stop grab assing! Give me my space. * Jealous, overly aggressive meat heads. I have lots of friends that are guys but keep in mind they are FRIENDS! If they were anything more I wouldn't be here and you wouldn't be around. * Relationships have to be built on trust, if I don't have it, you never had a chance. Shady cheaters here's your stop, don't let the door hit you on the way out! * I have a son so I'm not looking for a slob or a frat boy. I'm looking for someone who's established and has his feet on the ground. I love a hard working man with a good work ethic. I need to want to see a future with you, not be making one for you! AND if you've already contacted me and I never responded, it's cause I don't want to! So don't message me again and again and again. Don't make me have to block you, get the hint, I'm trying to be nice about it. And for those of you that don't get "it" in lame ass terms: She's just not that into you! ....and if you've taken the time to read all this Thank you and feel free to shoot me a note, just be sure not to write something as simple and boring as "Hi" or "How's your day going?"! *** Need I say more? ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Chinese Greek
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