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Melba, 32
United States, New York, Elmhurst

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About Me

I suffer from an insatiable wanderlust. I love the world and all it has to offer, and I am always seeking new experiences and unique adventures. Next on my travel bucket list?I am open-minded and I'm witty. Friends call me sassy, and the shoe fits. I love to laugh. I love to cook. It's one of the many ways I show love. I love to try new things.I am also a curvy girl, and I adore it. I DO take care of it. I know my body is my vessel for doing the things I want to do and accomplishing my goals, so I try to take care of her with a healthy diet, Zumba and weight training with my trainer. I love to be out in nature, too. I get exercise but also usually have some kind of cathartic spiritual experience. It's win win. Anyone willing to go hike with me gets double brownie points. And possibly even brownies.Music is a passion of mine, and so is film. My favorite local band is the Features and I try to champion them every chance I get. I love checking out the live music scene at 3rd and Lindsley and have discovered great artists there. My favorite genre is the singer/songwriter genre. The lyrics move me and I find myself equal parts in awe and jealous over the talent I a lucky enough to witness.;the" But I'm not. I also adore books, and I am an aspiring novelist. Words yield a power like nothing else...they can hurt, they can maim, but they can also transcend, connect, dispel, propel...you get the drift. I devour them. I love them short, I love them long, I love them in different tongues. The smell of a used book shop warms my heart. I love the musty smell of old pages, and opening an old book.-time favorite things to do.I'm in the legal profession by way of the music business. It's a long story, but I'm where I'm supposed to be for now. Other things I adore?It's hard to really define myself on this thing. Of course I love to laugh, love to goof off, love to travel, and am open-minded. I'm definitely not going to say "Well, I'm a Debbie Downer, and I hate my life, and I hate my job, and I'm a bigot, and oh yes, I think you suck." It is what it is. But if you'd like to say hi and see if I pass the bullcrap polygraph test, send me a message. We can decide that together if we get to that point. Deal?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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