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Zelma, 43
United States, California, Bell

Offline, last seen Sat, 14 Feb 2026 04:30:12

About Me

I love my life, however I would love to find that special person. I do not "need" someone, I would just like to find the right person. I am confident and independent. I would be grateful to find a partner that I get along with in the long term. I want someone that I would like being with, whether while having fun or taking care of business. We would need to have some common grounds, and refine each other's understanding of our roles in the relationship. Loving one another while respecting each other's differences and individuality. Communication skills and the ability to compromise would be valued traits. A cornerstone would be the ability to establish and attain common goals.The basic qualities I am looking for in a relationship partner are the same qualities that most of my friends possess. Honesty, trustworthiness, thoughtfulness, sense of humor are just a few of those qualities. Naturally, we would have to have the chemistry that would make it easy for us to be mutually happy together in the long term. Okay, that was totataly hard to write.So, I am also totally sarcastic and love to joke around. I love to laugh and have a good time. I like to garden, ride my motorcycle, BBQ with friends. Love all kinds of music, but mostly rock. I love to travel ..play cards and anything outdoors. Not into games and please no drama ...I want a man who knows how to be a man and handle a situation if it occurs.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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