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Luella, 42

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About Me

Well for starters, I'm a nurse, a Christian, and a single mom of 2 (almost grown) kids. The older they get, the more time I have and I would like to find someone to do things with and have fun. I am looking for long term and would eventually like to get married, however, those things take time and I'm in no hurry. I want to take my time getting to know someone, what they like, and how we click. I'm very laid back, optimistic, drug / addiction free, outgoing, attentive (like to give and receive), happy, responsible, funny, and I like to enjoy life. I don't need someone to complete me, but I want someone to compliment me and enjoy life with me. I'm not interested in anyone who is just looking for hook-ups or casual sex (although sex is very enjoyable with the right person). In addition to this, I'm not interested in anyone who is jobless, married, separated, addicted to anything, depressed, Bipolar, and is not seeking the same type of relationship I am. Life is short, I know what I want, and I won't settle. I love to conversate w/ someone who is intelligent and has a sense of humor, I like to do most outdoor things, grilling with friends / family, movies (in or out), anything involving the water (I am scuba certified and would love to do that more), hot tub w/ a glass of wine, most music, walking / hiking, dancing, singing (didn't say I was good ) kissing w/ someone who enjoys it, and I'm always open to new ideas. Other questions? Ask, I'll tell anything ya want to know :) Somewhere quiet with a glass or two of wine where we can talk and really get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lindsey

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a big believer that a person manifests the life they focus on creating. I am a dreamer, and a hard worker at the same time. I think it's important to learn from everything that life presents, even though it's sometimes difficult. It's so important to be able to communicate with a partner, even when the subject might be difficult, or scary. I am a very understanding person, and there is always a solution, in my mind. The one thing I find I lose patience on, after awhile, is when there isn't action to back up someone's words. We all have things we strive to do, and sometimes, things fall to the side, but if this is a rule, rather than an exception with you, we won't get along. I'm being honest so as to not waste my time, or yours. I am a woman of action, and I am seeking someone who has a similar approach to living. I'm very active in creating the vision of the life I want, and I'm always looking for signs and guidance from the Universe and world. My work at this time enables me to travel the country, and the blessing of my career so far has opened up so many opportunities, and I am grateful for all of it. A new chapter is on the horizon for me, and just what it will be is still incubating. Meeting someone who enjoys building things with beauty, style, and finesse would be incredible. Nature provides such an amazing backdrop, and a healthy, comfortable, beautiful home in the woods would be a slice of heaven in my mind. Animals and the natural world have, and always will be a huge part of my life, so it's important to me that my significant other can appreciate animals and nature. I LOVE to snorkel, scuba dive, and go sailing. Camping, hiking, and picnics near a river or lake are high on my list also. Enjoying this world, compassion, passion, a sense of humor, emotional connection, physical attraction and communicating each day are key elements for me in a relationship. As I said, I've always been able to be a loner, and I still have an independent part of myself; but I so value the close-knit relationships I have in my life. Yes, I do need alone time, but that allows me to recharge, and be my best with the ones I love. I am seeking someone who can be there for me, as I am a very loyal person who stands by those who have her heart. I love to travel, go on ecotours and help other people. A vacation to just relax is great too, but giving back to others reverberates exponentially. Sharing that with someone who can be my complement and equal, who is centered, balanced, happy, comfortable with who he is, and excited by life would be an amazing gift. I believe that we are all individuals, and cultivating who we are adds depth to our relationships. I am seeking a partner to walk shoulder to shoulder with through life, supporting each other, to create an amazing life. I will be working on improving myself until the end of my days, and am looking for a man who is comfortable with who he is, but doesn't settle for mediocrity. Someone who will truly be a student of life. I know that a loving, passionate, strong partnership is one of the most incredible experiences a person can have in life. Disclaimer #1: Please, if you don't have a photo, don't say you'll send a photo to my *** I have provided photos of myself, and it's only fair to reciprocate. Disclaimer #2: I travel around the US with my work FOR NOW, not forever. I love my work, and it serves the purpose of reaching some goals. I have other aspirations, and ideas to bring to life, so no, this is not a lifelong lifestyle choice. Circumstances change, opportunities arise, and when that special person and I click, my path will adjust accordingly in order to be together. Something involving a nature-filled place, like an arboretum, Japanese garden, or aquarium. A place to walk, and talk, and see if there are sparks.

  • Marci

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    hi...im a single mom giving this dating thing another shot

  • Blanca

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a 38 year old that has 3 kids all over 18 but 1 lives at home. I am divorce. I am looking for some one to date and go out and have a good time. I enjoy going out to dinner, movies, and going out to listen to music. I love scary movies the best but action, drama, comedies, romantic, thiller well all movies are good for me. I think I have nice eyes and a great smile. I am over weight but I still think I am a great person. I am divorce but only cause my husband cheated. I am disabled only cause I hurt my back and I had surgery. I had a ***chance of it fixing my back but it didn't. So I am on here looking for a nice, sweet, respectful guy to go out and have fun and then see where it goes. My perfect 1st date would be the guy coming a pick me up taking me to dinner then a movie and maybe out for drinks where we can talk. Then him bringing me home walking me to the door saying goodnight and off he goes.

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