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Cathleen, 29
United States, Illinois, Elgin

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About Me

I am a pretty easy going woman. I am the type that is pretty much up to trying anything at least once. I am very much the creative type,the more I can use my imagination the better. I love photography and have dabbled in it for a while now. my dream would be to have my own studio one day, but for now its just a hobby. I am a mother to 5 wonderful kids. They are my world and I could not imagine life with out them in it. Most guys will be scared off by this information so its a great way to weed out the not so great fits for me. lol So if your not a kid person, you need not apply. ;) I am looking for a man that knows how to treat a woman. I am NOT looking to play games or even hook up, I have had my "fun" and its long time to find someone I can have a real connection with. Some one who understands that not every day will be great but that the good days will always out weigh the bad. I have been hurt pretty bad in the past and despite my fears of it happening again I am putting myself back out there to try are find the real thing. (it has to be out there some where right?) Someone who isn't afraid to commit or show how they feel. Honesty is major for me, if you cant be honest I don't want to have anything to do with you. I put it right up there with cheating. I am a little bit goofy and like to have fun. I am also a pretty sensitive soul. I try to keep a guard up when I meet someone new, to protect myself. so I will most likely seem a bit indifferent at first. I want a guy to plan the day/night. I love to be surprised and I think it shows that you actually care when you plan something rather than just "see what happens" or "do what every you would like." apparently chivalry is dead art form these days.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance
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