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About Me

I'm fun-loving, successful, independent and resilient. I have an amazing son and family and friends that inspire me everyday. I'm truly blessed with their love and support. I love both places but this is home now. My favorite thing to do on a regular basis is to hang out on a patio and grill especially during football season! Also like going out to dinner, festivals and any live music. I like all genres of music and movies but prefer Rock and comedies. My ideal match would have similar interest, experiences, goals and faith but also bring his own uniqueness to show me new adventures. Chemistry is everything and it starts with a great sense of humor and attraction. I'm ready to find the one but know it takes patience and meeting new people. First date can be dinner or meeting for drinks or coffee as long as its somewhere for good conversation. But I'm not opposed to trying something different like having someone teach me how to hit a golf ball better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Suzette

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Well I'm back..... I'm not goin to sit here and bore you with a long story... I want someone who is goin to complete me, be my other half, support my ideas and ambitions... I enjoy being spontanious... Listen to just about all types of music n enjoy almost all types of movies... Im just as comfy stayin in as I am goin out for the nite.....If you are into lying, cheating, or are in a relationship already then move on. I want someone who is genuine n true to one woman and one woman only.. I'm not looking for some hook up or one- nite thing... If that's what you want then move on.. I have a daughter, who is my world, that deserves the same respect I get... We are a package dealI have a lot of tattoos and plan on more. So if ur not crazy about ink then we probably wont work.... I try to workout at home, and some days at the gym (MMA training), I just want to be fit again but still maintain my curves.. lol... With this I am also trying to quit smoking. I'm not classic girly girl so no I don't mind getting dirty. I do know some things about cars n would love to restore one someday... I returned to school in May to obtain my 2nd and 3rd degrees... never to old to keep learning...Also, a message of just "Hi" or "hey sexy" or something along those lines will not get you a response back. If you are going to message take the time to actually say something. If I don't respond back it's probably because I am not interested. Not trying to be a b*tch, just keeping it real here.....Update ***I'm not some size 6 tiny chick and I never will be and I don't think I'm fat or overweight (cause I'm not)... I have curves, I think for myself, and I speak my mind... that doesn't mean I don't care about myself, that I don't take care of myself or that I'm a bad person.... I'm sorry but some of you guys really need to check your ego at the door....Update- Seriously, if you don't have time to date, see someone, or build a relationship, why are you on here in the first place?!?!? I will not be anyone's down time, spare time or part time... so if you don't have time then please move on to the next woman because I won't waste my time.... something simple for the first date - Meet up for coffee, dinner n drinks or go to a quiet bar to talk.. see what happens from there..Summertime a nice walk downtown, mini golf or something... whatever we are both comfortable with.If you love ink maybe go for new tattoos... gotta be different ;)

  • Leslie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I WILL NOT RESPOND IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURE AND IF YOUR UNDER 5'9 .. Nothing personnal against men who are 5'8 and below I just prefer men taller than myself. If you don't get a response theres nothing wrong with you... just not what i'm looking for, we all have our preferences. Tks for understanding. So here we go ...i'm 37, single women. I'm not a skinny woman and i've been told that i wear it well. I'm a laidback kinda of girl who loves to laught and crack jokes . I'm a little shy at first but I warm up quickly. I'm addicted to horror flick ...actually movies in general. I adore dancehall, roots reggae, R&B, hiphop and many more types of music. Love to travel as much as possible and hang out with some friends when i'm not busy. Please don't send me a message unless u have a picture. Now that i have your attention i can tell you what I'm looking for on this site.I’m looking for a man that not all about the outside shell even if the person is good looking it doesn‘t compare to what this person is like on the inside. He’s not looking for perfection cause it doesn’t exist. This man has a certain je ne sais quoi about himself. He’s cute in his own way and having an amazing smile doesn’t hurt either. He would make me laught and crack jokes with me. He would like to cuddle with me and sometimes take care of me. He can deal with a women who has her own mind and ideas. I have a thing for tall men so that would also be a plus.. oh yahhh…. This man is either single or fully divorced. (I dont want the old "it' s not going well" OR "she's not there for me" story line). He is an honest man who works and take care of himself. He’s not looking for a mother, a maid or a(BED BUDDY)… he wants something real and eventually longterm. Is this is you? If not, please click on the search button and keep on looking.. Tks for your attention. Show up!

  • Mona

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Well let's see....I am a professional woman, but not a snob.If you consider having my nails done "high maintenance", well then I am.I am very comfortable with myself, but always looking for ways to improve both physically and mentally.I talk A lot! So if you can't carry on an intelligent conversation or just listen to me ramble then I'm probably not the lady for you.I'm a firm believer in everything in moderation, my life is in good balance and I hope yours is too.I'm looking for a life partner that loves to laugh, has a good work ethic and last but not least,...a gentleman. I'm not looking for a hookup or more friends, I have plenty of friends and hope you do too.I do not date outside of my race and am not interested in anyone much younger than I am.Well here's the closer,..... If you have actually read this far and would like to chat send me a message. This is kinda silly,....don't we all know a first date feels like a job interview. So since we all get nervous and sweaty at job interviews.... Let's take a bottle of wine and find a cool or at least shady spot to talk!

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