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United States, California, Norwalk

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About Me

Simply put, I'm complicated. I have two teenagers, full time, and both have very busy lives. I have a full time job, as a preschool teacher for special needs children... :) I have several pets, a house, a car, and commitments.... The pictures are current. What you see is what you get. I'm not thin, drop dead gorgeous, or rich... But I'm happy.Dad wanted a boy, but was blessed with two daughters, so I've been raised to take care of myself. I know how to change a flat tire, unclogg a drain, and rewire a lamp (after the cat chews thru the cord). I own tools... and not the creepy pink set they sell at Walmart. I love puzzles, reading, and lots of other stuff, just ask.I'm a fighter. I've survived cancer, a bad marriage, and an even worse divorce. I refuse to judge you based on my ex. There are good men out there. I know, my dad's living proof. And through all this, I've discovered that I'm stronger than anyone gave me credit for, including myself....I enjoy my life, but I miss having someone to share things with. I don't need you to complete me... I'm fine the way I am. I'm finally happy, and just looking for someone to add to that happiness. You don't have to impress me. I can hold my own in just about any social situation, but I prefer "simple"...). Rocking chairs, porch swings, sweet tea, ice cream, holding hands, counting stars, catching fireflies.... Simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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