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Lynda, 41
United States, California, Bell

Offline, last seen Sat, 14 Feb 2026 01:44:31

About Me

Sooo........I am rewriting this as i think it came off much too serious because i seemed to be getting a lot of messages from.... well nevermind....just the wrong type of guys. Anyway I'm super outgoing and funny according to most other people. I love to laugh and talk openly about just about everything. I'm pretty adventurous and it can get me into trouble sometimes. I do NOT drink. I don't mind being around others who do occasionally. I am a, professional, completely self-sufficient woman and single mother with 3 children, 6 year old boy/girl twins and an 18 year old who recently left home to attend U of O. I am a Christian and a partner needs to be also. I am NOT religious, though I am spiritual and I go to church. Whew I know "scarey" huh? Well not so much.... It's a very cool church. Took me 10 years to find it. I am looking for a partner and a best friend who believes in God as growing spiritually. I prefer someone who has children of his own and a stable career. He needs to be fun, intelligent, passionate, affectionate, honest, consistent, active and outgoing. I tend to be attracted to taller men though I'm not overly concerned with appearance. Only the serious need apply. If you out just for fun more power to you... been there done that, not there anymore so please don't bother me just because you think I look good. Also pass me buy if you haven't gotten over your last relationship ending. I'm looking for an equal partner, not a client to fix. People on here who are full if it are a dime a dozen and annoying. I am willing to wait for the right person but also not going to play text/message games for weeks and I prefer to do that old fashioned thing called talking on the phone...I am intelligent, resilient, independent, outgoing, funny, affectionate, loyal, loving, generous and very passionate emotionally and physically. I do not like drama.... trust me, men can be just as bad as women. I'm also a bit forgetful and disorganized at times, but I think that's because I am so busy lol. And I'm usual at least a little late for just about everything.Most importantly, we are also a very sports active family.PS...If you lie or have ever been told by anyone that they think you have a drinking problem I am not the one for you. Doing something fun that we are both terrible at... like bowling :) The true test of a person's character is how they act in humbling situations lol ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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