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Marissa, 39
United States, Massachusetts, Lowell

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About Me

Ok.. UPDATE!!!!!I am not here for a hook up or a pen pal or text buddy so if that is what you want, move on. If you do not have RECENT pic (or no pic) on your profile, move on. If you intend to push me for more pics or even entertain the thought that I will send you any sexy pics, move on, it will not happen. If you think I'm going to 'give it up' on the first date, get the hell outta here and don't even waste my time. If you can't go more than 2 days without drinking, I'm not the one you want, you need AA..Now.. with that being said....I love to laugh and can be a little witty and sarcastic. I am blunt and honest. I have these random spurts of being hyper and all around silly. I am a confident person who's kind, smart, trustworthy, supportive, loving, outgoing, down to earth, and respectful. I want someone who opens the door for me, is the first to call, and isn't afraid to show their feelings. My friends would say I'm easy to get along with, quirky, honest and fun. I'm looking for my best friend and someone who can put a smile on my face :) I've raised 2 of the greatest kids ever! I am an empty- I am an animal lover and have rescued many and placed them in forever homes. I have 2 of the coolest cats you'll ever meet. I do love dogs and would love to eventually have a pitbull (or mix) but I work ALLOT and it would not be fair to the little guy to be home alone all the time. Speaking of work, I love to travel so my job is perfect for that. I do not travel FOR work but I am able to go wherever for an awesome discount! Sooo.. my bucket list is pretty long and I'm looking for someone to help me check some places off! I work for a major airline (no, not a flight attendant) and do everything short of fueling and flying. I work mostly outside so no poking fun at the 'tan lines' ha! I'm looking for someone to spend my down time with who will treat me like a lady should be treated, tell me about his day, ask me about mine, maybe hold my hand while we watch tv and not *** while we're in the same room... I don't mind ink, I have a few tattoos myself ;) I love live music but haven't been out in a long time. I like dining out but I'm just as happy staying in and cooking. I'm an amateur photographer, I like to go for walks in the woods behind my apartment and photograph whatever wildlife I can find. I'm a closet karaoke junkie and I'm just starting to learn how to play guitar. Sorry I don't have many pictures of myself to put on here, I'm usually the one behind the camera. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other better, maybe listen to some live music over a couple of drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Music American Greek Indian Action Adult Rodeo
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