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Rachel, 40
United States, California, Norwalk

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About Me

I am a 40 year old widow who tries to enjoy life to the fullest. Ilove to do just about anything if it is outside. Ihave been known to be hard headed and stubborn, however I do know whento back down and let things go.I have two kids who are my biggest pain in the bum as well as the joyof my life. My son is 21 and though he has his own place tends to beat mine more often than not. My daughter is 17 and will be startingher last yr of high school this year.I sometimes think that my standards may be a little to high, but cannot seem to bend them. I expect the guy I am with to treat me as wellas I will treat him. I will not tolerate infidelity in any shape orform. The first sign of it gets my foot in your bum, and your bum outmy door and life! I want someone that is good with there hands andknows how to fix things. I do not want to be the one pulling out thetools to do it myself. Yes, guys I can use most tools right alongbeside you and not scared to get my hands dirty or break a nail. Onthe other foot I clean up nice and love to put on my heels(have a verynice collection of them- is kinda my bad habit) for a night out on thetown or a little romance at home. I expect to be pampered and spoiledbut will return the favor! I also expect a man to WORK, you know thatthing you do where you go somewhere everyday and come home with apaycheck every week. That does not mean that I will be sitting at homeon my bum( unless of course it is one of my three weeks of vacationtime). I am not a big drinker so it is important to me that the personnot make that an every day thing. I am not a skank and will not be treated like one. If all you want to do is talk about sex and my boobs, keep moving cause I am not the one. You want more pictures of me ask, but I will not send naked ones or even ones that are questionable.My interest include but are not limited to, horse back riding, Jetskiing, boating, camping, fishing, RIDING ON THE BACK OF A MOTORCYCLE( that one ranks pretty far up there)working outside in my yard. Mynewest is scuba diving. I am working on my certification right now andwould like someone who is at least willing to try it. I also love to travel whether it is a over night trip or a week at a resort. I am game for just about anything. Not into the bar scene. You go to bars for two reasons... To get laid and to get drunk. I have more respect for myself than that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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