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Lindsey, 40
United States, California, Redwood City

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About Me

I am a big believer that a person manifests the life they focus on creating. I am a dreamer, and a hard worker at the same time. I think it's important to learn from everything that life presents, even though it's sometimes difficult. It's so important to be able to communicate with a partner, even when the subject might be difficult, or scary. I am a very understanding person, and there is always a solution, in my mind. The one thing I find I lose patience on, after awhile, is when there isn't action to back up someone's words. We all have things we strive to do, and sometimes, things fall to the side, but if this is a rule, rather than an exception with you, we won't get along. I'm being honest so as to not waste my time, or yours. I am a woman of action, and I am seeking someone who has a similar approach to living. I'm very active in creating the vision of the life I want, and I'm always looking for signs and guidance from the Universe and world. My work at this time enables me to travel the country, and the blessing of my career so far has opened up so many opportunities, and I am grateful for all of it. A new chapter is on the horizon for me, and just what it will be is still incubating. Meeting someone who enjoys building things with beauty, style, and finesse would be incredible. Nature provides such an amazing backdrop, and a healthy, comfortable, beautiful home in the woods would be a slice of heaven in my mind. Animals and the natural world have, and always will be a huge part of my life, so it's important to me that my significant other can appreciate animals and nature. I LOVE to snorkel, scuba dive, and go sailing. Camping, hiking, and picnics near a river or lake are high on my list also. Enjoying this world, compassion, passion, a sense of humor, emotional connection, physical attraction and communicating each day are key elements for me in a relationship. As I said, I've always been able to be a loner, and I still have an independent part of myself; but I so value the close-knit relationships I have in my life. Yes, I do need alone time, but that allows me to recharge, and be my best with the ones I love. I am seeking someone who can be there for me, as I am a very loyal person who stands by those who have her heart. I love to travel, go on ecotours and help other people. A vacation to just relax is great too, but giving back to others reverberates exponentially. Sharing that with someone who can be my complement and equal, who is centered, balanced, happy, comfortable with who he is, and excited by life would be an amazing gift. I believe that we are all individuals, and cultivating who we are adds depth to our relationships. I am seeking a partner to walk shoulder to shoulder with through life, supporting each other, to create an amazing life. I will be working on improving myself until the end of my days, and am looking for a man who is comfortable with who he is, but doesn't settle for mediocrity. Someone who will truly be a student of life. I know that a loving, passionate, strong partnership is one of the most incredible experiences a person can have in life. Disclaimer #1: Please, if you don't have a photo, don't say you'll send a photo to my *** I have provided photos of myself, and it's only fair to reciprocate. Disclaimer #2: I travel around the US with my work FOR NOW, not forever. I love my work, and it serves the purpose of reaching some goals. I have other aspirations, and ideas to bring to life, so no, this is not a lifelong lifestyle choice. Circumstances change, opportunities arise, and when that special person and I click, my path will adjust accordingly in order to be together. Something involving a nature-filled place, like an arboretum, Japanese garden, or aquarium. A place to walk, and talk, and see if there are sparks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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