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VirginiaOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
At this point, just want to hang out and have some fun. If it becomes more, great, if not, no big deal. Just to be clear though,; I want to be in a real, committed, loving, long-term relationship but I understand, you must have chemistry and "date first" to see, if they're the right one before taking the next step into a relationship. I don't believe in using people or leading them on and don't want any man that would be willing to do that to me either. We are not children and honesty should be a given. I'm ready to enjoy life with someone and hopefully find that rare, special love, that everyone dreams about. I'm willing to give it my all, you must be too! Not here for FWB's....you can find that anywhere, nothing special about that. Please be upfront about your thoughts and/or feelings. I will respect you for it. Even if you tell me, "Thanks but you're not what I'm looking for in a relationship"....I will appreciate it. You just saved us both a lot of valuable time. I'm not snobbish or rude but I don't have time to reply to every message and when I did reply with a polite, "No thank you", I started receiving hate mail and men wanting to argue their point. FYI: If I wasn't interested before, I'm definitely not, after something crazy like that...I don't understand the concept of convincing someone you are right for them. I respond to those profiles or messages that capture my interest and ONLY I KNOW WHAT CATCHES MY ATTENTION. Of course, physical attraction is first but it requires a lot more to keep my attention. Looking for my own perfect combination...not perfection, because none of us are! Which includes; chemistry, looks, respectful, sense of humor, personality, morals/values, substance too. I prefer to keep a SMILE on my face and enjoy life! I am mostly a fun, loving, very social & outgoing, kind-hearted, sweet, strong, happy and down-to-earth woman with the intent to keep as much drama, away from my life, as possible. My life is not perfect and I've had my share of issues over the years so I worked very hard to cut out drama-filled people from my life. Don't get me wrong, I am very supportive of my loved ones and I know that in today's World, a lot of us have to deal with the Ex's concerning children, etc. I understand that but If you have continuous drama with Ex's/old girlfriends who are constantly calling and texting with all their issues or acting as if you're still together....Stop right here. I'm not the one for you. I raised my 3 children as a single parent; 2 are adults and out living their lives, and I have 1 teen son still at home. Also have 3 grandchildren. Yes, I'm a Grandma (still sounds odd but I love every minute of it, haha!). ***I can NOT have more children but have no issues being with a man who has children and treating them as my own. I love kids and family is extremely important to me. Family is always first! How a man interacts with his family is VERY important to me. My family is very close including parents, siblings, kids, cousins, etc. Although I have a big heart, I am not a pushover and have a very stubborn side too. I was raised as an Army Brat so I've experienced a lot of the world and I'm very adaptable in most situations and settings. You will probably never see my mean side but I assure you, it exists, lol! I'm definitely an outspoken and opinionated woman so if you prefer the quiet, soft type...we are probably not a good match.I spend most of my time working and with my family. My youngest is at the age, where it's not much fun to hang out with Mom anymore, so I find my free time has increased. When I have free time away, I'm out and about with my friends enjoying lots of things like; dining out, local hotspots, dancing, riding on the back of a Harley, live music, movies, shopping, shooting pool, museums, concerts, festivals, the parks, the lake or beaches in FL, etc. I love flowers, yard work (it's very relaxing and peaceful), hiking, bicycling, picnics, camping, cooking out, canoeing or even just sitting outside on the porch late at night watching the lightening bugs (aka fireflies, haha), Vacationing at the Beach, the lake, the pool...definitely a warm weather person and enjoy Spring thru Fall. Not much on Winter months, except for the Holidays with family and friends, but it is a great time to snuggle up :-) I am focusing on self-improvement and a healthier lifestyle. I'm making great progress, so far; getting ready to start back to College (again) to finish my degree, eliminating negative things/people out of my life, eating better, lost weight and working out..still some things to work on but I'm much happier now and I have my goals set on moving forward from here. I want someone who has some focus on improving their life too. Feel free to message and ask questions, only way to know if we might be a good match. Depends, very open on this, just treat me with respect, make me laugh and let's have a great time and get to know one another. Usually something short and sweet, like lunch, drinks, ice cream, etc. is a great way to start and then go from there. If no connection then we don't have to spend hours together but if we like one another, we can always extend the date or plan the next :)
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FannyOnline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Hi How are you? Ok, here it goes, it is like a cover letter for a (job) interview... I like someone who knows what he wants, is serious and takes the effort to actually meet. I respect my self and don't like to play games with strangers. We all are strangers on these sites. I love to make friends and share the fun things life has to offer! Good Character, creativity and intelligence- education, an open mind, courage are all a HUGE turn on for me! With that, integrity, honesty and innovative creative thinking. I prefer someone professional. Sorry, I am straight forward and do not like to waist time meeting the wrong people. I still believe in eye to eye contact, the connection, the attraction and perhaps love... Of course I am open to friendship as well! That often goeshand in hand. I also believe what one does is what counts and not what one had the intention of doing! However, your intentions have to be good!Good Character goes a long way!!.. wow, what a world of difference.....I am compassioned, passionate, creative, reliable and educated and in good shape. I love the arts, museums, galleries, politics, one needs to be in touch with what is going on in the world! Be in touch with reality not "reality TV". I like sushi, spicy food, tea, cappuchino's, cooking, movies, music, travel to great places;. Europe... I like to travel, the Arts, outdoor activities, horseback riding, hiking, biking, skiing!! tennis, golf and Hot yoga. Friends tell me I am fun to be around and absolute not boring, or high maintenance. Again I am European! I like to be around people who can make me laugh and are interesting! I do love the outdoors, It is fun to share things with the one you have feelings for... I live a healthy and fit life style. I am looking for someone who is stable, yet loves his job and his family, he has to be loyal to kids in general!He has to be positive and confident and can carry on a conversation. I have an open mind which has nothing to do with having sex on the first date or second. I am not interested in casual encounters! Sorry.Books, lot of non-fiction.....It is important to me to have fun and respect each other's lives, eventually....All you need is chemistry! The rest does not matter! A first date should be low key and not too long...see how it goes. An idea is to meet near the beach, or for a coffee? It all depends on the date, the conversation, the chemistry and the physical attraction... It can be anywhere.. preferably outdoors.
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GlennaOffline
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I'm hopelessly optimistic. I'm excited about life. It really is an adventure and a gift that I try not to take for granted. I love travel, food, things and people who make me laugh, music ( I sing in a choir right now- would love to find someone to do open mics with me (know any guitar players?), and I love living the good life in the most over-the-top ways and, perhaps more so, in the most simple of ways. Relationships are important to me- family, friends, mother earth; and I really enjoy sharing experiences with others. I also value health and fitness which is reflected in what I do to make a living. I like playing tennis, beach volleyball, biking along the beach strand, going for an easy jog. I always enjoy trying new things- taking random classes, trying new restaurants, and traveling to new places. There is something to be said about the old reliable, too- going to a favorite cafe, going to a favorite getaway spot, going to see a favorite band play live for the Nth time, a lifelong friend. I appreciate the old and the new. I love the beach. I love feeling the sun's rays. And I can't be too far from the ocean for a long period of time. Maybe because I'm a water sign.-) to where I live now, and also living in HI and Sydney, Australia in between... Let's see what mood we're in and start with something laid back and comfortable for us both...