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Erna, 44

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About Me

I am a Teacher by career & a forever student of life by choice. I have been told I radiate passion about my work and, for this, I am greatful as I am able to do what I love for a living!; enjoy beautifying my home by gardening (veggies & flowers & currently lots O weeds too!)....though currently my garden is quite wild and untended! I have more than 10 tomato plants, that somehow "magically" re-seeded themsleves from last summer, and are perhaps competing against one another to produce the best fruits (& they are yummy!!!!)I am passionate about the power of certain things/energies to transform lives, including MUSIC (which i loveLoveLOVE), movement, Yoga, and above all, the act of contributing, in some way, to the well-being of others : ) The preferred listening in my car is currently NINA SIMONE(always my Nina, she's my #;Gigi", Common,Dead Prez, Esperanza Spaulding.... old Godson is w/me (underline age FOURTEEN...please don't admit if you're over 30 & I have aspirations to travel again to East Africa and would love to reside there for several months, maybe even a year. I love traveling but prefer to be amongst the people who live where I journey..........I am NOT a resort gal, nope not at all...i much prefer the "off the beaten path" route.... lol Yes I voted for OBAMA and yes, I still love him, support him and stand by him; so if you are a "loyal" republican I am quite sure we will not be a match & for sure if you are "pro-life"/anti-choice we will NOT get along....I am proud to have been an "escort" for Planned Parenthood (refered to as a "Deathscort" by the "pro-lifers")& I tend to think women are stronger/smarter (lol) then men (sorry if that pisses u off, im just being honest!)........Hmmmmm what else to add here....oh, any day i'd prefer jeans & my converse sneaks over "dressing up" yuk, i am def not a fancy/dress-up and go out clubbing type of gal....I am NoT at all interested in the kind of car U drive but i do want to know what drives your HeARt's passion........i love this little saying,"Injustice Anywhere is a Threat to Justice Everywhere," cuz it sure is & usually when i see an injustice, i don't keep my mouth shut! do you? Something that stimulates conversation & discovery of each others values, interests, aspirations, dreams....it's not so much the place that matters as the person and his/her heart and the connection and energy between 2 people....big plus if u can make me laugh without me knowing you're trying lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elaine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I will start off with, All photos are current. I will not send you any R rated photos so if that is what you're looking for..... sorry.....not going to happen. I would expect the same from you. I have seen enough *** pics from this site to last a life time. Lol....I'm not here to waste anyones time. That being said, everyone sounds great on paper but you really have to meet in person to see if there is any chemistry. If there is not, fine we are all adults and can move on. Yes I actually meet. Its called a meet and greet not a date. Just an hour maybe 2 and I wont blow you off or blow you as far as that goes. LolI am a independent woman with a good job, very stable and loves to laugh and have a good time. My few extra pounds is in my B double O TY.....Yes.... Baby..... Got..... Back and I Just Can't Lie! Lol I am that person that when we are in public people will think we have known each other forever. I have a great personality and I enjoy life. Life is to short to be unhappy. I have confidence and a great sense of humor. I listen to all types of different music from country, rock, Hip hop, R&B, and jazz. I have a love for sports of all kinds. I have 2 active teenagers that play football, softball, basketball and baseball. They are a big part of my life and yes they live with me full time. I love kids of all ages and they tend to like me too. I love to cook and host parties with family and friends. I enjoy the simple things in life from Patios, firepits, long walks, laughing and talking. I love the outdoors from sunsets, sunrises, camping, hiking, fishing, or just hanging out by the camp fire. I don't need a fancy dinner or a night out on the town. Just a drive, a walk, a drink of your choice and friendly conversation.

  • Fay

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a real positive thinker and hate negativity in a person. I enjoy the company of people who are confident and know what they want in life. I'm a classy lady, looking for a chappy who will be proud of me, and enjoys the finer things in life! I love travelling and have seen the world several times over! I dont see anything wrong in public displays of affection, in fact I love walking hand in hand, cuddling and kissing....I'm an independant gal, looking for an ambitious, successful man...When I say independant, I guess what I mean is that I dont need to rely on a man to live my life...I like being treated like a lady and with respect...so if you find that intimidating I'm not the one you are looking for...Best to be honest from the start...In my case, what you see is what you get...SO...If you think you could handle someone who is passionate, considerate and loving....then I would love to hear from you!Please make sure you have a photo on your profile. No photo, no reply... If you dont have photos, you are obviously trying to hide something.... I'm open to offers....impress me!

  • Lacey

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    PROFILE UPDATE: I feel I need to update a little and hope people get this. I WILL NOT sleep with you when/if we first meet! That's not why I am on here! I'm very active and like to excercise so if you don't take health anf fitness seriously I'm most likely wrong for you! I'm very laid back but I have found being on this site you need to be pretty blunt with people. Lots of people look at a pic and don't read the profile. I will I am a very honest fun loving person who is looking for the same! I like to let my inner child out a lot! I enjoy almost anything outdoors. I like flying kites as well as relaxing under the stars having good conversation. I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who has honest, true and pure intentions. I don't play games so don't play them with me. If you are interested that's great if not just be honest and say so. I am a big girl I can handle it.I love being active and trying new things. I'm a country girl at heart who has southern values. I take my relationships very seriously, after all if you don't your not going to get anywhere.I'm a little old school when it comes to relationships. I am looking for someone who is down to earth, laid back but also likes to have fun. They say there is someone out there for everyone so we will see. I'm not in search of a HOOK UP or FWB!! If that's what you want good luck in your search but I'm not the one for you!!! I'm looking for a person who can be my best friend as well as my partner. I love to cook and I'm a clean person. What ever you want to know just ask! It's to hard to explain yourself, it's much easier to have a conversation with someone. I could tell you anything on here but, you never really know until you talk with the person. My idea of a great first date would consist of anything outdoors. It doesn't really matter what it is. I just think the outdoors are relaxing. I'm open for suggestions though.

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