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Phoebe, 40

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About Me

Simply put, I'm complicated. I have two teenagers, full time, and both have very busy lives. I have a full time job, as a preschool teacher for special needs children... :) I have several pets, a house, a car, and commitments.... The pictures are current. What you see is what you get. I'm not thin, drop dead gorgeous, or rich... But I'm happy.Dad wanted a boy, but was blessed with two daughters, so I've been raised to take care of myself. I know how to change a flat tire, unclogg a drain, and rewire a lamp (after the cat chews thru the cord). I own tools... and not the creepy pink set they sell at Walmart. I love puzzles, reading, and lots of other stuff, just ask.I'm a fighter. I've survived cancer, a bad marriage, and an even worse divorce. I refuse to judge you based on my ex. There are good men out there. I know, my dad's living proof. And through all this, I've discovered that I'm stronger than anyone gave me credit for, including myself....I enjoy my life, but I miss having someone to share things with. I don't need you to complete me... I'm fine the way I am. I'm finally happy, and just looking for someone to add to that happiness. You don't have to impress me. I can hold my own in just about any social situation, but I prefer "simple"...). Rocking chairs, porch swings, sweet tea, ice cream, holding hands, counting stars, catching fireflies.... Simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Simone

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Just getting started on this site. Happy with myself, love life, crazy about my kids. Looking to start a new chapter in my life. I'm low maintenance, just like to spend time talking to each other over coffee or a drink.

  • Angela

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    What I want and am looking for in a partner/friend: I am looking for someone that truly puts their family and the person they care about as a priority not just say they do. I am looking for someone that puts effort in planning and doing things together in advance, both in the beginning and as the relationship builds, showing respect for my time and yours. I do enjoy time to myself as well and feel it is good to do things separate also, but with balance. I am a normal simple girl, who is looking for a man who knows and understands what integrity, honesty, chivalry, respect of a woman, faithful and someone who is a man of his word ALWAYS, not just sometimes. I am a busy person, but I will always make time for the people in my life I care about and dating and looking for the same. I am being very upfront about my expectations in a partner so I am not wasting anyone’s time and vice versa; no games or chase I won't do it. It takes time for a relationship to grow meaning I am not looking for Mr. Right now, but am looking for someone who will take the time to get to know me and spend time with on as frequently as we can around our life responsiblities of course. I don’t need material things to be happy, it’s the time and sharing that makes me truly happy and will keep me happy, you know doing things with and for each other and with family and friends, I think that is how you get to know someone and what they are truly about. I am looking for someone who would support or even participate in my personal interests, just as I would do for my partner. Family is extremely important to me and my serious partner must share that interest with me, all other interests are negotiable :). Of course I do feel it is important to do one on one things with just my date and doing things that involve our child/children also, I believe in a good balance of both in time. I do not feel or believe that my child should meet someone his Mother is dating until the relationship is more serious. I love my family above all and my job allows me to be there for my family whenever needed. Although this is not a deal breaker, I would probably be more compatible with someone who has children, someone who would accept my child as I would accept theirs or someone who does not have children but open to accepting mine as the full package.I am looking for something that would have a good potential of turning into long term relationship. Thanks for reading and I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to send me a message if you think we may be a good match. Meet for conversation and dinner or a fun activity.

  • Saundra

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Fun loving, adventurous female with an optimistic outlook on life. I'm a pretty spontaneous gal and I'm into expanding my knowledge and life experiences. I've been married and raised two great daughters who I am very close with and are a big part of my life. I am interested in developing a new friendship and if the chemistry is right... take it from there. My musical tastes include Country, Alternative Styles, Rock. Meet for coffee or drinks or skydiving!

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