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Brenda, 45
United States, California, Bell

Offline, last seen Tue, 16 Jun 2026 08:30:52

About Me

Hi! I’ Money and status mean nothing to me as long as you work hard at what you do. In my eyes, a man is measured by his character and kindness. I’m a professional by day – but a barefoot babe at night. I love the earth, believe in God and am a budding naturist and homesteader. I’m silly, upbeat, optimistic, intelligent and not materialistic. I believe in the power of natural medicine and the importance of taking time to smell the air, drink in the earth’s beauty and let my soul relax. I’ve slowed my life down and love early mornings on the deck enjoying a good cup of coffee and my dogs playing. I can ride b*tch for hours – down the road to nowhere or across the country. When I come home from work, the professional clothes are changed into a summer dress or leggings with a surf shirt – and always bare feet.I want an “all-in” partner. I want someone who stands by his word with strong ethics and integrity. I want a man who is a man, yet is tender and gentle with me and not afraid to show a little affection in public. Pick me flowers from the side of road, take me to a picnic on the beach or read to me with my head in your lap. Give me your time – the most important thing you can give to a woman is your time. I want a man who will take the time to get to know who I am inside and out – I’m unique. I’m creative, artistic, yet analytical and grounded. I’m an emotionally strong woman and need someone who can be stronger than me and be my rock when I waiver. I’m far from perfect inside and out. If you understand that, then we’re golden! I’m not a heavy drinker, don’t use drugs, not a whore, violent or batsh*t crazy. I’m extremely open and honest. I won’t lie to you or hide anything from you; my pics are all less than a month old. Dishonesty is the worst way to start any kind of friendship or relationship.I’ll let you be you. I won’t try to change you. That’s just not me. I won’t yell/scream, throw things or engage in arguments – I’m better than that. But be prepared for a whole lot of playful bantering and silliness. I’ll treat you with gentleness and sweetness no matter how big and bad you might be. If you want a sweetheart who compliments your strength (but it strong in her own right), contact me.*** If I favorited you, I am interested. But I prefer a man to make the first real move... If I didn't, I doesn't mean I'm not interested, just perhaps thought you may not be!*** Something sweet and quiet... Starbucks at the beach or lunch at a little outdoor cafe'. But nothing serious or heavy, just meet one another and see what's there between us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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