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About Me

Simply put, I'm complicated. I have two teenagers, full time, and both have very busy lives. I have a full time job, as a preschool teacher for special needs children... :) I have several pets, a house, a car, and commitments.... The pictures are current. What you see is what you get. I'm not thin, drop dead gorgeous, or rich... But I'm happy.Dad wanted a boy, but was blessed with two daughters, so I've been raised to take care of myself. I know how to change a flat tire, unclogg a drain, and rewire a lamp (after the cat chews thru the cord). I own tools... and not the creepy pink set they sell at Walmart. I love puzzles, reading, and lots of other stuff, just ask.I'm a fighter. I've survived cancer, a bad marriage, and an even worse divorce. I refuse to judge you based on my ex. There are good men out there. I know, my dad's living proof. And through all this, I've discovered that I'm stronger than anyone gave me credit for, including myself....I enjoy my life, but I miss having someone to share things with. I don't need you to complete me... I'm fine the way I am. I'm finally happy, and just looking for someone to add to that happiness. You don't have to impress me. I can hold my own in just about any social situation, but I prefer "simple"...). Rocking chairs, porch swings, sweet tea, ice cream, holding hands, counting stars, catching fireflies.... Simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Frieda

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Well, i took my profile off for a bit... but it turns out things werent as i thought they were, so here i am again... Lol. HONESTY IS KEY! I'm looking for a friend first. You cant get the butterflies and fireworks without that. I want to find someone to hang out and watch goofy movies with, yet can have an intellectual conversation. Simple things are my favorite, but the ability to accommodate other situations is a must. LOL. I love college football. I have favorites... but a td at the end of a 96 yard punt will make me scream. I love to read and I'm rarely serious... See first line of this profile. (: I'm not a fan of writing autobiographies...***EDIT***So, one would assume this wouldn't need to be said, but here's some automatic deal breakers:1. Married. 2. Most of your coworkers are in college or hs. (grow up and get a big boy job)3. Obvious form letter style msgs, "hi", or any other clear indications that you didn't take the time to read my profile. If you can't think of anything to say. .. Say that. Lmao!4. Requests for nude photos, or requests for permission to send your nude photos to me. 5. Anyone who isn't local. If you drive hours to meet me for coffee... I really must question your sanity. Lol.6. DISHONESTY! Not really a first date, but a meeting for coffee or a walk in the park. Talk and get to know one another and decide if we want to go on a first date.

  • Neva

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have given to the sea of nothingness. I haven't been able to find anyone that is true to what they say. I have discovered that almost everyone on here is looking for the skinny, well pretty girls. I'm sorry that I am not that person, I have illnesses and injuries that prevent me from being that type. The one I like is you talk to someone, either by text or phone call for awhile; then you meet that someone and they don't even have the courage to tell you that they are not interested, they just rather *** after the last text. I have a heart that is willing to share, but it has been hurt a lot by so many that I find it difficult to see a partner in life. I have had a horrible amount of bad luck and bad relationships that I was hoping to find a little break and luck. So I wish everyone the best of luck with their search I am here to find happiness. I do have animals and I am a big animal lover. The person I find must love animals, because they are my children. I don't have kids, nor can't, so they fill that void. I love to go fishing and camping. I like to take photos of many things. I love being surrounded by nature, wish I could be there now. I hope not offend anyone but I just can't (nor my mom,lol), stand that boy. I will have to say that I am not into the games that some play. I have a big, caring heart that I would love to share. I am quiet at first till I learn more about you. Trust and communication are biggest deals in a relationship. If you don't agree please carry on. I am a huge believer in my gut *** I can usually tell by the eyes and words someone speaks. I work with the elderly and disabled and I love my job, although it can be stressful at times. I spend a lot of time with my animals. I am ready to find that true love people are always talking about. I need someone that will stand beside me not in front or behind. I want someone that is true to themselves as well as others. I want a man with true values and knows how to show respect. I wish everyone the best at finding their true love.

  • Deidre

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am spontaneous, independent, honest & laid back with a sense of humor. I can relax in jeans & a t-shirt or go all out in a dress & heels. Love being a Mom to a 9 year old daughter and enjoy spending time with family. I like a cold beer on a hot day, enjoy trying new restaurants, weekend getaways or just chilling out at home. I've been told I am a great cook! My taste in music varies -; Comedy Central Roasts.Not looking for players, liars, bull shitters or those who thrive on drama! Not looking to date anyone outside of NC. Something low key - so we can talk and learn more about each other.

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