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Selena, 39
United States, Massachusetts, Lowell

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I have a happy life with family who love me and friends who would do anything for me. I like to stay busy and am almost never bored. I love to laugh and do it as often as possible. The single life has not been at all bad, but recently I have found myself craving something more. I wish for someone special to be with me trekking new territories, sharing history and making life an all-out blast! I joined this site with the hopes of finding my someone special. While I do love to travel, see and do new things, explore and absorb as much as the world may have to offer, I am not a party girl, bar hopper, or stay-out-all-night-raising-hell kind of girl. From time to time, I may join friends in watching a mutual friend's band play at a local pub. I'm not a complete stick in the mud, and I love letting my hair down, but I don't go to these type places in search of my next date. I'm hoping this site has more to offer than the local pub. I truly do want to meet someone who is interested in being in a committed relationship when the time is right. I am not looking for a pen pal, text buddy, or *** you contact me, please have intentions of eventually calling and meeting face to face. I'm a snuggling, cuddling, come get a little closer while watching tv kind of girl... A hand holding, whispering in your ear, sneaking a kiss in public type of girl... I am affectionate and I encourage the same. I am not, however, a space invader, and know when it is or isn't an appropriate time for such actions ...so guys, you can now let out that breath you've been holding since you started reading this paragraph ;) I am a devoted mother, but an empty nester. My eighteen year old daughter moved in with her dad two years ago. While we have an unconditional love for each other, there just seems to be so many more things higher on the list than hanging with her parents these days (go figure!). Needless to say, I have had A LOT of idle time on my hands. I returned to school (almost finished! yippee!) while working a full time job, took up a few new hobbies, redesigned parts of my house, and then realized I STILL have a lot of time on my hands. Sooooo.... let's go find something to get into!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Middle Eastern Portuguese Spanish Turkish
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hard working female, who loves music, family, friends and people who appriciate and value of GOOD PEOPLE in thier life. I am no non sense and have been know to be very strait forward, blunt and directly to the point, I DO NOT tolerate BS, GAMES, DISHONESTY or UNCERTAINTY. I am a dedicated person and I am loyal to people in my life so if you have a girlfriend, baby mama (still messing with), or live in female PLEASE read on to the next canidate. I work hard and I am a provider so my time is valuable to me and I do not tend to just give it away and sacrifice taking it from other people and things that value it so PLEASE respect it.I am a sweet heart with a BIG HEART, a good woman who has been blinded by false intentions from people that seemed sincere. I have learned from my mistakes and put on my bifocals so seeing alot clearer now. I am still hesitant on this dating thing because there seems to be more and more people in this world looking to lie, cheat and manipulate. Guess my faith is still pure and because I have such a beautiful familty and friends who feel I need to continue to meet people because they believe "Gods Plan" is still in motion when it comes to me.I am a firm believer that "If you dance with god, he will let the RIGHT man cut in". My feet are beggining to hurt so hopefully soon he will let that person cut in and let me go..... LOL :)It would be nice to finally meet someone who is real and doesn't change over night into a complete stranger, someone who listens and contributes to communication, someone who is honest about thier intents and someone who isn't hesitant or a procrastinator. Someone who would like to have a good person in thier life. I value the little thing in life more then I do crazy extravagant things or moments. I am simple and its easy to touch my heart with small minor little attempts. If he was raised by a GOOD LOYAL DEDICATED woman, he will know exactly what a GOOD LOYAL DEDICATED woman would appriciate on a first date, I am not materialistic nor do I have any expectations besides RESPECT and FOCUS.

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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